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Brandon Builds - On my way back to Austin
- Thread starter Bman
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- Jan 19, 2021
GOATED BMAN UP & STAYING UP
We are gonna grow this place a tonne, B, and we're gonna make a real difference.
And any way we can support you with your mission, we'll have your back.
-Ravi
We are gonna grow this place a tonne, B, and we're gonna make a real difference.
And any way we can support you with your mission, we'll have your back.
-Ravi
- Joined
- May 21, 2022
- Goal
- Serve
- Age
- 30
Appreciate you, Ravi. Keep kicking ass.
- Joined
- May 21, 2022
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- Serve
- Age
- 30
So I've been publishing articles on my FetLife similar to ones I've been publishing here. It's started to create an influx of girls DM'ing me and being direct (or at least direct in girl speak).
When I first started my FL two years ago I obviously got 0 girls reaching out to me. After I got going in the community, I'd get one every so often. About a year ago I'd get about 1-2/month opening me. Now it's about 1-2/week. One day, it could be daily. I'd never consider myself an influencer, but I guess that's where I'm headed at this rate.
Here's the ones in the last couple weeks. Notice I don't even have to be that gamey or over the top with them. I'm pretty much just asking screening questions to move the convo along, which isn't even needed really other than I want to know. Also you might ask why I didn't just grab the number then - it's because I don't want them to text me and bother me till I'm in TX anyway. I have feeling they'll wait. And if they don't, there will be others anyways. Not worried about it.
Blonde Brat:
Daddy's girl:
Well spoken girl:
This one was funny because I didn't reply for a few days, and when I went to reply she had either blocked me or deactivated her account. If she blocked me, guessing she got embarrassed. No biggie - she's 49. lol
Newbie girl:
When I first started my FL two years ago I obviously got 0 girls reaching out to me. After I got going in the community, I'd get one every so often. About a year ago I'd get about 1-2/month opening me. Now it's about 1-2/week. One day, it could be daily. I'd never consider myself an influencer, but I guess that's where I'm headed at this rate.
Here's the ones in the last couple weeks. Notice I don't even have to be that gamey or over the top with them. I'm pretty much just asking screening questions to move the convo along, which isn't even needed really other than I want to know. Also you might ask why I didn't just grab the number then - it's because I don't want them to text me and bother me till I'm in TX anyway. I have feeling they'll wait. And if they don't, there will be others anyways. Not worried about it.
Blonde Brat:
Daddy's girl:
Well spoken girl:
This one was funny because I didn't reply for a few days, and when I went to reply she had either blocked me or deactivated her account. If she blocked me, guessing she got embarrassed. No biggie - she's 49. lol
Newbie girl:
Holden
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- Apr 18, 2021
Co-signed. I started being more verbose (and in my opinion, just a tad bit insufferable/pretentious) in my Feeld convos and it has done wonders for getting girls on dates. Just typing a paragraph with some expensive words where I'd previously just use a curt sentence.
It's long been a personal annoyance of mine that girls on these apps try to make it an essay-writing competition. They probably want to filter out the brutish "hey want sum fuckk???" guys who swarm these apps so I get it, it just comes across as extremely conceited to me.
However, I can't argue with the results when I lean into it, color my prose a bit purple, and watch the engagement skyrocket.
Might experiment with these long essays on Fetlife too and see if something similar happens to me.
It's long been a personal annoyance of mine that girls on these apps try to make it an essay-writing competition. They probably want to filter out the brutish "hey want sum fuckk???" guys who swarm these apps so I get it, it just comes across as extremely conceited to me.
However, I can't argue with the results when I lean into it, color my prose a bit purple, and watch the engagement skyrocket.
Might experiment with these long essays on Fetlife too and see if something similar happens to me.
AskTheDom
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- Joined
- Jun 4, 2022
- Goal
- get fit
- Age
- 39
Ahhh such a good conversation starter
We know that female porn is written and not watched ( or at least, partially consumed, they look for specific things to "relive" that fantasy/feeling of the day)
So on apps / places like feeld and FL makes much more sense to paint the world with words and bring to life things that are ethereal like "vibe" "connection" and take feelings and sensations amplified.
In reality, most of guys are just fake doms as Brandon said, not because they lack the physicality or even the mental strength, just they aren't able to deliver what is really the key here: make her feel it.
As I wrote a bagillion times anywhere and everywhere, a Dom is not a guy with a whip or a fancy black suit and silk tie, a true Dom yield his internal power and use it to make feel the submissive it is best placed in his hands to deliver what she craves, and there is no better convincing than her feeling this is the best choice.
