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Living the dream/ Phase 1 - The first crossroads

Juicy3lf said:
I've been looking at oral minoxidil and it's not only more effective than topical but it would help to max out the eyebrows and beard at the same time. Main sides would be reduction in blood pressure and possibly fluid retention but that's on the 10mg+ doses usually.

What do you think?
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It's not something ive heard of. MPMD has a good philosophy when it comes to hair loss which is basically to find the minimum effective dose to mitigate the potential sides.
Seems interesting though. Before and after pics and counting hairs in a shower catcher are the best ways to tell if it's working
 
Had another lay.
This girl looked pretty average in her photos but was clear she just wanted me to come over and fuck her.
Got there and she's a bit bigger than I like, great ass and tits but too much belly for me.
Nevertheless she had been drinking wine and pretty much jumped on me. It was wild, ended up going two rounds, best head I've ever had so far by a mile and she kept putting my dick in her ass.
I've changed my tinder bio to looking for short term fun which is why she messaged me.
The other reason I was interested in seeing her was because she's bi and want to have a threesome with me and an escort. Seems pretty fun, otherwise I'm happy to let this be a one off thing.
 
Another lay!
This was one where she just came straight to mine.
She was Romanian and felt a bit awkward talking to her also said she wanted to be dominant. I gave it a try and it just felt a bit awkward so pushed her off and went back to vanilla which felt much nicer.
Don't really want to add this girl to the stripper and doctor (who I will keep seeing) as there wasn't really any chemistry.

I have manged to sleep with 4 different girls in 5 days though which is really cool!

Otherwise I haven't got much done. Everytime I get laid I feel like going monk mode and just working all-out on my guitar teaching.

I've got dates set up for tm and Thurs, seeing doctor girl on friday, otherwise I feel like chilling for a bit with dating stuff, keep building my body and actually get my dream business off the ground.

I want to go for more high quality women.
So far the student and doctor are the only two girls who I would want to date so I want to be more picky and look for girls like these.
 
Date, pull but no lay.
A very pretty girl drove out to meet me at my local bar. She seemed a bit more conservative and analytical than the other girls I've met.
Ended up talking and felt a but of a vibe, her eyes were definitely lighting up a bit. Asked her back to mine and sat on the sofa for a bit. Made more small talk. She used the toilet and sat facing me which I took as my sign to go for the make out. We kissed for a bit but I was sensing a little bit of hesitation as she broke off and started talking again.
Talked a bit more She said she had to head back so let her.
Will ask if she she wants a second date as I'm not sure if she just needed more comfort/time or was not into me enough.

Takeaways:
Don't eat sardines on date nights lol - even after brushing my teeth the taste stays so I might of had bad breath.
Communicate more - I asked her back to mine but had no gameplan from there apart from to sit on the sofa with her and make out, maybe some music or and 'excuse' activity would help I'm not sure.
I gonna make sure to let the next girl do most of the talking next time too.
Doctor girl was similar in that I just started kissing her mid conversation but she started kissing more deeply and moaning so I knew it was on, this girl didn't do that so I didn't persist.

Pros are she drove 40 mins to me and I got the pull and makeout.

Another date tomorrow so will see how that goes
 
Another date. Brought her back to mine but she was quite closed off in terms of body language. Kept running out of things to say and had some awkward pauses, eventually she said she needed to get a taxi home.

I was quite distracted to be honest, I was thinking about how to make money half the time and how I'm going to cover my bills while also having time to set up my business, I felt a but clunky socially too after being in the flat all day applying for jobs.

I'm going to set up my website tomorrow and do some cold sales asking if people want to learn guitar and direct them to my website. Search and apply for more jobs and hit the gym. Will start early as I'm seeing doctor girl in the eve.
 
Had a great date with Doctor girl and she stayed over.
Had sex with three different women this week and dates with another two where ive brought them back to mine which is very cool.

Spending time with this girl has made me feel a bit insecure, shes a year younger than me and is a full-on doctor while I haven't done nearly anything as cool yet.

I can happily say I've fixed the emotional void from ending things with first girl and feel no resentment or frustration towards women anymore.

