Sin Silver
Member
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2020
Ten years ago, I use to really struggle with women, I was a virgin, unfit, no style and had little to no social skills. That drive for sex and acceptance has been a massive motivator for my self-improvement, and I am really glad I did. Last year I had sex with five different women, including my first threesome.
I know five isn’t a lot compared to some people who live here, but it’s a lot to me, especially as I live rurally.
After some major self reflection and setting out some major goals at the start of this month, I realised that ‘more sex’ wasn’t one of them, but ‘build more meaningful relationships was.
Despite my sexual success with women in the past, I not actually good at forming relationships with them. I have only had three girls’ friends in the past, and I was never that enthusiastic about them.
I’ve been getting a lot of matches on bumble as well recently, but I find myself with a massive lack of enthusiasm.
There’s loads of good advice here on attracting and having sex with women, but very little on how to actually form meaningful relationships.
Does anyone have any tips or advice on how I can do this?
I know five isn’t a lot compared to some people who live here, but it’s a lot to me, especially as I live rurally.
After some major self reflection and setting out some major goals at the start of this month, I realised that ‘more sex’ wasn’t one of them, but ‘build more meaningful relationships was.
Despite my sexual success with women in the past, I not actually good at forming relationships with them. I have only had three girls’ friends in the past, and I was never that enthusiastic about them.
I’ve been getting a lot of matches on bumble as well recently, but I find myself with a massive lack of enthusiasm.
There’s loads of good advice here on attracting and having sex with women, but very little on how to actually form meaningful relationships.
Does anyone have any tips or advice on how I can do this?