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Core Masculinity University: Weekly Inner Game Podcast

Bros,

Coach D, with me as Co-Host, will be dropping value on Inner Game, Masculinity, dating, relationships, success, and how to WIN in life, love, and the pursuit of happiness.....

Please consider dropping us a sub, and supporting this project!

This, alongside IronWill, are my core projects. As we grow CMU, we'll have a steady flow of new users into our forums, to do the work, and create the community and brotherhood we seek.


Excited for all the transformations and success we will achieve, together

-Ravi
 

How Anxiety Is Different For Men In Self Improvement

The war within us, the conflict, can end....

That is the beginning of finding our core again​



-Ravi
 
The #1 Skill Most Men Are Missing How to Ask for Help Without Feeling Weak #mentalhealth #confidence

It can take a while for guys to be ready to open enough to admit they have a problem

And for so many, THIS is what it will take for you to actually open your own mind, to see what your true core issues are

Coach D x Ravi - CMU

We're building a movement, and want you with us

The studio is being built, and our format is gonna change in the next few episodes....

Like, comment, subscribe!


-Ravi
 
Good content, I like the hard recognition of reality. Its cool. Be interested to hear about your takes on peterson. D antidote to nice guys to stand up for yourself and self worth is great advice. How far can we push that in the current reality? Wheres the balance between selfishness and self worth

I have some feedback about the videos.

Not sure if you need to introductions, it’s been Ravi and D for all the interviews so far. It seems idk like weird why would D be welcomed to the show when it’s his show?

4:50 in till i get to some meat of the video about the punbaji culture. I’ll be honest, I’m usually jumping 1-2mins in with all the videos to skip the fluff.

I really think the guy fawkes mask is played the fuck out, it 4chan / anon own that + it gives CMU no visual identity for other people to latch on to, maybe painting it some colours or another mask that isn’t already associated with a movement could work.
 

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Your Whining About LOOKS But HOT GUYS Get USED By Women

SLAPS FROM THE HARLEM LEGEND, COACH D.............


This is about BECOMING......Leading, inspiring, creating

Are you truly building your platform on sand, or stone?

Looks, fade.......

-Ravi
 
Good content, I like the hard recognition of reality. Its cool. Be interested to hear about your takes on peterson. Dantes antidote to nice guys to stand up for yourself and self worth is great advice. How far can we push that in the current reality? Wheres the balance between selfishness and self worth

I have some feedback about the videos.

Not sure if you need to introductions, it’s been Ravi and D for all the interviews so far. It seems idk like weird why would D be welcomed to the show when it’s his show?

4:50 in till i get to some meat of the video about the punbaji culture. I’ll be honest, I’m usually jumping 1-2mins in with all the videos to skip the fluff.

I really think the guy fawkes mask is played the fuck out, it 4chan / anon own that + it gives CMU no visual identity for other people to latch on to, maybe painting it some colours or another mask that isn’t already associated with a movement could work.
Thanks bruv, we'll start monthly calls in Jan & crush it.
 
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Question: Is The Dating Market Rigged Against Brown & Asian Men?

...No.

It's harder.

It's not just you. We admit the raw truths, and we don't shy away from the honest and blunt realities.

We pull no punches, and say it like it is in this one.

If it upsets you or pisses you off, good. Me and D lived this.

I came up in just about the most awful environment for socialising and dating imaginable. A brown in the 90s, in industrial, blue-collar England, before social media, where the only thing people in my local communities had seen in the media about people who looked like me, was absolutely horrendous.

So when I got endless, endless negative experiences, and coudln't make anything happen, I was let down by the game and pick up community, and until I found Coach D, and changed my destiny. I wish that someone would have told me the truth and just listened to me to help me understand the experience I was having.

Under Coach D, there was no victim mindset, and I have squared this area of my life away to where I am looking for a serious relationship now. Inner Game is KING for me, and my journey is a different one now, with CMU.

But there is NOTHING that can stop an inspired and motivated man from becoming successful in his life.

Please, before you judge us for being blunt and raw, we ask you to just LISTEN.

You may not agree. That's fine and we are still a brotherhood.

But it's important we base our thinking on reality, and not fiction.

Otherwise, there is no point us even doing this at all......

For brown and Asian men, we'd rather be your wakeup call, than everyone's cup of tea.

How does this resonate?

 
Question: Do you think masculinity is under attack, or are men just getting softer?

The double standards, the manipulation, the way men are shamed for standing their ground—it’s REAL.

We’re being told to sit down, shut up, and apologize for being masculine.

But guess what?

Strong men build strong societies. Weak men get controlled.


What’s the #1 thing modern men need to fix TODAY?
 
Q: Why Will Most Men Not Achieve Their Potential?

Most men live and die weak. Not because they lack intelligence, ambition, or opportunity—but because they refuse to face the truth about themselves.

They spend their lives chasing external validation, avoiding discomfort, and running from the deep work that truly matters. But there’s another way.

In our latest video, we break down:

Why most men fail to achieve unshakable confidence and remain stuck in mediocrity.
The brutal truth Stoicism teaches about breaking free from weakness.
Practical steps you can take TODAY to start building true inner strength—not the fake confidence you see on social media.


