January Recap – My Best Month So Far
January was the most exciting and rewarding month so far. Lots of new insights, discoveries, and novel experiences. The first month of this year started off with a bang:
I banged 3 new chicks in one weekend!!!! Never done that before!
But let me give a week-by-week breakdown with some insights and revelations that I’ve had along the way.
1/3 – 1/9
Returned to lovely and cold Chiraq from a 3-week vacation, looking tan as fuq. (I have to remember to maintain a tan year-round. It really does wonders for my looks. Without it, I look as pale as Caspar the Friendly Ghost – lmfao). Since classes didn’t start until the 18th – I’m in law school – I had ample time to work and workout. So I was hitting the gym 2x a day for the first two weeks of January.
There’s nothing in life more important than being tan and being ripped – RIP Zyzz.
Anyways, that week I was scheming to meet up with this girl that I’ve been chatting with since December. We made out the month before, but because I went on vacation, I couldn’t seal the deal. The problem is that her friend group
despises me lol. Like hates my guts, so they judge her for hanging with me. I organized a lil’ get-together at a sushi place Thursday night with some of my friends and her friends that are cool with one another. Made sure to sit next to her and keep running my hand up her thigh. Eventually, I get up to go to the bathroom and, once there, message her to come too. She complies
and I grab her by the hand and execute the Scotty bathroom pull. I was alpha and dominant as fuck in the moment. We just made out cuz she was scared a friend would come in and see.
(It was only later that night that I realized how ballsy and insane that was shit was. Crazy how certain things that seemed IMPOSSIBLE six months ago have become reality.)
Insight
Reading Chris’s and Scotty’s personal adventures really opened my eyes to what was possible and how to go about doing it. I need to read in more to the stories of other legends on the GLL forum. I’ve found Boytoy’s webpage archived and, from what I’ve glimpsed, it looks to have some solid stuff. You’d be surprised at what small, nifty stuff you can randomly pick up and later use. E.g., I think I picked this up from
Two and A Half Men (lmao), when a girl asks for my phone number I respond, “You’re gonna have to persuade me” and signal to her that she needs to kiss me. Love doing that shit.
The group dispersed and the girl left with her friends. She kept calling me all. night. long. and messaging me about how wet she was (mhhhhhh). I told her to send me her address, but she was staying at a friend’s. Bummer.
Next day, Friday, I straight message her to come over. She complies. She comes over to my place, and I come out to meet her at her car (she hasn’t been to my place before). We hit a speed bump here. Out of nowhere she tells me that she can’t do this; how she’s nervous ya-ta-ya-ya-ta.
Uhhhhhhhhhhh
I’m all soothing and calming, but this girl just becomes stiff and frigid. I become frustrated (internally that is; I don’t show it) and tell her, “Yeah. We shouldn’t do this.” Kiss her hand and get out her car. She leaves and we haven’t spoken until recently.
In hindsight this was just last-minute resistance that I should have
eassssily overcome with a bit more persistence. But I was irritated. I hadn’t gotten laid in a month. And I haven’t masturbated or watched porn in like 3 months.
Discovery
Ever since I’ve started getting action regularly, my desire to watch porn and jerk off has vanished. I don’t even get hard from explicit pictures anymore. And it is fan-fucking-tastic. I can finally just focus on what I’m doing.
Girls volunteer to send me nudes, but I dissuade them. What the hell am I gonna do with them?
Since I wasted my Friday night, I went out with friends that Saturday. We went out to this small-ish, but popular, bar. I made the rounds hitting on chicks – at first solo and later with a wingman. Two chicks showed interest, but we got bogged down in conversation and there was no place to take these girls to make out. Logistics at this place sucked. But it’s whatever. Ebb and flow.
Funny Story
Hit on this one girl that demanded – DEMANDED – I buy her a drink. Laughed in her face and went away.
1/10-1/16 (Hattrick Weekend)
Felt bored Monday and Tuesday so I hit up two malls to do some solo cold approaches. Had some decent opportunities Monday and A LOT Tuesday but only managed to do a single one each day.
L’Approach-Anxiety. Very annoying. Sometimes it incapacitates me and other times it’s non-existent.
