Yo bros!
Yesterday was not idea man.
Spent quite a lot of time engaged in critical thinking, and have a good plan, but the day felt low impact as fuck.
I also got a few phone calls from friends, I didn't pick up the first 5 (!!!) times but they kept calling.
The downside of my network is I have a lot of good friends who do genuinely love me, as I love them, but I have to keep up appearances and show my face sometimes so now it's biz hustle season this is going to be a factor while I am in the UK.
If it's just one phone call I can get back to it but 5 or 6 from the same person I have to act lol.
He just wanted to catch up.
See, there are aspects of my personality that mean some people really like me. The last gal I hooked up with, texts daily, and wants to speak on the phone today. This is super positive.
At the end of the day, I am looking for a LTR. I am now encouraged I can make that happen.
I also do need to work straight up on my Game. It has helped me express myself way better and create attraction. I love it!
Date last night, was cuck. She arrived 10m late, sat down and didn't apologise. She was super introverted, wouldn't speak much. After a short while she began to ask me a question or two. Her answers were quite negative and depressing and her energy was making me want to run home.
Her energy was super super low, and I do not enjoy that, it leaves me bored and wanting to find someone else. She was also not OK with sitting close to me. Place was loud and though I sat right next to her for the first part, she then told me "sit over there" and wanted me on the opposite side of the table. I refused, and stated my preference, but offered a compromise to sit in the other seat half way over. She said she needs a lot of space. It's not my preference to have a date like this. This was not going to create a fun experience for me at all. I gave her an ultimatum: I can compromise and sit on that seat, half way between, but I'm not sitting on the opposite side of the table in a loud crowded bar, where I won't be able to speak or hear you. She robotically said "Well it was nice to meet you" and got up to leave. In one motion, I grabbed my jacket, said have a good night, and bounced!
30m in total.
W: I didn't buy any drinks, she asked at the start but I delayed it, and also due to a barrier error, I didn't have to pay for parking. Spent 0 on the date!
Learnings:
This chick was Romanian. It's like talking to a brick wall. But I knew that going in ;-) PRACTICE. It's just numbers. You work on various sticking points, and then move onto the next.
I have never gotten a date in my home town, ever, so shoutout my profile improvements for getting me that. The girl was OK looking (about a 5.5), but horrible personality wise (bringing her down to a -18).
Buyer, not the seller. Men are allowed preferences. You're allowed to end dates. You don't have to be attracted to these people. It's OK to practice.
Onwards.
Going to switch locations to a coffee shop, maybe do some approaches if I see ANY volume (which I doubt to be honest), and grind some output.
Will hit the gym.
And will hit the clubs with my friend later. Nothing serious, there's not a lot on round here, and no logistics.
Practice.
-MAC