This isn’t for everyone. But if you’re ready to:
👉Face the hard truths about your life.
👉 Rebuild your confidence from within.
👉 Step into your true masculine power...

Then this video is for you.

What’s Holding You Back?

Ask yourself: What’s one fear or weakness I’ve been avoiding? Drop your thoughts in the comments, or DM me—I’d love to hear what’s on your mind.
 

The Hidden Reason Why Most Men Are Unhappy (And How to Fix It)

Extremely important & why this community led to so much unhappiness......

Because we were sold a CON

Most men are stuck in a loop, chasing women, chasing success, validation, and external wins, only to wake up one day feeling completely empty.

Happened to me and why I stopped posting here and nuked all the relationships I had here

The truth? Fulfillment doesn’t come from what you achieve, it comes from who you become

.If you’re watching this, ask yourself: What’s one area of your life where you’ve been outsourcing happiness instead of building it from within? Drop it in the comments. Let’s talk about it.


 
🚨 Women Test Men – And Most Fail Without Even Realizing It 🚨

If you’ve ever had a woman say:
❌ “Are you always this serious?”
❌ “I don’t know if I see you as that kind of guy.”
❌ “Why should I listen to you?”

And you didn’t know how to respond, you failed the test.

Here’s the truth: Women don’t test to play games—they test to see if you’re solid. If you get reactive, over-explain, or try to prove yourself… you just exposed weakness.

But when you hold your masculine frame, stay grounded, and trust yourself—that’s when she feels your strength.

🔹 Why do women test?
🔹 What are the 3 types of tests you’ll face?
🔹 How do you pass EVERY time without getting reactive?

🎥 We break it all down in today’s CMU video: Why Women Secretly Test Men (And How to Pass Every Time).

👉 Watch it here:

🚀 Drop a comment below after watching—what’s one test you’ve faced recently, and how did you respond?

#MasculineFrame #CMU #CoreMasculineEssence #MasculineConfidence
 
Masculine Confidence is NOT What You Think (Do THIS Instead) 🚨

If you’ve ever struggled with:

❌ Second-guessing yourself around women

❌ Overthinking what to say or do

❌ Feeling like your success doesn’t translate to dating success

You’ve been missing the key to true masculine confidence.

Here’s the truth: Confidence isn’t about faking it. It’s about becoming solid in who you are at your core. When you trust yourself—no matter what’s happening around you—that’s when the respect and attraction follow.

🔹 Why confidence is about internal mastery, not external validation
🔹 The key difference between fake confidence and real, grounded masculinity
🔹 How to unlock your true masculine essence (the secret to being unshakable in every area of your life)

🎥 Watch it here: Masculine Confidence is NOT What You Think (Do This Instead)

👉 After you watch, drop a comment below—what’s one area where you’ve struggled with your confidence, and what action are you taking to fix it?

#TrueConfidence #CMU #MasculineEssence #UnlockYourPotential #SelfTrust
 
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🚨 Modern Men Struggle to Lead – Here’s Why 🚨

Most men think leadership is about talking louder, acting tougher, or demanding respect—but real leadership isn’t about proving yourself. It’s about embodying unshakable presence and self-trust.

If you:
❌ Hesitate before making decisions
❌ Struggle to command respect in work or relationships
❌ Feel reactive instead of certain in high-pressure moments

Then you’re not leading—you’re waiting for permission. And that’s why you’re stuck.

True leadership comes from internal mastery. The moment you trust yourself, move with certainty, and execute without hesitation, people naturally follow.

🔹 Why do most men lack leadership presence?
🔹 What are the key traits of a truly dominant man?
🔹 How can you develop an unshakable masculine presence starting today?

🎥 We break it all down in today’s CMU video: Why Modern Men Struggle to Lead (And How to Fix It).

👉 Watch it here:

🚀 Drop a comment after watching—what’s one leadership challenge you’ve faced recently, and how did you handle it?

#MasculineLeadership #CMU #CoreMasculineEssence #LeadWithPower
 
🚨 The Masculinity Crisis – Why Men Feel Lost in 2025 🚨

If you’ve ever thought:
❌ “Why do I feel stuck, even though I’m doing everything ‘right’?”
❌ “I have success, but something still feels missing.”
❌ “I don’t feel the drive, confidence, or leadership I should.”

You’re not alone. Modern men are lost because they’ve been disconnected from their Core Masculine Essence™. Society pushes weakness, hesitation, and validation-seeking—leaving men without the confidence or purpose to truly lead.

But here’s the truth: No one is coming to save you. You either reclaim your internal power, or you keep drifting.

🔹 Why are men feeling more lost than ever?
🔹 What’s the real cost of living without masculine direction?
🔹 How do you rebuild your confidence, presence, and leadership from the ground up?

🎥 We break it all down in today’s CMU video: The Masculinity Crisis: Why Men Feel Lost in 2025.

👉 Watch it here:

🚀 Drop a comment after watching—what’s one area where you’ve felt lost, and how are you working to reclaim it?

#MasculinePurpose #CMU #CoreMasculineEssence #LeadWithPower
 
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