Pluto
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- Jan 31, 2022
I was in your situation back in my college days and what I found was that I was putting too much emphasis on getting laid rather than just having a good time to where how I did with women impacted how good of a time I had. The issue with pickup and asking dudes to spam approach is to you unintentionally become outcome dependent, if a girl is not giving you the time of the day then your night is ruined or your outing is ruined. Instead, what I noticed in my time in school now looking back at it is that the cool guys who did get girls were just there to have a good time, enjoy good vibes, and the girl just sort of came along with that.
The most important thing to really master before you start "game" per se is your vibe, emotions, and how you feel about yourself before you even go out. One exercise that has helped me immensely is that I will watch a positive or outright funny video (especially from comedians) which puts me in a playful and fun mood. My nights out are way more fun than they used to be back when I was heavily dependent on getting laid. Too many guys get into "game" without truly fixing their vibe, their mentality, and mastering their emotions and they don't even fix this during the time they learn game.
What this leads to is situations where dudes will do 100+ approaches, not get shit, blame the city, claim that you need a top tier social circle to even get quality women, and become bitter about everything.
As for your situation, if your faculty threw the event, I think your focus should have been on going out, having a great time, enjoying a good time with classmates, and not even stressing as much about meeting women and getting laid.
I won't comment further as you may need outside intervention but I am asking you to serious consider what I said.
The most important thing to really master before you start "game" per se is your vibe, emotions, and how you feel about yourself before you even go out. One exercise that has helped me immensely is that I will watch a positive or outright funny video (especially from comedians) which puts me in a playful and fun mood. My nights out are way more fun than they used to be back when I was heavily dependent on getting laid. Too many guys get into "game" without truly fixing their vibe, their mentality, and mastering their emotions and they don't even fix this during the time they learn game.
What this leads to is situations where dudes will do 100+ approaches, not get shit, blame the city, claim that you need a top tier social circle to even get quality women, and become bitter about everything.
As for your situation, if your faculty threw the event, I think your focus should have been on going out, having a great time, enjoying a good time with classmates, and not even stressing as much about meeting women and getting laid.
I won't comment further as you may need outside intervention but I am asking you to serious consider what I said.