“Intriguing”

[eric-drifter]

Hey all. I’m new to doing the BDSM approach. In response to the “Have experience...” question a lot of girls respond with “I’m intrigued” or some variation.

It is interest but not enthusiastic interest. I feel like asking for the number at that point is premature.

I’m not filtering for only DTF girls. I actually want a girlfriend who’s interested in BDSM.

Wondering if you guys have some experience responding to the intrigued girl in an engaging way, what would you say? (So far I’m thinking just moving on to “when you think of BDSM what comes to mind” would be a good idea).

 

[AGF]

So you want to dominate them in bed but you can't ask them directly for the number? As soon as you drop the BDSM line, they'll have certain expectations from you. Being direct and going after what you want, is one of them. If they reply with "I'm intrigued", that's a huge sign of interest from their part.

 

[Radical]

Guys if you're new to this and you want to ask if you can change the template

The answer will always be no