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Living the dream/ Phase 1 - The first crossroads

I've been stuck thinking should I go for money or women?
Stressing about my appearance.
Getting sad thinking about not seeing fb anymore.
Feeling Really bored at work.
Waking up with the same shitty themes running around my head.

I've decided to join the coaching group.
I will change locations.
Learn how to make Big money.
Build a business of my own.
Build an amazing social circle and dating life.

Got my call with Andy next Wednesday so hyped for that.

Bought and reading Loving What Is, then I'll move to Reality Transurfing.

Everything else maintained.
I'll probably hand my notice in at work after the coaching call on Wednesday.

Filler updates: no effect, injector said I would probably need more but it's best to let the filler settle and absorb water so as not to overfill and loose my masculine features.
Will update in 4 weeks and re-assess.

Got some socials planned this week.
Maintaining everything else for now.
 
10 things I can do to make money:

1. Teach people to play guitar

2. Get people strong and jacked af

3. Move furniture/ anything labour intensive

4. Anything where I could drive people or things around

5. Sell a quality product

6. Write advertising copy

7. Proofreading

8. Resell goods for a markup

9. Sell stuff I don't need

10. Busk, play music for money
 
MakingAComeback said:
Where's ma fuckin DOG at?
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Hey MAC thanks for checking in!
I'm in the coaching group right now so have been posting in there.
I'm in the process of moving to a big city (Nottingham) right now and I can also do cold approach so its been a blast.
Also getting some photos done with Joe from dating unchained in London on the 16th.
Glad your doing good and getting after it!
 
Quick updates:
Joined the coaching group and its amazing.
Currently moving to a city -Nottingham
Done a lot of internal work
Improved my od pics
Improved my lifestyle- diet, cardio, cold exposure
Upgraded my wardrobe
Got some numbers from approaching
Had my first date from tinder with a legitimately beautiful woman
Quit my job
Made a website to teach guitar
Made a really cool friend

There's other things ive probably forgotten and massive mental benefits like getting my goals done really fast (the move) and developing non-attachment.

Here's my current tinder profile:
 
I'm moving to the city centre of Nottingham tomorrow.

Said my goodbyes to work and and my friends. I've been really lucky to meet some great people.
I realised that I can make friends, find work and sleep with hot women. I've done it all on a small scale.
Now I'll be living in a city where I can really go all out.
I have an amazing opportunity here because I have been buying company shares since I started at my last place and have the cash to float for a few months.

I've posted my targets on the coaching group and will share here too:

Women:
Approach 5 a day
Boost on tinder 4 days a week
Swipe 200 times a day
Hinge 100 likes a day
Bumble use all my free swipes
Go to 3 meetup events per week and talk to everyone but also any attractive women.

Business:
Get 10 people to teach guitar to
Cold approach and offer lessons
Tell anyone I talk to I offer lessons
Print leaflets and post in High traffic areas
Set up equipment for zoom lessons.
Expand to Facebook ads?
Work part-time.

Social:
I've been blessed here already so im most confident with this one
Go to 3 meetups a week - this might be closer to one every day at first
Find gym buddy's
Find musicians to jam with
Use bumble BFF
 
So far:
I've got about 8 numbers from od and trying to convert them to dates.
Girl yesterday didn't show up for a date but I found a really nice pub about 100m from my flat and she was using some heavy filters on closer inspection of her profile so im not fussed.

Approaches: shooting for 1 a day and staying consistent.
I've done 3 over the last 2 days.

Social: went to a gig on Monday and going to a comedy night tonight with meetup groups.

Realising I relied on work for a lot of my discipline so I've been kinda lazy the last couple days but now settling in.
 
You mentioned busking earlier in the thread - did you try this? It always struck me as the ideal daygamer career.

I used to busk a lot and there's serious money in it if you get the right act and location - I made £5.50 my first hour ever, but by the end, as a mediocre musician but a true hound for the pound, after extensively studying other buskers and crowds, I was able to average about £80 hourly, and about 1 girl would put her phone number in case/week, though my energy was limited to 3 or 4 hours playing a day. If you're interested I can go into more detail - there's a lot of gamey stuff in busking like social proof etc.

