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Managing Your Calendar

benstrong26

benstrong26

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I'm starting my journey into online dating and am wondering what do you do if you don't have time to meet right away?

I've been using Andy's Tinder template and it has been successful for me so far. In one weekend I've gotten 4 numbers with girls who want to meet. Logistically this is starting to get challenging, especially as I'm going to be out of town for 4 days starting Thursday.

I've managed this by scheduling some of the dates for the week I'm back, but I acknowledge that's not ideal. How do you all manage this? Do you slow down matching with girls if you know you can't meet in the next few days?
 
KillYourInnerLoser said:
I slow down matching, and just accept if I can't meet girls for a week or so, most of them will "fall off" and won't end up meeting me.
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+1. Currently, my country is still in some form of lockdown, and I still can't go out to meet on dates. Since improving my online dating profile, I get way more matches, and I have to drastically slow down because I know they will fall off if we don't hang out ASAP (happened to me already).
 
I appreciate the advice guys. COVID is definitely making things more complicated (my state is suffering exponential growth right now).
 
I also follow BDs dating template (short quick first date, second date at your place).

I've had 3 dates in a night before. What you can do is space them out, and pick close by (but different) venues. So that night I did something like 715, 830, and 10 (second bar was 10 minutes away from the first, and the last was 15-20).

Slot each girl an hour and say at the beginning you're meeting up with a friend in a bit so only have an hour.
 
Aloofus said:
I also follow BDs dating template (short quick first date, second date at your place).

I've had 3 dates in a night before. What you can do is space them out, and pick close by (but different) venues. So that night I did something like 715, 830, and 10 (second bar was 10 minutes away from the first, and the last was 15-20).

Slot each girl an hour and say at the beginning you're meeting up with a friend in a bit so only have an hour.
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Interesting approach, with COVID I really only have one bar that I feel comfortable going to (it has a big patio). When things get back to normal that might definitely work for me.
 
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