Squilliam
Member
- Joined
- Dec 30, 2021
- Goal
- Be happy
- Age
- 24
- Motto
- Pain is temporary, greatness lasts forever
I read Andy's timewasters article. I found the information to be very accurate and helpful. However, I realized that as a result, I started unmatching girls very hastily. So I started being pickier with which girls I unmatched.
Sometimes I'll get girls who will agree to my date and give me their number or social media, but they will say something along the lines of "lets talk for a bit more first". I just unmatched some girl who offered to give me her snap, because the way I see it, there is a 99.9% chance she is either:
a) a timewaster with zero intention of meeting
b) excessively cautious and therefore not the type to have casual sex
I should make it clear that I tell girls I don't want anything serious so if they're the second type then they should've filtered themselves out.
I guess what I'm asking is, should I have ever bothered trying to plan a date with that girl? Last time this happened, I did take her social media, and she responded with "can I get back to you". I called her out on it, and she got mega offended lol.
I have no reason to deal with annoying, high maintenance girls who want to be treated like a princess, when there are plenty of easy-going, nice girls. So I just unmatch these types of girls now.
My current FWB wanted to talk a bit before meeting but she gave me her number and showed interest in picking an actual time. She didn't respond to my date proposition with "lets talk more first" like these girls did.
So I guess my question is, are girls who say this ever worth my time? Or is unmatching them the second they say it fine?
Sometimes I'll get girls who will agree to my date and give me their number or social media, but they will say something along the lines of "lets talk for a bit more first". I just unmatched some girl who offered to give me her snap, because the way I see it, there is a 99.9% chance she is either:
a) a timewaster with zero intention of meeting
b) excessively cautious and therefore not the type to have casual sex
I should make it clear that I tell girls I don't want anything serious so if they're the second type then they should've filtered themselves out.
I guess what I'm asking is, should I have ever bothered trying to plan a date with that girl? Last time this happened, I did take her social media, and she responded with "can I get back to you". I called her out on it, and she got mega offended lol.
I have no reason to deal with annoying, high maintenance girls who want to be treated like a princess, when there are plenty of easy-going, nice girls. So I just unmatch these types of girls now.
My current FWB wanted to talk a bit before meeting but she gave me her number and showed interest in picking an actual time. She didn't respond to my date proposition with "lets talk more first" like these girls did.
So I guess my question is, are girls who say this ever worth my time? Or is unmatching them the second they say it fine?