Brandon Builds - Conversation with the ex-wife

Please never stop sharing the Fetlife stuff you're doing. I don't really have time atm but in the near future I want to max out my profile there and once I'm settled in a new city semi-permanently I'd want to do events too (but in a slightly different way than you.)

Really cool to read all this stuff.

And yes, the status things vs no status, is night and day. Literal cheat code.

Just thought I'd share this because there are few examples of not being toxic with your exes and lots of resources on how to get a girl and start a relationship, but few on how to end one (or in our case, transition/ take a step down on the relationship escalator).




I take pride in the face that even though I pushed her hard, the challenge helped her grow more confident and into her own once we split. But sometimes I was over the top because I did it to myself. I expected her to play at my level of improvement all the time. I'm much more peaceful, loving, and compassionate, than I used to be. This upcoming year I'm really working on contentment.

Also something I always appreciate about her, our texting from the very beginning all the way back in college, was always fucking novels. Haha. None of that multiple short text shit.

@Bman, amazing stuff mate. I am also on some similar site in my own country. We have Fet as well, but it is too BDSM/queer in Europe and it is less about sex.

Is it possible to get your profile name and check it out? (Of course in private)