Plus I used to enjoy watching the puas while I played - I was always in the pua triangle of lec square/Piccadilly circus/traf square.
 
Antonio44 said:
You mentioned busking earlier in the thread - did you try this? It always struck me as the ideal daygamer career.

I used to busk a lot and there's serious money in it if you get the right act and location - I made £5.50 my first hour ever, but by the end, as a mediocre musician but a true hound for the pound, after extensively studying other buskers and crowds, I was able to average about £80 hourly, and about 1 girl would put her phone number in case/week, though my energy was limited to 3 or 4 hours playing a day. If you're interested I can go into more detail - there's a lot of gamey stuff in busking like social proof etc.

Plus I used to enjoy watching the puas while I played - I was always in the pua triangle of lec square/Piccadilly circus/traf square.
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£80 an hour is really good, I have the time to put a set list together now I'm not working too.
Was it hard to get a busking license in London?
 
First full week in Nottingham.
So far been doing 1 approach a day.
Going pretty hard on the apps: got a full week of dates next week, all but one at a pub 100m from my flat.
Got to do some approaches and see MakingAComeback in action getting some really good responses from a couple really hot girls too!
Amazing to see how game works and generates attraction in women, it's definitely a big part of the equation that I've overlooked.
 
Was great meeting you.

I am really excited for your journey ahead, and we'll all support you in obtaining success.

I am glad you got to see me approach girls and share some of what I've learned, man, I am so glad you got to see some of that.

Vibe, charisma, being a fucking cool as guy, having verbal ability, and a great energy, that is all stuff I had to painstakingly learn from ground zero, dirt nothing, to now, as you saw, I am making some progress.

Plenty of the women I approached, as you can attest to, were absolutely hot.

And yeah, two of them, were into it, I was physically escalating, were just quite tough sets with their friends looming around and whatnot. Though as you saw, when a guy is cool and calibrated, the friends will literally stand there and talk to each other as you escalate on the girl lmao.

It took years of looksmaxxing and work on game, thousands of approaches, and 3 years of consistency to just start to unlock this power dude.

You will go faster. We as a community are learning and growing. I myself didn't know any of this shit so could barely support my own community lol. I can atleast help push you further along.

You ae JACKED. Handsome, and have everything required.

I remember when The Dom first met me, and he was reticent to say much, he later revealed, it pained him a little because he knew the journey ahead for me would be years of soul torture.

He was right.

He also knew, I would stick at it, and I would make it.

Though many nights I have been broken and violated to the core of my humanity.

From there, you grow. This game is tough, brother.

But we have each other, the whole community, and as long as I am breathing, I will make sure you succeed ;-)

Your location is solid. You can do day game, daily. You can do night game, a few times a week. Go sober, don't stay too late, get your reps in, and go home.

Smash the apps. Your photos are now solid.

For now, as I said to you, there's not much point in us saying anything specific. Just get the reps in, be consistent. and as the months go by and you put the numbers in, we can work on stuff.

One thing to understand, given you read my log, is that you are not me, and I absolutely promise you, that very few have a long and ugly road like mine. I actually do a lot of this, to save other men from this pain. Your looks, are good, I am impressed by your physique, and you will find your vibe, power, and charisma.

I used to be the quiet wallflower, on Andy's calls, I would never speak now.

......Do you see me now? ;-)

Keep working and I will check in and review.

I want to see day game posts, night game posts, and consistency. Because you have proven to the community that you have what it takes.

So let it be done, man

Ravi
 
Had a date Sunday but the girl was way bigger than in her photos lol. She was still cool to talk to so asked if she wants to be friends and she said yes.

Date booked for today said she's been ill over the weekend so couldn't make it.

Got another date tm and said we can go back to mine to chill after and she said yes. Felt fun just asking her this.

Another girl matched with me, said I was attractive and asked if I was about later but sais she manages two pubs so had to reschedule to Thursday.
The plus of this is I quickly made my flat nice and tidy - got a throw for the battered sofa the landlord left behind too.

