W G
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- Jan 4, 2023
Hi,
I'm having a hard time dealing with the bad outcomes when I cold approach. Don't get me wrong, I'm getting good results (1 phone number each 5 - 7 approaches) the problem is my mental state once they didn't reply back or they flake a date with me. The fact of having multiple girls not replying or simply not texting back after my first message is killing my confidence and makes me feel terrible.
Another issue it's me refreshing IG messages/text messages every 1 hours to verify if they texted me back, and it got to a point where it's distracting me from other tasks I have in my life.
My question is: How I can relax more when girls don't text me back and stop taking it so personal where it affects my self worth?
I know the answer is "approaching more girls" but the more I do it the more discourage I get once I just get hurt from it.
Stats: English not my first language, just moved to a new city in the States 10 months ago and have only a few friends. 2 months on AA program 2 months cold approaching (around 150 girls) 20 phone numbers, 2 dates, 2 flakes, 0 laids (from cold approaching)
Thanks in advance
I'm having a hard time dealing with the bad outcomes when I cold approach. Don't get me wrong, I'm getting good results (1 phone number each 5 - 7 approaches) the problem is my mental state once they didn't reply back or they flake a date with me. The fact of having multiple girls not replying or simply not texting back after my first message is killing my confidence and makes me feel terrible.
Another issue it's me refreshing IG messages/text messages every 1 hours to verify if they texted me back, and it got to a point where it's distracting me from other tasks I have in my life.
My question is: How I can relax more when girls don't text me back and stop taking it so personal where it affects my self worth?
I know the answer is "approaching more girls" but the more I do it the more discourage I get once I just get hurt from it.
Stats: English not my first language, just moved to a new city in the States 10 months ago and have only a few friends. 2 months on AA program 2 months cold approaching (around 150 girls) 20 phone numbers, 2 dates, 2 flakes, 0 laids (from cold approaching)
Thanks in advance