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Help with tinder Profile

Defguy

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Nov 2, 2020
I've been dragging my feet overthinking my tinder profile. Will get it set up right now. Please help me figure out which photos to use. I will put black bars over the eyes of the wedding pictures. #13 is not really mine but I thought it would be a good way to filter for DTF. Also curious which order I should put these photos in. My facebook profile is in my signature so feel free to add me and sort through there as well. For my profile was thinking:

"Cute enough to sleep with not nearly mature or stable enough to marry"

Any feedback helps.


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The mask one is nice, but doesn't really show your looks, since well, it's a mask (or a paint, whatever) and your head is sideways. Good but not for a main photo.
The wedding photos - you cannot fit them onto tinder. You will need to crop them, and they will look like shit then. I suppose the last wedding photo can be cropped onto tinder, but you look a little like a third wheel there. Also bluring friend's faces/blackbaring gives a feeling you are ashamed of showing your friends there, as if it was something bad or strange. Andy speaks about it on one of his podcasts and I kinda agree.
The lying down photos - you look quite good, but I don't think the pose is really interesting or flattering. Also, it's landscape, so cannot really fit into tinder like this.
BDSM toys - I guess all the girls are going to ask you whether it's your collection. I also guess they are gonna be disappointed when you say its random internet photo. I guess it works for Andy, because he puts the BDSM photos he made himself. I am not a BDSM master tho, so take this as opinion, not a fact.
The last one - not a big fan of this 'meme' format for a tinder photos, also I don't think it's really flattering you standing there in a sweaty shirt.
The shirtless photo - you are kinda too far to see your physique.
The rest - I don't like the rest. Either looking amateurish or not looking good.
 
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