I also changed my approach: put the sex book and gym pic photos at the front of my profile and used the tinder guide template. Had two cool interactions, got one girls number, pitched the date but she's busy this week so told her to hit me up. Felt very cathartic being open I just wanted sex and she was enjoying it for sure.
Had a similar conversation with another girl and but she said she doesn't do casual sex. Said thanks thanks being upfront and she said the same.

I've also written down a template to structure my days more.

Going forward I'm just gonna use the app to screen hard for just sex as there are too many open convos going on about random stuff now haha. It also seems like I'm getting a lot of flakes trying to set up dates a week in advance based on the girls schedules.

Gonna cut down for two weeks, fast for a day, get a pump and take a better gym photo to help me screen even more.
 
Come down with something today, felt super rough.
Somehow my left knee feels fucked too but it could just be flu-pains.
Went for a date with this girl, I was loaded up on flu meds and started drinking. Played some air hockey and mini golf but she wanted to keep going to different bars so I had to call it a night as my paracetamol wore off and I lost my voice lol.
Got another date tm, this one is using the tinder guide messaging template so she knows I just want to sleep with her. I'm gonna have one drink max then ask her back to mine assuming we vibe, will probably pop a sildenafil before if I'm still feeling rough lol.
 
Sewerdog said:
Come down with something today, felt super rough.
Somehow my left knee feels fucked too but it could just be flu-pains.
Went for a date with this girl, I was loaded up on flu meds and started drinking. Played some air hockey and mini golf but she wanted to keep going to different bars so I had to call it a night as my paracetamol wore off and I lost my voice lol.
Got another date tm, this one is using the tinder guide messaging template so she knows I just want to sleep with her. I'm gonna have one drink max then ask her back to mine assuming we vibe, will probably pop a sildenafil before if I'm still feeling rough.
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First lay from hinge!
This is from when I got pissed at od and just started calling girls sexy and not chasing them if they weren't free to meet up and just playing the numbers game.

Still felt drained today from this cold so was sitting around my flat doing fuck all when she messaged me. Took a bunch of viagra and paracetamol and drove over 10 minute to her. Ended up fucking for 2hrs lol, couldnt finish but had a lot of fun. I'll go back on nofap now so if she sees me again I'll pump, be feeling good and have the bazooka d back in action.

Big thanks to MILFandCookies she actually said the sex book photo got her interested.
Also the coaching group is amazing pushing me to move to a big city and really play the numbers game.

This has been a beautiful lesson in what work and a bit of stoicism looks like. Hundreds of matches, finally screening properly. Three flakes, a date with a fatty and a date where I was too ill to do anything: I was beginning to feel irritated and discouraged but the fact is I've only been here a week and a half and have just fucked a super horny 20yr old girl.
 
Sewerdog said:
Big thanks to @MILFandCookies she actually said the sex book photo got her interested.
Also the coaching group is amazing pushing me to move to a big city and really play the numbers game.

This has been a beautiful lesson in what work and a bit of stoicism looks like. Hundreds of matches, finally screening properly. Three flakes, a date with a fatty and a date where I was too ill to do anything: I was beginning to feel irritated and discouraged but the fact is I've only been here a week and a half and have just fucked a super horny 20yr old girl.
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Hell yeah man! I'm so fucking glad you're getting results. Your shoot was fun, thanks for trusting me to help you out.

And good feedback on the sex book photo. That was a fun idea I had, good to hear direct feedback that my instincts were right.
 
Fuck yeah ;-)

Hard work starting to pay off brah

Def. can take a while to get a profile that screens properly for sure

Still one I am trying to crack. Glad yours is breaking through. 100s of matches?! DAMN
 
MakingAComeback said:
Fuck yeah ;-)

Hard work starting to pay off brah

Def. can take a while to get a profile that screens properly for sure

Still one I am trying to crack. Glad yours is breaking through. 100s of matches?! DAMN
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Thank you!

Yeah, hundreds but was only getting very flakey dates which got me to value my time and attention more and just go for it and ask girls for sex to screen them BEFORE I add seeing them to my calendar.

A good gym pic will probably go a long way too (I'm gonna improve mine), she said most guys these days are 'scrawny' so maybe I'm finding my niche
 
That's fucking insane dude xD

You run a boost and are literally getting matches in the multiple hundreds?

Very inspiring!
 
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