Salsasurgeon
Member
- Joined
- Jan 19, 2021
Hey guys, I'm Omar from NYC, first off Happy New Year to you, hope you're safe and doing amazing. I'm a very busy Resident Surgeon and COVID frontline worker with a love for Comedy Clubs, Salsa Dancing, love my Giants, Knicks, WWE, and have a playful, silly side. I've accomplished so many things in my life, but for some strange reason, while I get some matches, they're usually from women I'm not really attracted to and I have friends that nothing really stands out on the surface, but they can attract some of those same women I'm targeting. My profile typically attracts women in their upper 30s, 40s, and yes, sometimes even 50s, and the occasional trannys (to each their own, but not my thing), that's had kids already and don't want anymore, and seem to have baggage that doesn't mesh with the vision of what I seek in a woman. I want to be capable of attracting women in their 20s and sure I can definitely improve on the caliber of women I attract in the 30s and up, but I'd much prefer the former, but I feel as though I'm being overlooked by the younger women, especially on these apps.
Here's the dropbox link to the profile / pics I've used and the profile screenshots are what I'm currently using:
https://www.dropbox.com/t/cpsgBX3EjjjYSGIO
I've worked with dating coaches & photographers and been misled and scammed by many over the years, as they seemed to be much more interested in taking my money and leaving me with a subpar profile and not truly being honest, or are clueless as to what would work best for me. I have some theories and ideas, but first I want to hear your perspective as I attached the current photos and profile I'm using on bumble / hinge / tinder and curious to hear your opinions as I'm very much determined to turn this around because its a New Year and despite the setbacks, and roadblocks, I've never given up, will continue fighting the good fight and determine to overcome this ongoing hurdle. Many thanks in advance for your help guys. There's some other pics, too many to grab from my Facebook, but I've included a link for you to peruse at your convenience:
So as you can see why I'm pretty frustrated, as I've tried it all, many professional photos and well and mediocre results, but I'm still not going to give up and optimistic and I'm all in. While I'm still learning, if I can be of any help, please hit me back anytime as I'd be more than happy to offer my perspective.
Cheers,
Omar
Here's the dropbox link to the profile / pics I've used and the profile screenshots are what I'm currently using:
https://www.dropbox.com/t/cpsgBX3EjjjYSGIO
I've worked with dating coaches & photographers and been misled and scammed by many over the years, as they seemed to be much more interested in taking my money and leaving me with a subpar profile and not truly being honest, or are clueless as to what would work best for me. I have some theories and ideas, but first I want to hear your perspective as I attached the current photos and profile I'm using on bumble / hinge / tinder and curious to hear your opinions as I'm very much determined to turn this around because its a New Year and despite the setbacks, and roadblocks, I've never given up, will continue fighting the good fight and determine to overcome this ongoing hurdle. Many thanks in advance for your help guys. There's some other pics, too many to grab from my Facebook, but I've included a link for you to peruse at your convenience:
So as you can see why I'm pretty frustrated, as I've tried it all, many professional photos and well and mediocre results, but I'm still not going to give up and optimistic and I'm all in. While I'm still learning, if I can be of any help, please hit me back anytime as I'd be more than happy to offer my perspective.
Cheers,
Omar