BKennedy327
New member
- Joined
- Sep 1, 2023
Hello everyone! I just made an account today on this forum; I've been a lurker on GLL for a time before it seemingly went offline. I was skeptical of this place at first but it feels like this is a genuinely positive community for men who wish to improve themselves. Even so, I'd prefer to keep this part of my journey separate from my public persona, at least for now. I'll probably post a picture with my face at some point, but not today.
Anyway, some basic information about me is that I'm 26 years old, I'm 4 foot 11 (hella short I know), I live in the suburbs near DC, and I'm bisexual/pansexual. Sexually, I've had a good bit of play, but it's all been with men (27 to be exact), and I'd like to start exploring the woman-loving side of my identity.
It's a bit far into the year to be setting goals, but my goals as they stand are:
1. Achieve 18% body fat by EOY (right now I'm at 23.5%)
2. Make, and keep, a weekly meal and workout plan at least 80% of time (I'm already doing this with the aid of a coach)
3. Approach 5 people flirtatiously offline by end of year. Talk to them for at least 2 minutes. It's fine if it doesn't go beyond this; I just want to get into the habit of talking to hot people as those opportunities come up in my life.
4. Explore my spirituality
5. Earn a certificate in project management (almost there!)
More general and longer-term goals for my self include
1. Enroll in a master's program in international affairs, international development, or similar by the age of 30. Preferably in another country.
2. Continue staying active in my community. I currently sit on two nonprofit boards and volunteer regularly. It's tiring, but rewarding.
3. Make more time for my non-media-consumption hobbies like painting. I also want to get into the habit of spending more time outdoors.
I know a lot of guys on here are focused a lot on getting laid but I'd kind of rather focus on becoming a more well-rounded human being. I feel like that part will fall into place organically as I live my life and do more things. Never underestimate the pussy-moistening power of being normal!
This will be my log for tracking these goals, as well as any thoughts I have as I go about my days.
Anyway, some basic information about me is that I'm 26 years old, I'm 4 foot 11 (hella short I know), I live in the suburbs near DC, and I'm bisexual/pansexual. Sexually, I've had a good bit of play, but it's all been with men (27 to be exact), and I'd like to start exploring the woman-loving side of my identity.
It's a bit far into the year to be setting goals, but my goals as they stand are:
1. Achieve 18% body fat by EOY (right now I'm at 23.5%)
2. Make, and keep, a weekly meal and workout plan at least 80% of time (I'm already doing this with the aid of a coach)
3. Approach 5 people flirtatiously offline by end of year. Talk to them for at least 2 minutes. It's fine if it doesn't go beyond this; I just want to get into the habit of talking to hot people as those opportunities come up in my life.
4. Explore my spirituality
5. Earn a certificate in project management (almost there!)
More general and longer-term goals for my self include
1. Enroll in a master's program in international affairs, international development, or similar by the age of 30. Preferably in another country.
2. Continue staying active in my community. I currently sit on two nonprofit boards and volunteer regularly. It's tiring, but rewarding.
3. Make more time for my non-media-consumption hobbies like painting. I also want to get into the habit of spending more time outdoors.
I know a lot of guys on here are focused a lot on getting laid but I'd kind of rather focus on becoming a more well-rounded human being. I feel like that part will fall into place organically as I live my life and do more things. Never underestimate the pussy-moistening power of being normal!
This will be my log for tracking these goals, as well as any thoughts I have as I go about my days.
