Triracial Model Girl (4th Cold Approach Date):
I saw this chick walking through a busy area on the ASU campus on her phone with her airpods in. I walked up to her and she takes out her airpods like “What” as if she is confused. I tell her that I am talking to her. I hit her with my usual opener and she seems receptive, but tells me that she’s in a hurry to class. She then asks if I want her number and I say yes, not eagerly. It did catch me off guard so I was like “damn that was fast” and she just said she likes to meet new people. I texted her the next day, instant response. Setting up the date was really easy, the only thing that I couldn’t get her to do was to come over to Phoenix. So I picked a place I liked in Tempe and she was down since it was close to hers. Okay could potentially go to her place after. Regardless she seems very excited to see me and we both are a little flirty over text too.
I left right after lab on Friday to go to our date. Wore some nice cologne though. I met her at the coffee shop. She’s hella cute and petite, wore a really nice outfit and had some kind of headband which I thought was cute. To me she looked like a white girl but she told me she is white, black, and native american. We sat down and the vibes were really good. She has a sweet personality, good sense of humor, and is very creative being into fashion and modeling. Overall also has a positive attitude. I did kind of ask her more about why she gave out her number that easily since I usually expect it to be some kind of challenge, but she said she liked my vibe and just wanted to try something new. Well okay, thats cool. I do a bit of kino with her accessories and not much more just cuz at the time the place was kinda more crowded than I expected, plus I figure its more important to do when it comes time to go somewhere private.
We head out of her place, and she’s 19 so I can’t say lets get a drink. I say we should go watch a movie at her place. She’s down. We get to her place, its nice. She is showing me some stuff around her room. Found out she is bisexual with a female preference from the flags she had in her room. That’s whatever. I am putting my arm around her a bit more when she is showing me stuff around her place. We sit down and put on some musical she wanted to show me. I figured okay I will just escalate during the movie. During the movie I make sure to move in closer slowly, and put my arm around her waist. We finished the movie and I told her I thought it was cool. She tells me she may have some stuff she needs to do, of course here I push it a bit more with the escalation. She shuts me down, says she is not ready for anything intimate. Also says usually if she wants to do that with anyone it takes years to build up that comfort. She brought up school and her side gigs and stuff about how that makes her mentally drained. I do challenge it a bit, just tryna present myself as someone who dgaf, and understands she is tired so I am just helping her chill. Or just a very simple this helps me see if I am compatible. I still get shut down, but she says she thinks I am a great guy and she is interested in seeing me again. I kinda felt bad though cuz she does have this sort of innocent vibe to her, and I wouldn’t be surprised if she was a virgin. Because of that I wasn’t as aggressive as I felt I should be, I just thought I would feel terrible.
It is an odd situation since she is very cuck but I had a ton of fun on our date so she could be gf material. Im fine going a bit slower but this doesn’t mean I am gonna slow down my efforts with other girls. I texted her during the weekend after our date which was amicable, but I didn’t text her for the week after since I was super busy and was going on other dates. I texted her later and set up another date for after my lab final where she agreed to come down to Phoenix. I will see what I can do here.
Tall White Girl (4th Lay):
Met this girl at my favorite coffee shop in the evening, she’s the same height as me but appeared a tad taller since she wore platform shoes. We get coffee and sit down on this couch.
Date vibes are chill, but I make sure to calibrate my physical touch. She’s receptive, convo is good. I throw in some future projecting, which she really likes. She and I have very good eye contact. The date ended really well despite it being brief, the coffee shop was about to close so not many people were around and I got pretty close in a moment to her so we kissed. Then we headed out to her car, kissed a bit more and then she left.
Second date she came straight over to my place. I brought her up to my room and let her get comfy. Initially I was hands off because I wanted to build comfort, so for a bit we were just talking about random stuff and life updates. I put my arm around her and immediately she came in close, so we started kissing. She is very handsy and I love that. She’s a great kisser too. We stripped each other naked and she def had a great body.
She was straddling me and I was kind of going slow, getting in the motions and she told me I can be more rough with her if I wanted to. I didn’t expect that at all, so I was a bit more aggressive when I was kissing her, and I went for her neck as well which she absolutely loved. I started sucking her tits for a bit and I was doing my thing, and she told me I could be rougher and wanted me to bite them. So I did, and she was moaning very loud. I hope my roommate next door was not there but if he was he better have a good pair of noise-cancelling headphones. I had a pretty good idea of where this was going so I told her quickly I had to get some water so I left the room real quick for water and popped a cialis while I was at it.
