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  1. MostlyAloof

    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    She hasn't discussed sexual history, is that something we are supposed to do? I don't know how to speak like a sexual being. Also keep in mind, I didn't touch her sexually until last Saturday. Maybe she's just been wondering why I waited so long to initiate? I'd be surprised if she saw me as...
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    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    You are merely assuming I appear needy to her, but I simply typed a needy sounding message. I certainty don't act needy in person with her. I talk to her like she's my friend and we kiss periodically. If anything, she probably thinks I'm unaware/naive about most things. Because I am and it...
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    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    Do ultimatums work? If I tell any girl it's sex or nothing, does that ever actually work out? Does it make sense to give an ultimatum only in person?
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    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    I'm simply following Chris's guide, which says that most new guys get laid on the 5th or 6th date. I didn't want it to take so long, but I was clueless until date 4. This is a nightmare. I don't have options. I went through every dating profile on 3 dating apps before I met this girl (Like, no...
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    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    I'm simply following Chris's guide, which says that most new guys get laid on the 5th or 6th date. I didn't want it to take so long, but I was clueless until date 4. This is a nightmare. I don't have options. I went through every dating profile on 3 dating apps before I met this girl
  6. MostlyAloof

    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    It's not that... I'm literally just trying to figure out how to act tonight. Reserved or sexual? Asking about being a pig is just my way of saying, should I be forwardly sexual and touchy?
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    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    I couldn't care less about validation, I merely want to sleep with someone that I find attractive & likes me. Prostitutes will never be on the table for me. I get validation everytime I leave the house
  8. MostlyAloof

    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    I totally feel where you're coming from. I know it sounds pretty needy but I still decided to post it. That's because it's worth the risk to me. We've both paid money for dates, admittedly I've paid more but that's not a big deal for me. Another thing, she happens to have the same medical...
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    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    Hey man thanks for reaching out, I ended up sending a text to her suggesting drinks at a nice hotel but she saw through me. She told me she's not ready for that. I didn't respond back soon enough, so after awhile she sent a follow up text. When I finally read them both, that's when I read...
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    How can I seal the deal? (6th date)

    A few days ago I made a post asking for advice about going on my 5th date. She's the first girl to ever go on multiple dates with me. I've never been laid but I feel extremely close to sealing the deal. I've made it a point to progress further each time we go out, last night being the best date...
  11. MostlyAloof

    Advice for a noob on 5th date

    I really really wish I knew that. I feel retarded now, I thought making out was French kissing/tongue. Had no idea making out was supposed to be small kisses continuously. Had I known this I probably could have taken things much further. Didn't know that girls don't care much about these...
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    Advice for a noob on 5th date

    Thank you, but honestly my forearms are my least impressive muscles. Veiny though, yes. I've thought about the hiking sex thing. It sounds good but I'd still have to figure out how to touch her sexually, because hiking itself isn't going to get her in the mood. My relative could leave for...
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    Advice for a noob on 5th date

    So I'm pretty much brand new to dating, I've waited far too long trying to 'perfect' myself prior to dating. One day I suddenly began getting matches on dating apps, for reasons unbeknownst to me. Never had any real success in the past on apps. A girl finally met me for a date which lead to a...
  14. MostlyAloof

    READ THIS - You MUST post here before you can post anywhere else.

    My goal is getting laid at least once. That's literally it. I want to achieve learning how to interact with women correctly. I, MostlyAloof, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
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