I've been meaning to ask these other tinder-related question also:
Is setting up dates one week in advance dead from the get go? Andys guide obviously tells you to schedule dates as soon as humanly possible, but seeing how I'm working till 10-11pm every day going forward through saturday, dates are basically on hold this entire week.
Backstory is that I matched randomly with a hotter-than-my-usual matches over the weekend, and lo and behold she's actually very responsive - even texted me questions like "so what do you like to do for fun?" and after I told her that I produce music sent me "You should let me hear your music one day" and the likes.
I fear that she'll go cold and lose interest during the week, and I realize this fear is coming from my current relative lack of options.
One part of me is thinking "Whatever, who cares if she lose interest? You've recently updated your profile with new, high quality pics, new matches will come, just have some patience"
and the other part is "
2.
I feel as though my text-game and the vibe I'm giving off through my profile isn't really congruent, as in I'm being perceived as being way more forward and direct - and that my text game tells chicks I'm actually more soft and "nice" like most other men.
Link:
https://tinder.com/@graastein
More often than not I'll text a girl a variant of "Hey sexy, I'm Thomas. What are you up to?" +template posted below if they have any kind of bikini/body pics.
For girls I feel are not as body-oriented, I'll go more soft. For these girls my go-to opener is usually NAME! and followed by the template of "What are you up to?" *she replies* "cool, so what do you like to do for fun?" *she replies* "You sound like fun to be around, lets grab a coffee to see if we click"
Profile text translation:
You know what they say when you find a four-leaf clover
(referencing my tattoo, (idea is she got lucky having me showing up in her feed, basically), shown in pic 4).
When I was young girls didn't like that I pulled their hair, funny how some things change.
32 / Capricorn (some chicks dig astrology and I'm semi-into it).