Also, @Bman by your actions, activities and sticking out your neck for what you believe, you show some attractive traits, I can point as a man at least to 5: leadership, preselection, courage, carefree, competence - I would argue that is not your great writing and looks that get the inbox flowing, but also those things added to the mix that makes it impossible to pass on you
We know that female porn is written and not watched ( or at least, partially consumed, they look for specific things to "relive" that fantasy/feeling of the day)
So on apps / places like feeld and FL makes much more sense to paint the world with words and bring to life things that are ethereal like "vibe" "connection" and take feelings and sensations amplified.
In reality, most of guys are just fake doms as Brandon said, not because they lack the physicality or even the mental strength, just they aren't able to deliver what is really the key here: make her feel it.
As I wrote a bagillion times anywhere and everywhere, a Dom is not a guy with a whip or a fancy black suit and silk tie, a true Dom yield his internal power and use it to make feel the submissive it is best placed in his hands to deliver what she craves, and there is no better convincing than her feeling this is the best choice.
Also, @Bman by your actions, activities and sticking out your neck for what you believe, you show some attractive traits, I can point as a man at least to 5: leadership, preselection, courage, carefree, competence - I would argue that is not your great writing and looks that get the inbox flowing, but also those things added to the mix that makes it impossible to pass on you
- Joined
- May 21, 2022
- Goal
- Serve
- Age
- 30
@Holden, that's worked well for me on Feeld in the past, too. At the very least, I know it attracts a woman I'd enjoy having a conversation with when we meet.
For other guys, I'd really think a similar strategy could work on either Facebook with Facebook dating or Instagram. On FB you'd have to have a profile of good photos and consistently publish for your particular niche/ social circle stuff they care about. Instagram same thing, except your going to have be more looks focused for either photos or videos. I have the advantage that my market is already pre-sexualized. If you did something similar on another platform, your challenge would be building a sexual frame. Of course, I've not personally done this elsewhere, so it is speculation.
I'm considering doing a 365 day project posting a photo of me with erotic caption written in a way to evoke a fantasy for this very reason.
Absolutely agree. Which I would argue are my more attractive traits. I'm a pretty decent looking guy, but no where near the top percent for looks that's required to compete on a primarily looks based app like Tinder. My hunch is this is one of the reasons I always did better on apps like Hinge & Feeld, where there is just a little more room to showcase these qualities. FetLife just has a ton of real estate for your profile that I can really let it shine.
For other guys, I'd really think a similar strategy could work on either Facebook with Facebook dating or Instagram. On FB you'd have to have a profile of good photos and consistently publish for your particular niche/ social circle stuff they care about. Instagram same thing, except your going to have be more looks focused for either photos or videos. I have the advantage that my market is already pre-sexualized. If you did something similar on another platform, your challenge would be building a sexual frame. Of course, I've not personally done this elsewhere, so it is speculation.
- Joined
- May 21, 2022
- Goal
- Serve
- Age
- 30
Currently in Denver on my way back to Austin, which is the halfway point from Seattle.
As I was driving yesterday I was reflecting on how it was a random Tuesday in the middle of October, and the only people on the road were semis, older couples, and nomads like myself. I'm pretty much living the retired life going south for the winter that people work forever to get.
Got to see the beautiful fall colors through the mountains of WA and ID, catch the hills get painted purple in UT from the sunset, and the gorgeous red rocks of CO.
I'm about to stop at my ex-wifes place, take a shower, and let the dog run for awhile while I work today. I just find it amazing to still be able to keep a relationship with me ex that's cool enough for me just to shoot her a text and ask if I can stop at her place.
It's all made me incredibly grateful to be diligently creating a life I want and making the most of our short time here.
As I was driving yesterday I was reflecting on how it was a random Tuesday in the middle of October, and the only people on the road were semis, older couples, and nomads like myself. I'm pretty much living the retired life going south for the winter that people work forever to get.
Got to see the beautiful fall colors through the mountains of WA and ID, catch the hills get painted purple in UT from the sunset, and the gorgeous red rocks of CO.
I'm about to stop at my ex-wifes place, take a shower, and let the dog run for awhile while I work today. I just find it amazing to still be able to keep a relationship with me ex that's cool enough for me just to shoot her a text and ask if I can stop at her place.
It's all made me incredibly grateful to be diligently creating a life I want and making the most of our short time here.