Laurelius
Member
- Joined
- Dec 7, 2020
Hey all!
I got laid for the first time since I got to KYIL, and I figured I would post it here.
Some facts:
- I got here in December 2020.
- I started going to one of the best hairstylists in town. It costs twice a regular haircut, but it's totally worth it.
- I got my ears pierced, and started building a collection of earrings, necklaces, and rings.
- ATM, I'm 9 kilos heavier. I went from skinny to normal, which is a big improvement.
- I picked up photography, and spend a lot of time coming up with cool places to take pictures for me, my friends, and my girl.
- I'm in an open relationship. We got together three years ago and opened the relationship right before COVID (what a timing). December was the time I felt like going out again.
- My looks improved a lot. Nothing too spectacular, but I get compliments on a weekly basis. That didn't happen before. I also fucking love how I look, and I'm more competent at buying.
My goals are:
- Sleeping with three girls before the year ends (1/3)
- Getting to 85 kilos before the year ends (79/85)
- Have six cool pictures on Tinder (1/6). With "cool" I mean pictures that look casual, with good lighting, good posing, and killing looks.
The date
I've had two dates this far with different girls, but things didn't escalate. This time I matched with a 38 yo on Saturday and arranged a date on Sunday. I was super nervous: my only goal was to get there and allow myself to be as awkward as possible. Nothing further from reality: we got along super well, had a lot of fun, and ended up in a hotel (which is super common where I live).
Honesty
I've been bumped down the last couple of months: I couldn't manage to get a date and I was getting just a few matches, even though when I started using Tinder I managed to get two dates super fast. Then it hit me. I'm in an open relationship, and I have it on my bio and I mention it when I ask for their Instagram. I didn't do this at first: I think there is a line between honesty and giving away too many details. So I got back to what I did at the beginning: I'd just mention that I'm not looking for anything serious, without specifying why. Now I'm up again: I get about 5-10 matches per day (even though my profile is trash) and have two more dates lined up for the end of the week.
Let's see what happens then.
I got laid for the first time since I got to KYIL, and I figured I would post it here.
Some facts:
- I got here in December 2020.
- I started going to one of the best hairstylists in town. It costs twice a regular haircut, but it's totally worth it.
- I got my ears pierced, and started building a collection of earrings, necklaces, and rings.
- ATM, I'm 9 kilos heavier. I went from skinny to normal, which is a big improvement.
- I picked up photography, and spend a lot of time coming up with cool places to take pictures for me, my friends, and my girl.
- I'm in an open relationship. We got together three years ago and opened the relationship right before COVID (what a timing). December was the time I felt like going out again.
- My looks improved a lot. Nothing too spectacular, but I get compliments on a weekly basis. That didn't happen before. I also fucking love how I look, and I'm more competent at buying.
My goals are:
- Sleeping with three girls before the year ends (1/3)
- Getting to 85 kilos before the year ends (79/85)
- Have six cool pictures on Tinder (1/6). With "cool" I mean pictures that look casual, with good lighting, good posing, and killing looks.
The date
I've had two dates this far with different girls, but things didn't escalate. This time I matched with a 38 yo on Saturday and arranged a date on Sunday. I was super nervous: my only goal was to get there and allow myself to be as awkward as possible. Nothing further from reality: we got along super well, had a lot of fun, and ended up in a hotel (which is super common where I live).
Honesty
I've been bumped down the last couple of months: I couldn't manage to get a date and I was getting just a few matches, even though when I started using Tinder I managed to get two dates super fast. Then it hit me. I'm in an open relationship, and I have it on my bio and I mention it when I ask for their Instagram. I didn't do this at first: I think there is a line between honesty and giving away too many details. So I got back to what I did at the beginning: I'd just mention that I'm not looking for anything serious, without specifying why. Now I'm up again: I get about 5-10 matches per day (even though my profile is trash) and have two more dates lined up for the end of the week.
Let's see what happens then.