d00m
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- Jul 25, 2020
I've reached the end of my rope here. I need some one to just tell me EXACTLY what to say and how to act.
These girls arent going on second dates with me. The last one I went out with I just asked point blank if she wanted to see me again. She said no. The previous night I had gotten a girl's number at the bar, she seemed super into me that night but then she said she didnt want to go out with me for a drink (she was with family the night I met her). The night before that I was out on a date. Again, girl was super into me. We only talked for a little bit. We ended up in her car, I tied her up with what I could find cause she said she was into BDSM but no one would do it with her even though she has all the stuff. I was making out with her and everything seemed great. Couldnt take her home cause I live like 40 mins from her and it was really late. Tried to go to her's but she said no. I told her to show me her BDSM stuff next time and we would try it, she seemed excited about it. Texted her a few days later - nothing, no response.
Back to the girl that I asked if she wanted to see me again. She was VERY into me, to the point where she initiated the first kiss while we still in the bar. I've never had a girl be that aggressive so far and I was super turned on I was rock hard (which is relief cause i was seriously thinking i had a problem getting it up but every girl i met that weekend was really turning me on for some reason). this is probaly where i fucked up , i was actually really enjoying the conversation we were having so my dumb ass kept talking to her. the whole night we were talking/making out/talking. at some point i started getting more aggressive kissing her neck, pulling her hair but she said we were going too fast. we weren't in the bar too too long, maybe 2 hours. walked her to her car made out more started grabbing her ass and such. she was moaning and shit so she was definitely into it, but after a while she pulled away. i asked why she said no to seeing me again. she said its because she thinks im relationship material. she also said she thought i was too hot for her. she explained to me that even though she does sleep with guys from tinder she didnt want to with me because she was afraid to catch feelings.
so basically i had girl here that wanted to fuck me and was expecting to get fucked, but i somehow managed to even mess that up. the shitty part is that girl actually lived in my city so i could have brought her home. im apprehensive about it though cause i live with my brother and it is house so it just feels wrong at a deep level to ask him to just leave out of nowhere. obviously I need to get my own place but until I do that i need some solution.
girls find me attractive and cool etc want me to fuck them but i just need to clear that last hurdle. i feel like im not being sexual enough. i feel like these girls are being disappointed because they are expecting me to be something but I'm not delivering. what should i do?
These girls arent going on second dates with me. The last one I went out with I just asked point blank if she wanted to see me again. She said no. The previous night I had gotten a girl's number at the bar, she seemed super into me that night but then she said she didnt want to go out with me for a drink (she was with family the night I met her). The night before that I was out on a date. Again, girl was super into me. We only talked for a little bit. We ended up in her car, I tied her up with what I could find cause she said she was into BDSM but no one would do it with her even though she has all the stuff. I was making out with her and everything seemed great. Couldnt take her home cause I live like 40 mins from her and it was really late. Tried to go to her's but she said no. I told her to show me her BDSM stuff next time and we would try it, she seemed excited about it. Texted her a few days later - nothing, no response.
Back to the girl that I asked if she wanted to see me again. She was VERY into me, to the point where she initiated the first kiss while we still in the bar. I've never had a girl be that aggressive so far and I was super turned on I was rock hard (which is relief cause i was seriously thinking i had a problem getting it up but every girl i met that weekend was really turning me on for some reason). this is probaly where i fucked up , i was actually really enjoying the conversation we were having so my dumb ass kept talking to her. the whole night we were talking/making out/talking. at some point i started getting more aggressive kissing her neck, pulling her hair but she said we were going too fast. we weren't in the bar too too long, maybe 2 hours. walked her to her car made out more started grabbing her ass and such. she was moaning and shit so she was definitely into it, but after a while she pulled away. i asked why she said no to seeing me again. she said its because she thinks im relationship material. she also said she thought i was too hot for her. she explained to me that even though she does sleep with guys from tinder she didnt want to with me because she was afraid to catch feelings.
so basically i had girl here that wanted to fuck me and was expecting to get fucked, but i somehow managed to even mess that up. the shitty part is that girl actually lived in my city so i could have brought her home. im apprehensive about it though cause i live with my brother and it is house so it just feels wrong at a deep level to ask him to just leave out of nowhere. obviously I need to get my own place but until I do that i need some solution.
girls find me attractive and cool etc want me to fuck them but i just need to clear that last hurdle. i feel like im not being sexual enough. i feel like these girls are being disappointed because they are expecting me to be something but I'm not delivering. what should i do?