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IMO, its not about 'needing' more. If you frame it that way, obviously it rings hollow, hence why you don't care. There's a couple of negative reasons that are real: 1. You drove yourself out of complacency and achieved these things because of the NEED. Not because you're just a disciplined...

I think its one of the biggest factors to his success. Look how dejected, apathetic, or nihilistic the style most people tend to communicate like on here. That shit leaks out. It starts infecting you, it changes which adjectives you use, what words you use, and how you frame the world and...

You're thinking you're being strong and courageous by treating yourself so harshly, but its the opposite. Yeah, you are a coward, so what? Virtually everyone is society today is cowardly beyond belief. This need to reject yourself isn't helping. Way too much focus on perfection and an inflated...

I'm not saying this as some curmudgeon, but staying out this late when the rest of your schedule is normal DESTROYS you. I feel like shit for the next 3 days. Even on the third day I am not 100% recovered from the stupidity of staying up that late. I just don't think its worth it. I can't...

This was my biggest ick with girls heavy into the kink scene. This over-reliance and crutching on ritualistic / autistic type of sex scenes with scripts and exact descriptions for every sequence of events that are to happen. NONE OF THAT is sexy, for anyone. I'm even willing to believe its...

Hydro was sorry to read your last post, hope you're doing well, honestly as I'm writing this I'm quite worried about you. If you need help or want to talk to someone, DM me. Happy to jump on a call.

My personal thoughts for my own success/failure has been there's 5 elements to success, in this order: 1. Hard work / consistent habits 2. Courage 3. Strategy 4. Time / Luck 5. Faith The key to #1 is mentally getting off on knocking out your daily habits. You need to turn them from a chore into...

Not to be Debby Downer, but I'm not sure this is actually within the real of possible for most people. Maybe there are some ascended humans that are capable of this. Speaking for myself: Both negative and positive reinforcement > negative reinforcement > positive reinforcement The only...

Agreed. IMO, tattoos don't directly increase SMV, they increase your perceived dominance and masculinity. That increases your SMV if you don't already have it, but does nothing or starts backfiring when overdone. Someone like The Rock did not increase his SMV via getting tattoos.

I don't have skin in the game regarding surgery options being good or bad. I am curious on the risks though. Even if you axiomatically accept that the good outcomes are really good, what are the chances for great, good, mediocre, bad, and devastating outcomes? Take breast enlargement or BBL...

Agreed, saying "I won't chase", 100% doesn't work. I think there actually is some way to accomplish this using either FOMO via time constraints (I'm leaving town X days") or some creative method of implying not chasing indirectly. I still think its just not worth the effort. All the energy I...

Is this really a thing? I hear about it all the time, but it never once happened to me (for this reason), and its obvious I have money. I haven't dated that many 30yo+, maybe it shows up then. Also, I feel like a significant amount of "youre moving too fast" isn't actually lack of comfort, but...

I love theory, and I don't care if other's feel its useless, it hasn't been for me. I'm not convinced on the thread you have with empathy == sameness == closing value gaps == lowering your value. You might need to define empathy better for us to debate this. If empathy is understanding her...

This is a great insight that applies equally to dates or relationships in general. If no one is leading, it is probably going nowhere worth going. I think the reason dirty talk works so well is that its frame setting on a blank canvas. You can setup any type of relationship or desired...

Your profile is not tip top, you literally set one up for the first time. There's millions of things you can do better than what are in the guides. If you reached the end of the stack in 1 session, and it isn't due to the app gating you for a few days (which I've seen for new accounts, lasts a...

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Love reading stuff like this. Really feels good to go from a fuck up to having your shit together, doesn't it? I don't know much about ads, but this one doesn't strike me as being very good. There's a lot of buzzword bingo, there's no real hook or narrative to it. I can't remember the name of...

Its not worth it. For the simple reason you get more value out of buying $500 in super likes. They sorta kinda say you get to message people without matching first, but that's just the same thing as a super like. And this "fake superlike" is very limited, you don't get that many of them. If you...

I don't know a single thing about chewing devices/mewwing, but pathetic or not, all the other stuff mentioned in that twitter post actually does work. " (I don't need visible abs, 10% bodyfat, or super-high lifts in the gym for anything beyond my ego)" I think this is a weird take. Why...

I found getting in shape pretty easy when I had zero social commitments. I could set a routine, just follow it, and it never got interrupted. No birthdays, no get togethers, no parties, no dates, no bars, no dinners, etc.