Xealous
Member
- Joined
- Aug 13, 2022
Hey Men,
One of my primary goals at the moment is BEAT AA.
I can think back to heaps of times in life were I've let possibilities slip-by because I hadn't built the confidence or social-freedom to act upon them, and I am certain that if I am to dedicate time to beating this habit that I have built, it will pay dividends in all other areas of my life.
Day 1 - 13
For these days, I have really not had any difficulty completing the drills, with my only issue being that foot traffic may be slow, thus I have started going out of my way i.e. to a shopping mall like 20 minutes out, to increase the amount of people available for me to complete my drills.
There have also been many surprisingly good responses which is cool, I've especially enjoyed going through purposely awkward situations for example, when someone answers, "no" to "have you been to XYZ?" and you ask "how was it?"
Day 14
This was my first failed day, I found it so hard to gain any momentum for about 12 attempts, I got one high-five and it wasn't even that it was a fist bump into my open hand ahahha. The rest of the drills the girl would just walk past, it was also quite difficult to do this drill because I was in a shopping centre most peoples hands were full with trollies and/or bags so I might have to switch it up to get this drill done.
Aside
A quick aside while the ink is still flowing, I've had the experience recently that I'll be hitting on someone (I know that as part of the AA program I should forget about getting laid yada yada)
and although I am still in their sometimes they will seem uninterested and at this point I know this isn't about my social freedom as I opened them and am screening them physically, so I believe it must be about my looks, specifically my style right. When I go out I typically go dancing and will wear suit shirt and suit pants and I believe that if my target audience is someone around my age, they usually wear a much different style, typically north face, some chains, accessories, air forces e.t.c. I am wondering if it would be worth it to dress more similarly to those that have success with the type of girl that I am approaching the most frequently. I don't want to drop too much money on designer BS, could do a chinese wholesaler shop though
POUR CONCLURE
I am on day 14, but I am going to skip this drill until I am in the city during night game, I think this type of drill would work best when every one is a little more wilder than an afternoon shopping trip. I will try my hardest to keep this log alive, I've seen so many people stop blogging after like 2 or 3 days, just letting you know that won't be me.
Signed Xealously.
One of my primary goals at the moment is BEAT AA.
I can think back to heaps of times in life were I've let possibilities slip-by because I hadn't built the confidence or social-freedom to act upon them, and I am certain that if I am to dedicate time to beating this habit that I have built, it will pay dividends in all other areas of my life.
Day 1 - 13
For these days, I have really not had any difficulty completing the drills, with my only issue being that foot traffic may be slow, thus I have started going out of my way i.e. to a shopping mall like 20 minutes out, to increase the amount of people available for me to complete my drills.
There have also been many surprisingly good responses which is cool, I've especially enjoyed going through purposely awkward situations for example, when someone answers, "no" to "have you been to XYZ?" and you ask "how was it?"
Get in There - Chris GLL
Day 14
This was my first failed day, I found it so hard to gain any momentum for about 12 attempts, I got one high-five and it wasn't even that it was a fist bump into my open hand ahahha. The rest of the drills the girl would just walk past, it was also quite difficult to do this drill because I was in a shopping centre most peoples hands were full with trollies and/or bags so I might have to switch it up to get this drill done.
Aside
A quick aside while the ink is still flowing, I've had the experience recently that I'll be hitting on someone (I know that as part of the AA program I should forget about getting laid yada yada)
and although I am still in their sometimes they will seem uninterested and at this point I know this isn't about my social freedom as I opened them and am screening them physically, so I believe it must be about my looks, specifically my style right. When I go out I typically go dancing and will wear suit shirt and suit pants and I believe that if my target audience is someone around my age, they usually wear a much different style, typically north face, some chains, accessories, air forces e.t.c. I am wondering if it would be worth it to dress more similarly to those that have success with the type of girl that I am approaching the most frequently. I don't want to drop too much money on designer BS, could do a chinese wholesaler shop though
POUR CONCLURE
I am on day 14, but I am going to skip this drill until I am in the city during night game, I think this type of drill would work best when every one is a little more wilder than an afternoon shopping trip. I will try my hardest to keep this log alive, I've seen so many people stop blogging after like 2 or 3 days, just letting you know that won't be me.
Signed Xealously.