Now my only goal is to make money.
Resetting this:
Upload 4 videos to insta
Get leaflets, get cards - put in communal areas
Make resources for first 4 beginner guitar lessons
Fix website
Learn how to edit videos
Buy Facebook ads

Find part time work
 
My plan went off the rails today, felt overwhelmed and ended up watching videos on setting up a pressure washing business instead.
I did apply for five jobs though.
Also got an interview tomorrow.

First workout back after a deload and felt good.

Went on a date and had a good time, this girl had a phd and the conversation was very easy and she was comfortable sitting close to me.
She had to start work early the next morning but said she was keen to meet again during the week.

I've found the girls I've slept with so far all seem to have much higher sex drives or at least display that to me because they like me - haven't actually had a second/third date lay since first girl so I'm interested to see what will happen with this one. Doctor girl is also intellectual but very sexual with her communications with me so I want to find out if this girl is just as keen but takes longer to build comfort.
 
Another five job apps, got interviews tm and weds.
Had a great workout.
Spoke to my brother on the phone which was really nice.

Had a date with a cute Mexican girl, was fun talking to her but another part of me just wanted to fuck her without talking or anything lol.
She had to go home early but will pitch a second date and see.

PhD girl has been messaging me and we're meeting up tm. Seeing doctor girl weds.

I think after the last 5 lays all coming in so fast I've felt a lot more chilled out and have just been enjoying dates without bothering to screen for girls who are happy to just fuck. I might change my approach back to spamming boosts and screening hard once I'm financially sorted but a gf who is cool and attractive seems more and more appealing.

I have enough money to stay here for the full 6 months of my rental contract but am determined to stay for the next year or so.

I'm going to maintain my 5 job applications a day, going to jobseekers tomorrow which is a gov service and applying for universal basic income. Otherwise I will probably get some delivery work for restaurants in the eve and may really go for this pressure washer if I can secure the cash for the upfront purchase.

This is a lot of fun.
 
Job centre interview went well, they should help me find work.
I have an interview tomorrow for a QA job.

Also got the money to buy tools with which is exciting, just gotta get a quote for my backers!
I'm gonna get this shit up off the ground fast and build it to get some great cash-flow.

Date was a disaster as I got lost using the trams for the first time, we've rescheduled to Sunday and she sais she's still keen to see me which is nice.

The student who was the first girl I slept with up here sais she's up for a drink after we re-matched on hinge, she was really good in bed so hopefully I can see her again and show her the difference nofap makes haha.

Tomorrow:
Workout
Apply for 5 jobs
Interview
Research and quote for tools I need
Doctor girl is coming over at half 8 and staying the night.

I've been good waking up at 9am the last couple days.
 
Interview went decent,
I've been procrastinating with my goals by going through the forums so will report back when I've made some meaningful progress towards my main goal.

That is making money.
 
Slept with the student again after rematching on Hinge, she said she thought I ghosted because I said I just wanted sex again for a second date which made her feel cheap so when I didnt follow up that message with another she thought I lost interest (she asked me to just come and fuck her the first time we met but apparently didn't like it when I suggested it)
I told her that made no sense and that I'll write her a poem and bring her roses before I fuck her next time lol.
Glad she's back in the mix though because the sex is great

Otherwise got 5 job applications done and had an amazing workout. I've added squats back into my routine but Sam Sulek style and they feel amazing so gonna roll them up to 180kg for 5 sets of 10 over the next few months
 
I realised I've hit the goal I set out in January of getting 3 plates.
This time last year I had only slept with an escort a fooled around with first girl but couldn't go any further due to my ED.
Very pleased with how everything has worked out. I've gone from 2 lays to 7 in the last 6 weeks and I feel I could have kept seeing them all if I wanted.

