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A Relentless Pursuit - A Full Log of Dating Apps, Approaches and Fitness

RelentlessCal

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Jan 26, 2022
I've spent since October just building the habit of going to the gym. I had no real goal in mind, I just wanted to get into a routine of going so I knew that I could actually commit to it and it's gone well.

I went from 165lbs to 143lbs, cutting my body fat from around about 25-30% down to about 20%, but there's still a long way to go. I've decided to pick up A Workout Guide, as recommended by Andy, and I'm doing a 4-day split whilst remaining Keto. On top of that, I've replaced the abs part with a more intense 20-minute ab routine to really help supercharge the results.

It's going to be another couple months until the results become more impressive but here's my current position:
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You can ignore the scars; I get cut up occasionally.

Outside of that, I set up my Dating apps on Friday and I'm currently testing as much as I can. They all have the same pictures you can check out here:
https://tinder.com/@callumnotthatscott
I'm going to need to upgrade them at some point, but right now my priority is to get in shape and just keep plowing through.

Have a bunch of differing profile bios, to try and work out what's gonna work best:

Tinder:
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Hinge:
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Bumble:


I am beginning to hit a wall though; Hinge and Tinder are telling me I'm out of potential matches, so I think I've been swiping a bit too intensely recently. I've probably messaged about 500-600 girls on Hinge and probably swiped the same amount on Tinder.

With the exception of 1, all of my other 7 tinder matches have not responded, and 3 other likes from boosts, all terrible. I've had a bunch of instant unmatches, so not entirely sure what that's about, but hopefully, I can get some eyes on it and see if there's anything particular I'm fucking up.

Hinge has been a little more interesting; fewer matches (only 5), 3 started well, then stopped replying when I tried to bounce off into a real date. All absolutely gorgeous, and probably currently out of my league, but if I can gain enough interest now, I think within a couple of months and a few new pictures, it'll begin to fall into place.

Need to start going out and actually approaching in real life, now. That's the only remaining piece to get working on. But I am meeting up with a few old friends next week, giving me the opportunity to squeeze in some approaches to help get the ball rolling there.

Any feedback and suggestions are hugely appreciated.
 
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