Lou said:
I do but BDSM is something I was attracted to since an early age and the idea of women being powerful and evil fascinated me so it was something that I naturally pursued to experience.
I had a girlfriend years ago who initially wasn't into BDSM but after watching some videos I showed her she kind of got into it and was a pretty decent dom. I have also been to pro doms in BDSM studios but, if you are not too sure about it I suggest establishing your limits really clearly before trying. Otherwise the pain or domination dynamics might become too much to handle.
BTW, I also like being dominant so enjoy both sides of the game. Establishing clear limits is always super important.
Cheers!
Bro, I love this. I’m a relatively new sub, but the more I’ve explored my sexuality, the more I realize that’s what I’m into. I can’t top without coming across inauthentic.
If you feel like you’d enjoy it overall and the idea of submitting is sexy to you, I’d highly encourage trying it with someone who knows that you’re new. The litmus test for me was really picturing that dynamic and seeing how that felt. If the idea of submitting feels gross or uncomfortable, then perhaps don’t.
Also Andy’s advice is good. Be aware of your bad attachment habits and watch out for them coming up. Although speaking more to people in general vs OP who posted years ago.