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How many likes should i aim to get per day?

iwillbebetter

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So i know if my profile is good enough or not. I started tinder yesterday with 2 pics (you saw them on my last post). I just got 19 likes since 14 hours. (15 on okcupid) Thats not good i guess? How many do you get?

Now i need to learn how to chat and set up a date
 
isuckrightnow said:
I just got 19 likes since 14 hours. (15 on okcupid)

Any no. of likes is better than no likes. I believe it will be better if you report back after experimenting yourself chatting with them.

Or just do what Andy does with his Tinder guide. Girls I meet ask me how many girls I meet often out of dating apps because of how smooth I interact with them with Andy's Tinder guide.
 
SIGMA_1234 said:
isuckrightnow said:
I just got 19 likes since 14 hours. (15 on okcupid)

Any no. of likes is better than no likes. I believe it will be better if you report back after experimenting yourself chatting with them.

Or just do what Andy does with his Tinder guide. Girls I meet ask me how many girls I meet often out of dating apps because of how smooth I interact with them with Andy's Tinder guide.

Ok i will try. I just thought that with my noob Bonus on the first day i would do better. These are just likes tho, not matches
 
SIGMA_1234 said:
Girls I meet ask me how many girls I meet often out of dating apps because of how smooth I interact with them with Andy's Tinder guide.

Go for it. Do note that girls ask me this without even meeting more than 5 of them from Bumble because of how easy Andy makes it in his guide. His messages are literally copy and paste for my situation.

Keep messages short from his guide, personalize them a bit, then ask them out ASAP.
 
Its 4 likes on tinder, with noob boost, not even matched yet. Even if they match (tinder tends to keep some likes you just wont match, idk why) they can be too far for you, or too unattractive, or uninterested. So its basically nothing. Check my log, I do plot my matches.

Edit: not meaning to be discouraging by any means! Just meaning its not enough to play numbers game. Its about the point where I started tho, so keep swiping and see what happens.
 
Lostcause said:
Its 4 likes on tinder, with noob boost, not even matched yet. Even if they match (tinder tends to keep some likes you just wont match, idk why) they can be too far for you, or too unattractive, or uninterested. So its basically nothing. Check my log, I do plot my matches.

Edit: not meaning to be discouraging by any means! Just meaning its not enough to play numbers game. Its about the point where I started tho, so keep swiping and see what happens.

So are you successfull with 4 likes? I mean do u get laid
 
No, I HAD 4 likes when I started. I could do literally nothing with that amount.

Now I have ~150 matched girls past 1.5 months and 3 online lays in that timeframe
 
Lostcause said:
No, I HAD 4 likes when I started. I could do literally nothing with that amount.

Now I have ~150 matched girls past 1.5 months and 3 online lays in that timeframe

Oh great number, but 3 lays seems low to me. Idk
Did you share your profile here? If not, do you mind?
 
Seem low to you? Based on what experience?

The numbers don't matter in the way you are thinking about them

The only count that mattered in Lostcauses post there was 3 lays
 
Radical said:
Seem low to you? Based on what experience?

The numbers don't matter in the way you are thinking about them

The only count that mattered in @Lostcauses post there was 3 lays

True. 3 lays is 3 lays👍
 
Lostcause said:
Its 4 likes on tinder, with noob boost, not even matched yet. Even if they match (tinder tends to keep some likes you just wont match, idk why) they can be too far for you, or too unattractive, or uninterested. So its basically nothing. Check my log, I do plot my matches.

Edit: not meaning to be discouraging by any means! Just meaning its not enough to play numbers game. Its about the point where I started tho, so keep swiping and see what happens.


You were right, i swiped now and from the likes i just got 3 matches. The other likes dissapeared after some left swipes.

But now i have 0 likes and dont get any new. Need more and better pics i guess
 
Well, one lay every two weeks, all on the first date seems okish to me. It's okay if you aim higher tho
 
Lostcause said:
Well, one lay every two weeks, all on the first date seems okish to me. It's okay if you aim higher tho

Na its really good when you say it this way haha. I was thinking that 1-2 matches = 1 lay
 
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