Monday hit on a cute cashier after she gave me my receipt. She was stunned and had a difficult time talking haha. Held my hand the entire interaction, but she told me something like, “no, no. I can’t.”
Tuesday hit on a reeeeally cute cashier at a store I passed by. Girl turned bright red when I told her she was cute.
. It was adorable. She thanked me but told me she was leaving for her college at the end of the week. Might have been a freshman or sophomore – idk.
I love cold-approaching for the thrill. I almost don’t care if the girl doesn’t give me her number and/or we don’t end up banging. It’s just so fucking fun and alpha and dominant. It’s exhilarating asserting yourself, breaking the norm and tedium of the everyday. Absolute rush.
Also got some real güd workout and going out drip.
Lay 1 – Thursday (Cold-Approach)
Hit up a friend I haven’t seen in a while to go get dinner and just hang. We go to this kinda bougie place that is restaurant by day and club by night. Enjoy an excellent meal. Randomly, some drunk girl approaches us and starts making small talk. We banter with her, and she demands to know if I want her phone number. I tell her she has to persuade me
and point to my cheek. She scoffs and scrams. I hit on two hotties and get a # from one.
My friend and I get approached by this strange dude who asks if we want to drink with him and his pal. They’re both dripped out, swagged out – just as my friend and I are – so we join them. We get to drinking and somehow a conversation sprouts up with a group of boys and girls sitting at the table next to us. They make ready to leave, but I make a move on this pretty chubby chick that was really interested. (5/10). Mind you, I was horny. Grab her hand and lead her to a secluded area and make out with her. She gets really turned on but has to leave with et al. Gives me her number.
The gang and I uber to a bar that’s pretty lit. Lots of young people my age. As soon as we get inside, I’m making the rounds: hitting on every hot chick in my field of vision. See one of the most gorgeous girls I’ve ever seen: sleek black hair cut short Cleopatra-esque, phenomenal breasts and ass. I blitz in. She’s with a group of girlfriends so my boys provide covering fire. Interaction goes extremely well; I tell her to grab her drink and follow me. Lead her by the hand to a secluded spot but make the CRITICAL error of spinning her around and slapping her ass. UHHHHHH. Girl leaves.
Insight
(Never doing that again. I got that from an old GLL video with Scotty. But that chick interpreted that as sleazy and crass. NEVER DO ANYTHING SLEAZY AND CRASS).
Continue on hitting more chicks but the interactions go nowhere. Some girl was so stunned by my approach that she couldn’t respond. I asked her friends if she was mute and tried communicating with her in sign language hahahaha.
My friends leave ‘cuz they’re pretty messed up. I’m not fond of drinking, so I don’t overindulge. That chubby girl from earlier hits me up and asks to meet up. I give her the deets to my apartment and she comes over. We fuck and she sleeps over. Very sweet girl. Don’t know her name and haven’t spoken to her since lol. But walked her out the door when she left next morning.
Lay 2 - Friday (Social Circle)
Meet up with company of amigos at the same bar as the previous day (though with different friends). We get a table. One amigo invites two girls that he friends with, but that I haven’t met before. Both are pretty cute (6/10). I feel out both but, initially, they didn’t seem that interested. Resort to Plan B: playing the field.
Funny-Ass Story
Hit on a couple girls but they have BFs. Catch this one hottt Indian girl giving me the eye as she passes by. Stop her and do my thing. Lead her away from her friends and my friends and proceed to make out and squeeze on some ass and titties. She whispers in my ear, “Do you want to see me naked?” I reply, “Fuck yeah I want to see you naked.” Girl whips out her phone and starts showing me nudes of herself :lol: . Not exactly what I had in mind!!! Try to get this girl to leave with me but she from NYC and leaves tmrw. She gives me her Snap and messaged me like two weeks later. lmao
I return to my company of amici and amicae. At this point in the night, everyone is pretty drunk (and horny). Catch one of the two girls in my group eyeing me. Sidle up beside her and get to talking. Eventually, grab her by the hand and lead her away to make out. Superb. My roommate takes the other girl and she, I, he, we depart. Return to our apartment. Girl I’m with is going crazy making out with me and feeling me up but says she can’t have sex. I take it as last-minute resistance. Keep making out with her and eventually cajole her into going to my room. Eazy-peezy-lemon-squeezy from thereon. She leaves really early in the morning while I’m still asleep.