After a bit of that I turned her around and made her lay on me upright where my pillow was. I put my left hand on her tits and her neck sometimes, while my other hand was stroking her clit. She was absolutely loving it, but told me that usually isn’t enough to make her cum and preferred I finger her instead. I started off with one finger, and holy shit she was wet as fuck. And her facial expressions too just make me want to stick them deeper. I felt she was loose enough, so I put in a second finger which only amplified her pleasure. I went faster, watching her just get even more turned on. I haven’t done this much so my hand does get tired, but I only needed small breaks. Her moans are getting louder to the point I put my hand over her mouth, but its good she likes rougher sex so it works. She’s getting super close to cumming, and when she’s about to she starts raising her body a bit, and grabs the hand of mine thats fingering her and holds it in there as she orgasms on my hand. I took my fingers out and remarked how hot she was and made her lick her pussy juice off my fingers which she did so happily.
She really wants dick now, and I have another “oh shit” moment, but the cialis has started kicking in so I am not feeling limp. I go to my table, put on my cock ring, and lube up my dick before I put the condom on. I put some more lube on my dick to prevent the same mistake that happened last time from occuring. She’s laying on my bed in missionary position stroking her pussy waiting for me. I get to her, and I line up my dick with her pussy, and it goes in. But I think my nerves got the best of me and I came after a few thrusts. I pull out and apologized, and she was understanding thankfully.
After that I cleaned off my hands. We talked a little bit about sexual history just to be more open with each other. She told me she’s slept with only 3 other guys before, two of those are relationships and one was a fling. I was honest with her saying I am not super experienced but I have slept with 2 others (its 3 technically, but her 3 are not the same as my 3). It wasn’t too long a convo, because we got right back to making out. But cumming made me need to pee so I excused myself. Right after I came back she told me she had to go too. When she got back we got back to it, and I could feel my dick getting hard again. Honestly another thing I love about cialis is the quicker recovery time. She starts stroking it as we make out and I whisper in her ear to suck on it. She gets down on her knees and takes as much of it as she can. She’s doing a pretty good job, and while she’s down there I call her good girl, but she immediately stops and tells me she doesn’t want to be called that. Thats fine, I just say sure and let her continue. We get back on my bed to continue this. It goes on for a while, and I think I feel ready to try and fuck her again. I go put on the ring again and slip a condom on. I do get a bit scared I may end up nutting quick again but no, I’m actually doing it. I am finally having proper sex and not just “technically”. Missionary with her is really hot and she loves it when I thrust deep in her. Seeing her moan and move her legs up in the air is something else. After some more of that she whispers in my ear “My turn”.
She immediately gets on top of me, takes my cock, and guides it into her pussy. It is hitting her way deeper which she expresses to me. Never thought I would finally see that view but I made it happen. It feels so good, though my dick did fall out at one point which wasn’t a big deal at all. Mid ride she puts her hands back and leans while still looking at me. I can clearly see my dick sliding in and out of her pussy while she’s on top and its the hottest view of her she has given me all night. She does stop later though because she said it was hurting her knees. And she has told me before that she doesn’t have the best knees due to prior injuries. I just throw her back into the bed and fuck her in missionary again. She’s getting close to cumming again and since she likes it rough I start going faster but when I get tired I thrust harder but go a little slower. As I am going I start to feel her pussy tighten on my cock so I knew she just came on my dick. I came soon after. I let my dick sit in her for a bit before I took it out.
We cuddled some after the fact, and she asked me what I was looking for. I just said “good connections, but I am open to seeing where it goes”, she tells me she just wants something casual which has me relieved. She told me she spent the years her friends were out having fun in a shitty relationship so she wants to just chill and go with the flow. I also asked her why she didn’t like when I called her good girl and she said she lives with family that has a female dog and she doesn’t like being addressed the same way as the dog. That’s fine. I also asked about the rough sex thing, and she told me its just what she prefers. I told her I have never been told that and she said you can be as rough as you like and if you overstep I will let you know. She also said no anal, so I guess thats out. Nbd. She had something she needed to go to since she has family plans and lives at home. Im cool with that, so we get dressed and I walk her downstairs to her car, and kiss her bye.
