Nick's AA Log

[strider11]

25 years old living in US working remotely full time. Gonna give this program a shot. Logging progress here and on GLL. Signed the petition, going to start approaching tomorrow. Suffer from mild social anxiety so expect to struggle but will persevere through.

 

[Toast]

Congrats on starting the program! Hope u see it through to the end. People here are very nice and have some sage advice.

 

[strider11]

Congrats on starting the program! Hope u see it through to the end. People here are very nice and have some sage advice.

Thanks, gonna give it 100%.

 

[strider11]

Day 4

Weather not great today, did it by plaza by me. Not a ton of people around.

Set 1:
Older woman walking down the street. Not attractive, gave me the time.

Set 2:
Cute girl walking down the street, gave me the time but didn't stop.

Set 3:
Older woman waiting for food to come out, gave me the time.

Set 4:
Cute girl in CVS had headphones in, gave me the time

Set 5:
Cute girl in Target had headphones in too, gave me the time.

5/5 for getting the time so that's nice . Even though Chris said this was easy, it was actually kind of hard for me, took around 30 minutes. It's definitely harder to stop a woman who's walking down the street. Reactions are not really warm but I wouldn't call them negative per se. Not sure if my delivery is to blame, I'm nervous and I feel like it's coming across a bit.

Anyway, on to the next day.

 

[zayn]

Reactions are not really warm but I wouldn't call them negative per se. Not sure if my delivery is to blame, I'm nervous and I feel like it's coming across a bit.

You did well, remember to keep focusing on YOUR execution, not the girls' reactions. You're just asking the time, they won't be jumping up with joy regardless lol.

Keep pushing

 

[Toast]

Great job gettin out there.

Even though Chris said this was easy, it was actually kind of hard for me, took around 30 minutes

30 min aint bad, I think it took me just as long in the beginning as well.

Any type of reaction is a good reaction, be it positive or negative. Its all experience in the long run.

 

[Manganiello]

Not sure if my delivery is to blame, I'm nervous and I feel like it's coming across a bit.

I wouldn't worry about it.


It's not about getting *better* reactions its about getting *comfortable with all* reactions.

Burn this into your brain because it will make your life a million times easier if you do each day with that mindset.

The reaction actually doesn't matter. At all. It's about you slowly becoming used to a wide variety of reactions.