AspiringMaleStripper
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- Joined
- Jul 16, 2022
Hey all,
I've been going through a tough time lately and in my own head a lot. I'm getting older and I've had a lot of fun, but now it's getting harder and harder to maintain a social life. Not saying that it can't be done by any means, just that it's not presented to you on a platter the way it was in the 20's. With all of that going on, I still do pretty well with the ladies, but I'm finding myself in a new predicament: I'm starting to feel lonely.
I'm beginning to recognize that the swings in my life are getting greater on both the up and the down. When I'm dating a few girls and I have a lot of attention, life is good and I'm on cloud 9. When things begin to dry up though (as they do from time to time) I'm starting to feel really empty.
I'm 34 right now and still pretty young looking, so I'm not afraid of the clock ticking, but I'm just starting to feel empty inside. Banging girls and maximizing my looks to get attention is fun, but it's starting to feel a bit meaningless to me. I'm starting to feel like the only reason I'm doing this is just so I can meet "the one" or whatever. I feel like I'm playing a game, putting quarters into the machine, hoping to beat the damn thing so I can leave the arcade, but I'm on level 856 and there's no end in sight.
I'm seeing two girls right now, who are both 22, and neither one of them would want to be in a relationship with me. I've done a decent job at putting off the "fuckboy" vibe, and especially at 34 years old, I think these girls see me as a good time, but not someone they would bring home to mommy and daddy. I don't know... Now that I'm getting older it just seems like a lot of work to be going out all the time trying to meet girls. I really wish I had one good girl... But I'm also redpilled and in the year 2022 I don't even know if it's possible to have a relationship with a good looking girl.
I'm just blabbering right now, trying to figure out how I feel. Are any of you feeling the same? I know most people here are in their 20's but I'm curious if anyone else just wants to find a girlfriend? It seems like the whole fuckboy cold approach sexualized lifestyle is great for getting sex, but the road grows emptier and emptier. Maybe I'm just in a low spot.
I'd love to hear anyone else's thoughts on the matter.
Cheers
I've been going through a tough time lately and in my own head a lot. I'm getting older and I've had a lot of fun, but now it's getting harder and harder to maintain a social life. Not saying that it can't be done by any means, just that it's not presented to you on a platter the way it was in the 20's. With all of that going on, I still do pretty well with the ladies, but I'm finding myself in a new predicament: I'm starting to feel lonely.
I'm beginning to recognize that the swings in my life are getting greater on both the up and the down. When I'm dating a few girls and I have a lot of attention, life is good and I'm on cloud 9. When things begin to dry up though (as they do from time to time) I'm starting to feel really empty.
I'm 34 right now and still pretty young looking, so I'm not afraid of the clock ticking, but I'm just starting to feel empty inside. Banging girls and maximizing my looks to get attention is fun, but it's starting to feel a bit meaningless to me. I'm starting to feel like the only reason I'm doing this is just so I can meet "the one" or whatever. I feel like I'm playing a game, putting quarters into the machine, hoping to beat the damn thing so I can leave the arcade, but I'm on level 856 and there's no end in sight.
I'm seeing two girls right now, who are both 22, and neither one of them would want to be in a relationship with me. I've done a decent job at putting off the "fuckboy" vibe, and especially at 34 years old, I think these girls see me as a good time, but not someone they would bring home to mommy and daddy. I don't know... Now that I'm getting older it just seems like a lot of work to be going out all the time trying to meet girls. I really wish I had one good girl... But I'm also redpilled and in the year 2022 I don't even know if it's possible to have a relationship with a good looking girl.
I'm just blabbering right now, trying to figure out how I feel. Are any of you feeling the same? I know most people here are in their 20's but I'm curious if anyone else just wants to find a girlfriend? It seems like the whole fuckboy cold approach sexualized lifestyle is great for getting sex, but the road grows emptier and emptier. Maybe I'm just in a low spot.
I'd love to hear anyone else's thoughts on the matter.
Cheers