double_trouble
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- Joined
- Jan 22, 2021
Hi guys, first post here.
I've read all of Andy's articles and I'm here to commit. Right now life feels so suffocating. I just moved back in with my parents (I know) to start my graduate program at a top university in a big city. This girl who lived in my home city, who I was never able to make anything happen with, jumped back on my radar. Everything seemed like it was on an upswing. Then covid hit.
I've basically been a prisoner in my room for almost a year now. Work is grinding, the weather is cold and lockdowns are tightening, and I live with my parents, brother, dog, and my brother's piano teacher (long story). I've tried tinder, bumble, okcupid, etc., not much luck. I have 0 good photos, 0 friends in this city, 0 opportunities to leave my house. I'm in the worst shape of my life despite being in great shape before the gyms closed. And the girl rejected me, so here I am. Starting from square one. A tabula rasa for this forum, I hope. Honestly if I could just make some friends here that would be great.
I'm just a bit lost on what to start working on first. Bear in mind that I have a) tons of money to spend and b) tons of work to do. So I have money but not time. Part of me says just give up on the apps and focus on fitness for a few months. Another part of me says I should start trying to get better photos of myself. Another part says work with what I got. Come April I believe the lockdowns will be close to being over, the weather will be nicer, and I will have a lot of free time. Should I just focus on fitness until then? Also while I have money, I want to spend it efficiently and not just blow it on a bunch of designer clothes that barely help me.
Please help guys, I'm really feel like a prisoner.
I've read all of Andy's articles and I'm here to commit. Right now life feels so suffocating. I just moved back in with my parents (I know) to start my graduate program at a top university in a big city. This girl who lived in my home city, who I was never able to make anything happen with, jumped back on my radar. Everything seemed like it was on an upswing. Then covid hit.
I've basically been a prisoner in my room for almost a year now. Work is grinding, the weather is cold and lockdowns are tightening, and I live with my parents, brother, dog, and my brother's piano teacher (long story). I've tried tinder, bumble, okcupid, etc., not much luck. I have 0 good photos, 0 friends in this city, 0 opportunities to leave my house. I'm in the worst shape of my life despite being in great shape before the gyms closed. And the girl rejected me, so here I am. Starting from square one. A tabula rasa for this forum, I hope. Honestly if I could just make some friends here that would be great.
I'm just a bit lost on what to start working on first. Bear in mind that I have a) tons of money to spend and b) tons of work to do. So I have money but not time. Part of me says just give up on the apps and focus on fitness for a few months. Another part of me says I should start trying to get better photos of myself. Another part says work with what I got. Come April I believe the lockdowns will be close to being over, the weather will be nicer, and I will have a lot of free time. Should I just focus on fitness until then? Also while I have money, I want to spend it efficiently and not just blow it on a bunch of designer clothes that barely help me.
Please help guys, I'm really feel like a prisoner.