Banged a Hotwife with her Husband

[thefitguy77]

Hotwife
-A married woman who is allowed and/or encouraged by her husband to pursue sexual relationships with other individuals. Often, these relationships are in pursuit of fulfilling the husband's/couple's fantasies. Swingers basically

- Her husband just watched me bang her and took some photos of her in the bed He was actually a cool guy overall fit and not a weirdo
- Then we all went for dinner

My Question is

- Is This kind of relationship viable long-term ? because its not like a MFF which is more normal
- Does the Wife actually have genuine desire for her Husband, if he is into watching her ?

 

[Wnyhg]

Situations like this demand you asking questions and maybe even stating what you want. I actually have not been in that situation in particular. The same ones you’re asking us AND what you can do to make her “submit”. Mentally and physically. Make sure you’re lasting a good 30 minutes, if you’re doing tantric then obviously longer. I can only presume because I’ve been faithful to one woman. She came at least twice and complained of a belly ache by the time I was done or a couple of days later but whatever…. The hotwife may be doing this to appease her husband’s fantasies, you’ve got be careful with your words.

Andy here recommends a vibrator and a bath mate. I would start there.

This may be viable long term but you’ll have to work for it. This will save the couple having to interview and vet guys, or not. STDs, and sex is better with someone you know, on the other hand, they may not give a fuck and want as many different dicks in her as possible. these are questions you should ask and preferably acknowledge your vulnerabilities to them as you work your way through this. There are plenty of BBCs who will rock her and you, you should consider distinguishing yourself.

The wives do have a genuine love for their husbands as carers. They would die and say”this was not worth it”, if their husbands left them. Many do this because of the need for feeling desired, others can’t get their rocks off with their husbands. My experience in situations similar to this is that the couple eventually falls out of love or the wife is doing this to appease the husband and can’t do it. They won’t always tell you the truth, initially, just communicate.

I’m telling you, you don’t need an app to bang a Hotwife. These chicks are everywhere. Just like a getting a stripper/escort or a wife to bang for free and for years on end, it’s an art form that can be learned.

Work on yourself. Tantric, BDSM, or just plain old hardcore fucking. Using your fingers to the G spot or A spot, finding her zones in the first 30 minutes and max zing them for her pleasure. Mind you, keep your fucking secrets to yourself.

You may not click with this couple but over time, either you’ll find one or, more commonly, word spreads.

 

[AskTheDom]

This is a more intricate and complex question to answer because there are several layers to address:

First of all - Why Couples do this?

It depends on the power dynamic of the relationship, which in this case could be multiple:

- Real (see later for fake) cucks want to feel humiliated by a stronger man taking their women. They want the humiliation that comes with that.

- Fake cucks are men that are forced by their women wanting to "open" the relationship and agree with resentment just to stay with the women, if they could be sure to have what they want and their woman not leaving, they would have never got to this.

- Stags: stags are men that get off with directing the sexual intercourse or even participating in it, like being a porn movie director and/or a co-star in it. They get off by various things like the depravation of the act, controlling other men sexual access, etc - they differentiate from the cucks because they don't crave humiliation.

On another layer there is the monogamy - poligamy aspect to consider:

Is the couple open? are the partners looking to have other partners or it is just a "flavour of the week" encounter?

As you can see, your questions cannot be answered because we don't have the spectrum of the dynamic of the relationship.

 

[MILFandCookies]

This is a more intricate and complex question to answer because there are several layers to address:

First of all - Why Couples do this?

It depends on the power dynamic of the relationship, which in this case could be multiple:

- Real (see later for fake) cucks want to feel humiliated by a stronger man taking their women. They want the humiliation that comes with that.

- Fake cucks are men that are forced by their women wanting to "open" the relationship and agree with resentment just to stay with the women, if they could be sure to have what they want and their woman not leaving, they would have never got to this.

- Stags: stags are men that get off with directing the sexual intercourse or even participating in it, like being a porn movie director and/or a co-star in it. They get off by various things like the depravation of the act, controlling other men sexual access, etc - they differentiate from the cucks because they don't crave humiliation.

On another layer there is the monogamy - poligamy aspect to consider:

Is the couple open? are the partners looking to have other partners or it is just a "flavour of the week" encounter?

As you can see, your questions cannot be answered because we don't have the spectrum of the dynamic of the relationship.

Great summary ^^^

I've been with 2 Hotwife/Stag couples. Was an interesting experience both times. Both of them were very different... one was a flavor-of-the-week situation.

The other was a fantasy they both had they involved me in, and they wanted it more and more, to build an ongoing sexual relationship.

The act itself can be done, wanted for different reasons.

Why don't you just ask her? You're basically asking us to mindread her and guess, when you could literally just use your words and ask HER.

If you want this to continue, I'd go and ask her. That way you get a solid and real answer. We can't tell you, we don't know. As above, the specific sex acts don't tell us the reasons they did them, or their relationship dynamic.