JurcekThePurcek
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- Apr 24, 2022
Hey guys,
This is where I am gonna log my log approaches, but first about my situation regarding game and what got me here.
It's pretty simple really, I just wanna get laid, I have broken up with my ex girlfriend last year in October and have been sexless since. Been lurking around these forums for about a year now. I have gone through basically all the posts on GLL regarding game and CA so I am aware that it is a number's game and that I should focus on my looks (which is a big part of the game). Also I went through basically all the red pill content there is (started that when I was with my ex-girlfriend and started trying red pill teaching and boy did it work). Nowadays, while I still essentially agree with the red pill I feel like it is a toxic way to look at woman and I especially hate how they generalize woman.
Looks department:
I am 172cm tall and my weight is always around 70kg.
My gym routine is 4 times a week hitting every muscle group 2 times in 7 days.
Maintenance calories are 2500, I'm eating about 2300 and following the advice to eat 1.8 - 2.2 g of protein per kg of bodyweight (every day I make sure to hit ATLEAST 130g). I also take creatine (5g every day). As long as my lifts are going up, I am not worried about upping my calories intake, as I want to shred down my face. I would guess I am around 13-14 % body fat.
Basically the whole fitness thing (gym and nutrition) is already dialed in and I am not worried about this department at all, since building muscle simply takes time.
I am not comfortable with showing my face here, but I trim my beard every 2-3 days so it looks fresh with (2.5mm extension). Hairstyle wise I am running a simple buzz cut. Throughout my life I have always been told I am above average looking, but that alone is not enough to get laid, obviously .
Cold approach department
Now comes the fun part. I have been gradually increasing the number of approaches I do in a week. I have started with cold approaching approximately 1 month ago and actually making it my priority (with work and gym of course). My goal is to get to at least 20 approaches per week (this is finally the week that it will happen so I figured this is a good time to make this post). Gotta say today I was gonna go approach but felt unmotivated which is another reason for this post tbh . Plan would be 5 days x 4 approaches. After I get comfortable with that I will up the volume.
Number of approaches by now is around 30ish (didn't keep a log unfortunately). Out of those 30ish approaches I have gotten 6 numbers and 1 instagram which led to absolutely nowhere. I have gotten 2 replies out of those.
Style when approaching:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/download/file.php?mode=view&id=9577
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/download/file.php?mode=view&id=9576
I also wear ripped jeans (black and blue) but atm it is too cold to wear them. When the weather will be suitable to wear them, I will make sure to post here. Before I approach I make sure to shower, put fragrance (Dior Sauvage) and chewing gum for better smell. I have 4-5 pullovers which I switch around and also a Levis hoodie which I like to wear when approaching. Been looking for a new pair of shoes to wear, but haven't found any.
Approaches themselves
At the moment I am only approaching single chicks. I open with "Hey, I know this is random/unexpected but I came to meet you" with strong eye contact and a little bit of a smirk. After that I shake her hand (always hold her hand for a little bit longer than it is "socially" acceptable) and give a compliment. Compliment is either regarding her style (You have nice style) or a piece of clothing she has (You have nice jacket, boots etc...). I don't really like "You're cute" line as I feel it is too generic and style is something she actually had to work on so it's a bit more personal. After that I ask something along the lines of "Whats up", "What's happening in your day today" or some shit like that. Pretty much downhill from there with the generic shit. Is she in college, work, what place she is from.
This is everything I can think of regarding approaches themselves, but will give more detail when I log the approaches.
Messaging leads
I haven't gotten far here AT ALL, but I open with " -myname winkyface". Talked to my roommate, his advice is to open with something regarding the conversation itself (he is much better with girls than I am) but I feel like the message itself IS NOT the reason chicks are not replying to me. The reason is because the conversations are pretty basic even though girls say it's pretty brave of me to go and approach them just like that. At the moment I don't really have much to add here.
And there you have it, I would appreciate any advice you guys have. Will be posting logs after every day I am approaching.
