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Day Gaming 1 Hour 1 Away

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So I remember KillYourInnerLoser talking in a video how he started cold approach 1 hour away and he had to take the bus there. The 2 biggest malls from my place are 45 mins and 1 hour away. I went to one of them last week and did some day game and I ran into the same problem a couple of times around distance.

I would be vibing and would say "you live in this area?" (I kept saying it instead of "you from this area originally" because I was nervous) and would find out they would live somewhere in the vincity but not close to me and they would ask me where I live and I would tell them and they would say oh that's far and it killed a couple of sets (one girl was super into me until I said that then the convo finished probably within 90 seconds of that and I didn't even get her number).

Should I just chalk that up to variance? Or should I have another plan to address the fact that most of these opens will not be near me?
 
Just trying to bump this for some of the more experienced cold approach guys.

KillYourInnerLoser pancakemouse Manganiello any suggestions on this?

Do I just tell them where I live and if its shit logistics and the decide not want to meet because of that then just so be it and approach more until I find girls that are willing to make that work?
 
I do recall some of them having to commute to approach hahaha.

Crisis had to get the metro back in the day for Grecian Daygame

It can be done I guess if there's the volume, why not, can just push for instadates

MAC
 
countingsheep7878 said:
Just trying to bump this for some of the more experienced cold approach guys.

@KillYourInnerLoser @pancakemouse @Manganiello any suggestions on this?

Do I just tell them where I live and if its shit logistics and the decide not want to meet because of that then just so be it and approach more until I find girls that are willing to make that work?


Having girls not want to meet you because you're far is a common and legitimate problem.

I moved to the center of the city specifically to avoid this.
 
Don't ask a girl anything if you don't want her asking you back.

With things that can be considered flaws, it's best to wait to wait as long as possible until your hand is forced to bring them up.
 
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