This experience was such a boost to my confidence, and it should make future lays a whole lot less nerve-racking since I know penetration isn’t as big of a deal as I made it out to be. It isn’t some life changing event where you astral project into a state of intense nirvana like some ppl hype it up to be. Each lay I have made some improvement and fourth time was the charm I guess. I did right by enjoying the moment and taking it slow, turns out I need time to buildup too even when I know I want to fuck a chick. Thanks
@Olafsmash, I have reread that one post you made in response to my second lay many times. I hope I can see her again, but right now looks like she is super busy for a couple weeks. She is a slow texter too, which didn’t bother me much at all before but now that she could potentially be a FWB it does a bit. Ah well, still gotta go after more chicks.
Thick Middle Eastern Girl:
This is probably the oldest girl I have been on a date with. She is 27 years old. Looked okay from her profile, pretty face, and seemed sweet. I initially planned our date for the same day as my 4th CA date just in case the CA date flaked since I thought the chance was high. Luckily she didn’t so I just told her to reschedule to Sunday, which she said worked better for her.
We met up at this ice cream spot near my place. The interior isn’t that nice but she wasn’t available until later evening and that was the only close-by spot that was open. She is pretty tall too. I got her some ice cream and then sat down on the only couch there. Place is empty for the most part. She’s a chill girl, I found out she was in the Navy 5 years ago so I let her share some interesting stories from there. Now she’s using the GI Bill benefits to take classes because she wants to be an artist. Kinoing her is really easy. She has some visible tattoos so I use those to get in closer. I have been noticing when it comes to kino my calibration has improved. It feels like it comes a bit more naturally to me in some settings. She is kind of odd though as when we do lock eyes she does giggle, and says she is a bit awkward.
We head out of the shop and as we walk I tell her I am right down the street so we can just chill at mines. She agrees and we head there, I check her in and take her to my room. We talk a bit. I escalate slowly, then we start to kiss. I pull away a bit to bring her in, she does challenge me and say she usually doesn’t get to this point on a first date. In a kind way I am just telling her its not a big deal, and that she’s allowed to have fun. We make out for some time, and I try to strip her clothes off. She challenges me again on this, I just hit back with more of a “Im trying to have fun/create a chill space” sort of vibe. Thankfully it works, and its going good. She’s seems to prefer slow long kisses as opposed to some of the faster ones I have had with other girls. It threw me off at first but I got super into it as time went on and very turned on. She hella thick, kinda chubby but I don’t care. Her face is at least cute and she has a big ass. I think I am just mad horny I stripped her down to her panties but when I tried to take those off she swatted my hand away. She told me she was on her period and didn’t want to have sex. I straight up said its not a big deal, got resistance. Figured I would wait and try again. I tried again, same thing. She also told me she had a pad on so she didn’t want to take it off. I got more aggressive. I changed up my approach and did more dirty talk with her, kissed her neck, and fondled her tits. She was into it. I was doing a lot of this earlier in the sesh though. Still, it didn’t work. I figured it would be useless so I tried to see if I can get her to give me a blowjob by guiding her hand to my dick and seeing if I could get her to pull it out. This didn’t work either, tried it a few times. Her rationale was that if she did that she would want to go further but really didn’t want to cuz of her period. I had enough, it was a great makeout sesh but man that was some severe blue balls.
We did cuddle for a bit, talked about what just happened and about some other stuff. She told me that she thinks I am attractive, but also said I pushed her boundaries a lot. However she did say she was cool with it because I was nice about it and I made her feel sexy. Also said that if it wasn’t for her period we would have fucked.
She checked her phone and showed me on her Canvas app she had some assignments she needed to finish so she said she had to go. I walked her to her car and she drove off. We texted a bit the next day, scheduled a second date straight to mines. Date came around and she said she had to cancel cuz her brother was flying out. We rescheduled that date. Couple days later she called me to talk, and she was high lol. We talked a bit but then she said she didn’t want to do anything sexual. I wanted to make up for my mistake with the 3rd lay by not throwing her out just yet. We talked about it, I explained my POV of why I am intimate early even though I already did on our first meet. She seemed to understand, and said she did have an ex she was emotionally compatible with but not physically. And they didn’t start getting intimate until later. So she agrees to the date. Next day though I get a text from her saying with the fact she is 27 she wants to focus on serious relationships and not get intimate so early or just for the sake of having fun. Ah well, what a shame. An unfortunate circumstance took this lay away from me, but I did what was in my control and I am happy I tried my best.
