GN's Progress Log - Third Lay, Also First Time Getting Fatfished

[Akilles7]

I scheduled another date with her the next week, but the day before our second date she tells me she doesn’t want to do anything sexual because she wants to get to know me more first. I find this dumb because of the fact she gave me no resistance on our first date. Plus I can’t stand this whole takesy backsey bs. I just tell her she probably got in her head and there isn’t anything to worry about but she doubled down so I told her if she changed her mind to hit me up again. I got ghosted. Now that I think about it this was a bad response, I should have waited till my annoyance with the situation subsided before texting her. Ah well, more than likely I wouldn’t have gotten her over. Maybe if I wasn’t an idiot and actually used lube I would have been fine. Another lesson learned. I was a bit bummed I didn’t get to proper fuck this chick as having cialis and a cock ring didn’t make my erection an issue, so it should have been easy. Ah well, I still technically got the lay.

So glad u got this lay bro! Not quite sure why u needed to lie to her and tell her u busted instead of just telling her ur getting lube?

Regardless, that was a dumbass response to her text. She already posted in her profile she wasn’t looking for anything casual, but then fucked on the first date. She was basically repeating that in her text and setting up a repeat scenario. U should have just said, “okay. I respect that.” The 2nd date would have ended up with u guys banging again, I guarantee it.

U need find and maintain something consistent in order to convert more dates into lays. Trust me.

 

[Perseus]

U should have just said, “okay. I respect that.” The 2nd date would have ended up with u guys banging again, I guarantee it.

Second this, Ive had exactly this happen before and agreed to get drinks first, went back to her place after an hour and every date after that was straight to her place.

Congrats on the lay though and I thought the fatfish story was funny as fuck

 

[G.N]

So glad u got this lay bro! Not quite sure why u needed to lie to her and tell her u busted instead of just telling her ur getting lube?

I think u misread. I did bust, and I believed if I used more lube on my condom covered dick I wouldn't have nutted so fast.

Regardless, that was a dumbass response to her text. She already posted in her profile she wasn’t looking for anything casual, but then fucked on the first date. She was basically repeating that in her text and setting up a repeat scenario. U should have just said, “okay. I respect that.” The 2nd date would have ended up with u guys banging again, I guarantee it.

U need find and maintain something consistent in order to convert more dates into lays. Trust me.

It was, I just believed her putting her foot down would make the outcome of no sex unlikely and figured the date would be a waste of time since I didn't find her personality attractive enough to want to be more than an FWB with her. Our convo wasn't that great anyway so besides sex I felt no incentive to want to see her again, and when you take sex off the table there's nothing. I sound like a total asshole saying that.

Second this, Ive had exactly this happen before and agreed to get drinks first, went back to her place after an hour and every date after that was straight to her place.

Congrats on the lay though and I thought the fatfish story was funny as fuck

Interesting, I figured if I tried to pull she'd give me resistance since she likely now associates my place with sex after our first date.

If I ever encounter this situation again I will just meet outside, and try to pull after like an hour or so. If I am unable to overcome her barrier then it's cooked.