Made plans to meet up with her next week, but this girl is really rich and really erratic. On two separate occasions that we planned to meet up, she booked a flight to San Fran and then San Diego. I know the trips were legit because she posted them on her Snap story. Whateves.
Saturday
Go out with the boyz to get wings. Group of inebriated chicks from adjoining table come over and converse. Wasn’t feeling any of them, but my roommate (the one from the previous evening) secured one of their #’s. He still bangs her ever and anon. Dude’s a natural and not into any of this pick-up stuff. I notice our waitress is pretty cute (7/10) so, as we’re leaving, I make my move. Girl turns out to be really receptive, so I get some digits and a Snap.
We go out to a multi-story bar/club. Some girls meet up with us. I wasn’t feeling any of them and I already banged one of ‘em. On the downside, in terms of chicks, this place we’re at is pretty dead. I had to scrape the bottom of the barrel without any luck. Eventually, the group disperses.
Two amigos and I venture to a neighboring bar. We encounter this group of STUNNING hotties. I make my move on this one that really caught my eye and she reciprocates the interest. Kept things very flirty and touchy (as I always do now). Realize I can’t detach her from her friends, so I settle for some digits. She hugs me when I say goodbye lol. Girl later turned out to be a psycho while I was txting her, so I dodged a bullet.
Some Insights
I was watching an old GLL video (thank God they’ve been reuploaded) and realized that I hadn’t been all that flirty with girls. My standard approach – night game – was the opener, physically screen, make some small talk, and then lead the girl away from her friends to the dance floor and make out. The conversations I had were generic, mundane, and not fun/interesting at all – not even for me. It was all so mechanical. But ABSOLUTELY imperative at the beginning stages. Incorporating some flirting into my interactions has supremely enhanced my results.
Also. Whereas over the previous months I wasn’t taking any #’s – because I was following Chris’ advice about getting laid same night – I’ve started taking #s.
Lay 3 - Monday (Tinder) (It was MLK day so technically still a part of the weekend haha
Little backstory. At the beginning of the week, I hopped back on Tinder. I hadn’t been on for maybe over a year ‘cuz I was focusing on beating AA and boosting my confidence and verbal skills around
real chicks. Getting inspired by Andy’s guide – and more importantly following his advice – I got more likes and matches than ever b4. (Thanks KillYourInnerLoser !). Thanks also to Playingwithfire’s YT vids on tinder messaging, one Tinder interaction went verrryyy smoothly.
I matched with this (7/10) Latina on Friday, and we planned to get drinks Monday evening. She’s super responsive. I quickly move the convo onto Snap. I kept the convo fun and flirty without it devolving into anything mundane, trivial, boring, or dirty. I was concise and focused solely on meeting up. As the man, I set up all the arrangements Saturday – time, place, me picking her up, etc. She just acquiesces. Send her one message Sunday to confirm and tell her I’ll call her the next day before I leave to pick her up.
Discovery/Revelation
I don’t know how effectively this is, but I think that asking a chick, “We still good for tomorrow?” gives her too much power. Like it’s up to her to decided if we meet up or not. I also feel like it gives her an exit chance or will sow doubt in her mind about meeting up. Chris once said that sex happens when a guy and a girl like each other, and the guy makes it happen. So, instead, I now txt call girls saying, “You still good to go tmrw?”
Monday, I call her and she’s good to go. I pick her up and this girl looks hot as hell. Big butt, wearing a white crop top with gorgeous breasts. She’s got blue hair highlights, so I’m reminded of Shego from Kim Possible :lol: . Absolute turn-on. We get to the bar, order some drinks and food (on me of course) and get to talking. She can’t maintain eye contact with me for too long, plays with her hair, and talking nervously and profusely. No light could be greener.
