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How many texts do you send after cold approaching?

SamJ_

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Whenever I get the number or snapchat of a girl I approached and we mentioned getting together at some point, I usually text once or twice. If a girl doesn't respond to a single text, is that a clear indication she's not interested and I should move on, or should I give her a call too? Just curious to hear from other guys who have successfully dated or had sex with girls met from cold approach.
 
SamJ_ said:
Whenever I get the number or snapchat of a girl I approached and we mentioned getting together at some point, I usually text once or twice. If a girl doesn't respond to a single text, is that a clear indication she's not interested and I should move on, or should I give her a call too?


I can't say much from my own experience.

But the consensus among more experienced people is if she can't respond to a text within 24hrs she's probably not interested.
 
Manganiello said:
SamJ_ said:
Whenever I get the number or snapchat of a girl I approached and we mentioned getting together at some point, I usually text once or twice. If a girl doesn't respond to a single text, is that a clear indication she's not interested and I should move on, or should I give her a call too?


I can't say much from my own experience.

But the consensus among more experienced people is if she can't respond to a text within 24hrs she's probably not interested.

Yeah I agree. I sent the girl I met today two texts in six hours so I'll just wait I guess. I was gonna call her and leave her a message tomorrow but my time would probably be better spent on approaching new girls and moving on. I probably thought she was attracted when she was just being nice or liked the conversation or somethin
 
SamJ_

You are starting a lot of new threads dude.

You can just change the title of your log if you have a specific question about whats going on and you want users to see it, but typically we prefer if you keep things to a log rather than starting a potential flurry of discussion threads where guys can fuck around and theorise
 
Radical said:
@SamJ_

You are starting a lot of new threads dude.

You can just change the title of your log if you have a specific question about whats going on and you want users to see it, but typically we prefer if you keep things to a log rather than starting a potential flurry of discussion threads where guys can fuck around and theorise

Okay I didn't know I could do that
 
Manganiello said:
SamJ_ said:
Whenever I get the number or snapchat of a girl I approached and we mentioned getting together at some point, I usually text once or twice. If a girl doesn't respond to a single text, is that a clear indication she's not interested and I should move on, or should I give her a call too?


I can't say much from my own experience.

But the consensus among more experienced people is if she can't respond to a text within 24hrs she's probably not interested.

Seconded. Don't waste time trying to convert a maybe or a no to a yes... spend that time and energy finding the yes girls.

Great book on the subject: Models by Mark Manson.
 
SamJ_ said:
Radical said:
@SamJ_

You are starting a lot of new threads dude.

You can just change the title of your log if you have a specific question about whats going on and you want users to see it, but typically we prefer if you keep things to a log rather than starting a potential flurry of discussion threads where guys can fuck around and theorise

Okay I didn't know I could do that

If you edit the title of the first post you made the log title changes on the front page as well
 
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