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- Feb 17, 2023
Hey everyone! Need help!
I have totally procrastinated posting here. I was lurking since I was afraid you guys would be mean but taking action on my own I came to realize I definingly need help. My goal is to eventually find a long term relationship, but pick the right person. I am a virgin, never had a huge urge to purse girls so I am really shit at it. Good social skills, have lots of friends I absolutely love. Feel like a total normie with a pretty low sex drive in the forms tho.
I hired a styles, and got a photoshoot done but still get one match every few days on Tinder with platinum. I was one outfit andy for a long time, so I really liked the outfits but of course its not working. I haven't gone all in on all the dating apps yet, will set it up slowly for sure (feeling iffy since tinder is such a flop)
Feedback would be greatly appreciated!!
I'm happy with the photos, so I'm a really bad judge of it I guess.
Tinder profile:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/download/file.php?mode=view&id=11933
Body: 14-15% body fat, 151LBs - 285 bench, 415 deadlift, 375 squat (These are numbers from 3 months ago now, ruptured by chest benching without warmup, mostly do calisthenics... look the exact same) Work out 3x a week for the past 5 years on-off through many injuries, run 5x a week, and climb 2-3x a week. Learned my lesson through many many injuries so solid warm up before every workout and climbing ses. Willing to drop to 10-11% if needed but I've been and didn't really enjoy the feeling + I was way more injury prone given my activity levels.
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/download/file.php?mode=view&id=11932
Current thoughts :
1 - Feedback, Figure out wtf is not working
2 - General self improvement, new goals? I do have 10 year goals, and eulogy goals in-mind so goal alignment is needed. I would hate myself if I became a fuckboi
3 - Monthly photoshoot (probably find someone way cheaper since this service took some saving)
4 - repeat, until I get good results -> get good with girls -> eventually find the right person for a relationship
I have totally procrastinated posting here. I was lurking since I was afraid you guys would be mean but taking action on my own I came to realize I definingly need help. My goal is to eventually find a long term relationship, but pick the right person. I am a virgin, never had a huge urge to purse girls so I am really shit at it. Good social skills, have lots of friends I absolutely love. Feel like a total normie with a pretty low sex drive in the forms tho.
I hired a styles, and got a photoshoot done but still get one match every few days on Tinder with platinum. I was one outfit andy for a long time, so I really liked the outfits but of course its not working. I haven't gone all in on all the dating apps yet, will set it up slowly for sure (feeling iffy since tinder is such a flop)
Feedback would be greatly appreciated!!
I'm happy with the photos, so I'm a really bad judge of it I guess.
Tinder profile:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/download/file.php?mode=view&id=11933
Body: 14-15% body fat, 151LBs - 285 bench, 415 deadlift, 375 squat (These are numbers from 3 months ago now, ruptured by chest benching without warmup, mostly do calisthenics... look the exact same) Work out 3x a week for the past 5 years on-off through many injuries, run 5x a week, and climb 2-3x a week. Learned my lesson through many many injuries so solid warm up before every workout and climbing ses. Willing to drop to 10-11% if needed but I've been and didn't really enjoy the feeling + I was way more injury prone given my activity levels.
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/download/file.php?mode=view&id=11932
Current thoughts :
1 - Feedback, Figure out wtf is not working
2 - General self improvement, new goals? I do have 10 year goals, and eulogy goals in-mind so goal alignment is needed. I would hate myself if I became a fuckboi
3 - Monthly photoshoot (probably find someone way cheaper since this service took some saving)
4 - repeat, until I get good results -> get good with girls -> eventually find the right person for a relationship