Let's rock and roll.
This is where I am gonna log my log approaches, but first about my situation regarding game and what got me here.
It's pretty simple really, I just wanna get laid, I have broken up with my ex girlfriend last year in October and have been sexless since. Been lurking around these forums for about a year now. I have gone through basically all the posts on GLL regarding game and CA so I am aware that it is a number's game and that I should focus on my looks (which is a big part of the game). Also I went through basically all the red pill content there is (started that when I was with my ex-girlfriend and started trying red pill teaching and boy did it work). Nowadays, while I still essentially agree with the red pill I feel like it is a toxic way to look at woman and I especially hate how they generalize woman.
Looks department:
I am 172cm tall and my weight is always around 70kg.
My gym routine is 4 times a week hitting every muscle group 2 times in 7 days.
Maintenance calories are 2500, I'm eating about 2300 and following the advice to eat 1.8 - 2.2 g of protein per kg of bodyweight (every day I make sure to hit ATLEAST 130g). I also take creatine (5g every day). As long as my lifts are going up, I am not worried about upping my calories intake, as I want to shred down my face. I would guess I am around 13-14 % body fat.
Basically the whole fitness thing (gym and nutrition) is already dialed in and I am not worried about this department at all, since building muscle simply takes time.
I am not comfortable with showing my face here, but I trim my beard every 2-3 days so it looks fresh with (2.5mm extension). Hairstyle wise I am running a simple buzz cut. Throughout my life I have always been told I am above average looking, but that alone is not enough to get laid, obviously .
Cold approach department
Now comes the fun part. I have been gradually increasing the number of approaches I do in a week. I have started with cold approaching approximately 1 month ago and actually making it my priority (with work and gym of course). My goal is to get to at least 20 approaches per week (this is finally the week that it will happen so I figured this is a good time to make this post). Gotta say today I was gonna go approach but felt unmotivated which is another reason for this post tbh . Plan would be 5 days x 4 approaches. After I get comfortable with that I will up the volume.
Number of approaches by now is around 30ish (didn't keep a log unfortunately). Out of those 30ish approaches I have gotten 6 numbers and 1 instagram which led to absolutely nowhere. I have gotten 2 replies out of those.
Style when approaching:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/download/file.php?mode=view&id=9577
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/download/file.php?mode=view&id=9576
I also wear ripped jeans (black and blue) but atm it is too cold to wear them. When the weather will be suitable to wear them, I will make sure to post here. Before I approach I make sure to shower, put fragrance (Dior Sauvage) and chewing gum for better smell. I have 4-5 pullovers which I switch around and also a Levis hoodie which I like to wear when approaching. Been looking for a new pair of shoes to wear, but haven't found any.
Approaches themselves
At the moment I am only approaching single chicks. I open with "Hey, I know this is random/unexpected but I came to meet you" with strong eye contact and a little bit of a smirk. After that I shake her hand (always hold her hand for a little bit longer than it is "socially" acceptable) and give a compliment. Compliment is either regarding her style (You have nice style) or a piece of clothing she has (You have nice jacket, boots etc...). I don't really like "You're cute" line as I feel it is too generic and style is something she actually had to work on so it's a bit more personal. After that I ask something along the lines of "Whats up", "What's happening in your day today" or some shit like that. Pretty much downhill from there with the generic shit. Is she in college, work, what place she is from.
This is everything I can think of regarding approaches themselves, but will give more detail when I log the approaches.
Messaging leads
I haven't gotten far here AT ALL, but I open with " -myname winkyface". Talked to my roommate, his advice is to open with something regarding the conversation itself (he is much better with girls than I am) but I feel like the message itself IS NOT the reason chicks are not replying to me. The reason is because the conversations are pretty basic even though girls say it's pretty brave of me to go and approach them just like that. At the moment I don't really have much to add here.
And there you have it, I would appreciate any advice you guys have. Will be posting logs after every day I am approaching.
Let's rock and roll.