Here's everything I did to acheive this one:
Had anxiety attacks and wondered if I was capable of change
Searched for people who turned their dating lives around
Found MAC'S log and the forums
Read the tinder guide
Got a nutritionist
Got a camera
Built profile 1
Got jacked (dropped 22kg feb-sep, regained the muscle super fast on test)
Did a lot of PE
Nofap and going on cycle rewired my brain from porn to actual sex, curing my ED
Started a skincare routine
Got professional but generic photos for profile 2.0
Overcame jealousy, neediness and attachment after my poorly managed fb/borderline gf fling with first girl broke down
Got coaching (this was huge)
Got to reconcile with first girl
Upgraded my wardrobe
Upgraded my pictures massively with MILFandcookies, built profile 3.0
Improved my appearance with dermal fillers and finasteride
Moved to a much bigger city with amazing logistics (right in the centre)
Played the numbers game on ny profiles
Got to build my stoicism after a run of flakes, obese girls and ghosting
Started being way more direct
Realised I'd actually be pretty content on my own and women are a bonus
Sustained effort on the apps regardless of outcomes
Really embraced 'fuck yes or no' and just stopped messaging the girls that were lukewarm towards me
Started getting laid (2 in the first month then 3 in 1 week!)

I'm incredibly grateful to everyone who's helped me, the forums and the coaching group. I'm so grateful I got to prove to myself and anyone who reads this log that we are capable of change and that anyone who was like me: a 27 year old depressed virgin can go from 0 to 7 lays and 3 fb's in just over a year. The amazing thing is using KYIL the next guy like me could do it even faster if he wants!

Big thanks:
MakingAComeback, natedawg I might have given up last November after getting so close with first girl when I had crippling ED but you guys checking in really picked me up (and both your logs are inspirational) Manly Cockfellow for legendary advice for dealing with ED, MILFandCookies for the dope pictures and outfit advice, kyil_andy, Radical and the other coaches from the group; Taylor and Ed who I'm not sure if they have profiles here, I'd fully recommend the group coaching, it's life changing; especially as I had lost momentum and felt stuck with my job and location. I took a massive amount of inspiration from the advanced guys here just destroying it: Holden, pancakemouse, SpicyBoi. colgate for an inspiring transformation. My best friend (the nutritionist I got at the start) for being a legend. First girl for showing me other people can't make me happy or sad and the recent emphatic Fuck Yes girls for making me feel like a Chad and helping me put my energy and attention where its truly wanted.
 
I'm going to start a business in 1 week.

S- market and service research, buy and go through pressure washing course - can go into Monday morning
M- buy equipment, interview pm
T- interview am, pm get a logo, website
W- clean parents drive/guttering get before and after and time-lapse
T- Clean doctor girls driveway depending on when she's free. Take photos and time-lapse.
Interview pm
F- add photos/videos to website, make fb page, get flyers
S- onwards I'm mass door knocking, offering free services, discounts and referrals, getting more before and afters, building mailing lists, Facebook and Google ads, posting flyers and upgrading my equipment
 
Juicy3lf said:
Sewerdog said:
Improved my appearance with dermal fillers and finasteride
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Fillers might be my next move, did they look natural? How long are they lasting?
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Mine look very natural and they're supposed to last 9 months.
I got some to the mid-face where I basically have no fat there just by genetics so it smoothed out my undereyes and sinolabial area significantly without making me look feminine. I did a lot of research and went to a well-reveiwed injector in London and am very happy with the results- I look younger and more healthy.
 
Got laid again!
Slept with phd girl, I thought we were meeting in the middle but she invited me back to hers so I drove us both there.
She's very wild/physical/passionate in bed which is awesome, hoping she'll stay in the rotation I'm building.

Business:
Did my research and have found some solid entry level pressure washers, will go to my local hardware store later too. I'm thinking of adding a ladder to my kit but I'll need a van to get a decent one, reason being driveway cleaning slows down over Christmas while gutter cleaning is booming during winter so it seems smart to diversify. A van is currently out of my price range though so I'll try and fund it with temp work or driveway jobs I land.
 
Went to three different hardware stores but they didn't have the right equipment for so have made the purchases online.
This will delay my plan so while I'm waiting for my stuff to arrive I'll build the website and fb pages to be populated later with photos and sort the insurance/register my company while I'm waiting.

Otherwise gym is going very well, working on rehabbing my left shoulder which feels a bit cranky where my lats and pecs have overpowered my upper back and caused an imbalance.

I should have two interviews and a tour of another job site this week for extra money.

Women wise: I'm seeing doctor girl, student girl and PhD girl this week. I've also become way more relaxed and maybe even funny and teasing during dates just naturally, phd girl actually said I seem very extraverted and easy going and theu all assumed I was a player which is awesome progress.
 
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