She says, “You don’t talk much. Do you.” I respond, “No. I’m more action-oriented.” She was sitting across from me, so I move her drink and food and order her to move over. I sit next to her, put my arm on the spine of her chair, and start caressing her thigh. Girl just can’t take it anymore and we start making out.
We exit the place and I suggest that we go get a hotel room (one was close by). She declines ‘cuz she doesn’t want to do anything the first date. Instead, she proposes we go to my car to keep making out. Being a gentleman, I oblige. Inside my car, we continue making out. Meanwhile, I’m being real dominant and leading the interaction. Really getting her worked up to the point that she says, “Fuck it.” Takes her soaking panties off and we get at it.
Hottest and best sex of my life. So good, in fact, I immediately made plans to meet up with her that Friday.
(1/17 - 1/23)
Back to the law school grind.
The momentum I built up from the previous week had me cold approaching with the greatest ease I’ve ever had. Hit on a girl at Starbucks during a lunch break and secured some digits. Girl never responded but whateves.
Met up with my FwB, whom I haven’t seen since December, on Thursday. Had dinner (on me) and then banged at her place. She’s a cutie with a rockin bod and terrific personality. Absolute sweetheart that I will definitely keep around.
Met up with Tinder girl Friday. We smoked a lot of weed. She’s a stoner, while I’m not. But I’m always down for an adventure and something out of the ordinary. Had sex a bunch of times. Ran thru a whole box of condoms.
Discovery
Having fuck buddies makes me laaaazy. It makes me lose sight of my goals ‘cuz all I can focus on is the girl I’m with. Plus, I’ve got a tight schedule, so meeting up with them sometimes throws a wrench into that.
But it has its upside. Just hanging out with girls, listening to them talk about their stuff, figuring out how to act and interact with them made me realize how weak I am in the area of retention. (I’ve never had a gf). I’d say more than half of the time I’m not sure of myself as to what to do. I never reveal that, of course. But I’ve realized I’m pretty good at opening, the first date, and first sex, but after that I don’t really have anything concrete. So, they’re definitely helping me work on that.
Saturday was supposed to meet up with the waitress from last Saturday. I had arranged everything – venue, time, pick-up – last Sunday. Tried to meet up sooner but she’s had a lot on her plate. Snapped her throughout the week once or twice a day so that she wouldn’t lost interest. Called her Friday evening to confirm and she was a-go. She didn’t send me her address until half an hour before the meet but by that point I just couldn’t logistically come to her. Told her I wasn’t interested anymore and that it was nice talking to her. I didn’t see the point of continuing to message her if she wasn’t dying to meet up.
(1/24 - 1/30)
Tuesday Tinder girl came over. Had dinner and banged.
Wednesday went to the gym with my FwB, ate, and banged.
Thursday went out to this college bar with some bros. Great watering hole. The girls there are all horny and college aged, surrounded by dudes that don’t know how to make a move. Competition is non-existent. Grabbed this one cute shortie and danced/made out with her. She tells quite sternly, “Shove your hand under my shirt.” lmfao. Why certainly. But it turns out the girl gave me a phony #. Some dude responded the next day
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Saturday a friend was having people over at her crib. Had a good time socializing and meeting new peeps. Went out to a bigass country bar nearby. Enjoyed some time socializing and being convivial. Later in the night made the rounds. Hit on this gorgeous (9/10) college senior with slick black hair (love that shit). But the girl was AWKWARD. She couldn’t maintain the conversation. She just kept saying how “bold” and “forward” I was. Like appreciate it but I’m well aware of those traits as well. Ended up making out with a girl in my social circle but didn’t feel like taking her home.
Conclusion
In retrospect, not a bad month for a dude that banged his first chick six months ago. lmfao.
Everything I do – my approach, my convos, my style, my outlook – has come about from binge watching/listening/reading GLL. Andy was instrumental in upping my Tinder game, but I still have much muuuucchhh more work to do in that area. I got a DSLR so I just gotta put in the work in with that.
Going forward:
Improve Tinder game: better pictures.
Up the volume with girls I approach
Continue to tweak my style
Make more friends/expand my social circle (I hope to make some ambitious, adventurous, and interesting friends from this forum).
I'll be keeping an eye on your progress as well.
