AskTheDom said:
Ciao Luca, don't take personal the feedbacks you will receive, because we keep it 100% here, but we cannot "sugar coat" bitter as fuck pills, with that being said, let's go.
This profile is subpar to low quality and even by pumping boosts and matches, I won't yield much compared to the potential you have.
It gives nice guy - loner vibes trying too hard (see bio) with the achievements you had in life you should have a top 1% profile, this barely reflects ANY of your accolades - successes
Not taking it personally at all mate! I am here to improve and I do
love honest feedback. Not only that: I am the first one who is extremely honest when I evaluate myself!
Regarding the overall vibes of my profile this has been calibrated during the years with a completely wrong strategy in mind, that was exactly what you said: I wanted to tell girls "ehi sweetie, I am the high value tender-defender guy who is successful and dominant but which also could bring you hiking while holding hands". That made sense since I wanted a girlfriend, but now that I am more redpill aware (in the broadest sense) this simply just not what I think 1) could work and 2) I want.
So I just needed to move my ass and create a new profile from scratch asap, using something at the beginning before having the
perfect everything and then iterating.
1) Photo 1 - I assume is your first profile photo? Your eyes are flinching watching the sun, you project soft&nice guy vibes.
i'll hold your hand and propose on first date kinda vibes.
Your first photo should be a "show stopper" - like majority of guys swipe right at every single profile, girl swipe left at pretty much all profiles and check the other photos and bio of the ones that "get" their attention
2) Much better, probably your only usable photo. You show a "rugged" expression and a nice backdrop showing an hobby of yours ( Hiking) this could be a good 2nd-3rd photo
3) Ok to Negative photo, you look like a cool dad watching his kids playing instead of projecting "sexual animal" vibes
4) Remove this entirely, most of girls will have no idea and get confused, unless they are experienced rope bunnies which would be matching you to be tied up but nothing romantically. If you want to play with BDSM, you have to bring gasoline to the fire.
5) Okish but you can do better
Yeah mate, my photo sucks. I know, and Tinder's users know. I did a lot of cool things in my life without taking pictures because "muh I am not that type of stupid guy which take cool pictures every secondo and I just want to enjoy the moment". What a crappy bluepilled beta way of seeing the world in 2023
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So for now I just need to use this pictures for the first few weeks of adjustments, but as soon as possible I will take some high quality pictures of myself. I am just not entirely sure about how to show my past and present achievements with some photos. All my past experiences are gone and I cannot get back in time to get some cool pictures. So basically I just have to brainstorm how to project the vibes that I think I can project, that are something like
"I am a cool, assertive, exteoverted and dominant almost 30 decently tall man who travelled a lot, has read like 1000 books, has a lot of cool high value hobbies, founded a startup at 27, did 4 years of professional shibari, is a successful content creator with 25k followers that wants to have a lot of dirty sex with you"
Not an easy description to sell via photos, to be fair.
BIO:
Trash immediately your bio.
It comes off trying too hard to be cool but your photos project a different story.
Ditch entirely the youtube videos bio suggestions - you are in Italy so it would immediately remove a large portion of Italian girls, and the ones speaking English would be like "trying too hard - corny"
The foreigners would be "meh"
The just say hey line has been so over abused that If I had 1$ every time I saw it (or I'm a Dominant male) I would be writing this from the pool of my Dubai mega villa.
There are a couple of humble brags that are good but filter extremely hard ( I know what is soho house, do your avg hot blond big tits girl know it too?)
You say you are an entrepreneur and 6ft, your photos show the opposite of that
I hope my feedback helps
Yeah, this was entirely provisional, and I already know it was kinda shit. I experimented a lot during the course of the years with bios but I am really uncertain about how to show all the vibes about me that I told you before.
Regarding the entrepeneur thing, I don't want to mention that I am still in the initial phases of my business owner career and that I still haven't made money from my startup ideas, but at the same time this is what I am actually doing in my life: try to grow my social media presence and leverage it to try launching some business ideas. That's a turn-off if I explain it like that, I know, but at the same time I cannot fraud a million dollars bank account if I haven't one. How to solve this paradox?
Going into the specifics, I have had one question in mind for ages: should I write my bio in Italian or in English? When I was in the UK it was a no brainer problem, but now I am super unsure about that.
Also, should I be extremely brief or could it be good to go a bit longer on the bio? 'Cause from the getting laid with Tinder article it might seems it's not a thing but honestly I am not sure it would be the same in the pretty conservative italian dating market.
