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Third time's the charm: David's AA Log and other goals.

D4vidDG

D4vidDG

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Hello, again guys.

Quick summary of what's being going on with my life:

A month ago I decided to quit working toward my goals because I was being impatient, a cunt with myself and I felt miserable. The fact I had not made any progress in the last 6 months made me reconsider what I was doing and take the help.

I read Andy's guide about goal setting and I bought The Slight Edge as he recommended. Now I have a fresh perspective of how to achieve the things I quit in the past.

Now, I'm back, and I'm giving this another try. But the definitive try. I've made up my mind, I won't fail this time. I'll do anything to succeed.

I know words aren't enough, so I'll go to the point:

MAIN GOALS

1. I will complete the AAP before 17-04-2022
2. I will sell a game for free on Steam before 27-03-2022


Mini-goals


  • Watch a masterclass about digital entrepreneurship before December 10th

Sorry if I disappointed anyone that believed in me.
 
WELCOME BACK DAVID!

You are allowed to fail as many times as it takes to succeed in life.

Lord knows I have failed again and again...

Consider the words of the Great one, Michael Jordan:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JA7G7AV-LT8

"I have failed love and over and over again in my life, and that is why, I succeed"

You have no one to apologise to here.

Many people who are truly grinding confront true pain.

The self development process can confront some with their demons and it is fucking painful.

But there are ways to stay the course. You will find your own techniques. I know I need to build in diversion and engaging, stimulating activities into my life or the AA and confronting my failures with women, which to date are seriously painful areas of my life for me, can overwhelm me and cause me to become ripshit angry and then depressed / unhappy. For me, that's fun hobbies and activities. Once I've moved to a new rental, maybe I'll join a drama group or take on other activities. Who knows? But I know what I need to do to create peace and balance in me to stop me getting really crushed by my own demons. You have your own process and psyche, which you will figure out in time.

You can succeed man, and we can help you. The fact you came back speaks volumes. You will get there just stay at it.

As a guy who is older than you, please handle your shit now. It gets harder to create deep change the older you get. If you ever read my log, I have to work flat out every day at this shit, because that's what it's gonna take.

Welcome back to the grind young David............

MAC
 
1. Complete AAP

Day 1: I reintroduced myself in KYIL forums.
Day2: I started my Vlog. I signed the AAP petition.

- My goal and only goal for the next 3+ months is to beat approach anxiety.

- Because that is my ONLY #1 goal and I care a lot about it- I won't try to balance it with anything other than going to work/school/gym.

- Since I'm not trying to BALANCE it with several other goals, I will have more than enough time to do the drills.

- I agree to FORGET ABOUT GETTING LAID (for now).

- I will DO THE DRILL as it is written and leave.
- I will DO THE DRILL as it is written and leave.
- I will DO THE DRILL as it is written and leave.
- I will DO THE DRILL as it is written and leave.

- I will NOT turn the drill into an 'indirect' approach and get deflated if it doesn't go well.

- I will also start a POF (or OkCupid) account and use GLL's or Rooster's guide because I understand that giving myself some online options will decrease my neediness.

- I will check in on ~daily basis, documenting what day I'm on, what I plan to do and if I did it.

- I understand that doing a Vlog will only help me be more accountable and get better results.

- I will stop ONLY WHEN I have beaten 90-100% of my approach anxiety. (~3-5.5months, @Level 7).

- I will see this through or get professional help for my anxiety and do it again.
Click to expand...

I sign this petition.

https://youtu.be/LWPt1Dhm6j0
 
1.Complete AAP

I skipped day 3 cause I already have an active profile on multiple dating sites.

Day 4

https://youtu.be/gTog8IrDRSY

I need a better mic xd
 
1.Complete AAP

Day 5

https://youtu.be/Bx2B2kK1L7M

2.Sell steam game


  • I proposed some ideas for the crafting system.
  • I started creating a quick prototype of some crafting mechanics so we can decide on the course of the project next week and start serious development.
 
1.Complete AAP

Day 6a

https://youtu.be/1bNZEWv2OE0



2.Sell steam game

Busy day, Couldn't work on it that much. I worked on the prototype for 30 min. Here's a video of what I've had so far.
You can pick items and delete them in the trash can.

https://youtu.be/rK_iSc-2TF0
 
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