Ahhh such a good conversation starter
We know that female porn is written and not watched ( or at least, partially consumed, they look for specific things to "relive" that fantasy/feeling of the day)
So on apps / places like feeld and FL makes much more sense to paint the world with words and bring to life things that are ethereal like "vibe" "connection" and take feelings and sensations amplified.
In reality, most of guys are just fake doms as Brandon said, not because they lack the physicality or even the mental strength, just they aren't able to deliver what is really the key here: make her feel it.
As I wrote a bagillion times anywhere and everywhere, a Dom is not a guy with a whip or a fancy black suit and silk tie, a true Dom yield his internal power and use it to make feel the submissive it is best placed in his hands to deliver what she craves, and there is no better convincing than her feeling this is the best choice.
Also,
@Bman by your actions, activities and sticking out your neck for what you believe, you show some attractive traits, I can point as a man at least to 5: leadership, preselection, courage, carefree, competence - I would argue that is not your great writing and looks that get the inbox flowing, but also those things added to the mix that makes it impossible to pass on you