MakingAComeback
MAC DADDY ;-)
- Joined
- Jan 19, 2021
- Goal
- Inner Game
- Age
- 33
- Location
- UK
Snippets from my daily performance coaching in my private group:
ON HOW ON MAXIMISE YOUR COACHING
IT IS ALSO YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO SHOW UP AND LEARN HOW TO BRING THE ENERGY AND SIMPLY "ACT"
FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT
"PRETEND" YOU ARE A MOTIVATED DRIVEN AND FOCUSED PERSON AND "PRETEND" TO BE RELENTLESS
AND IT WILL COME
-FOCUS is what gets outcomes. FOCUS. When people have a distraction problem, this creates a range of negative downstream effects. Maximising the ROI from what you're invested in, is a skill. Being FOCUSED on it, really extracting MAX VALUE from it. And sticking with it, and sticking with it, and MAKING IT WORK HARDER for you.
I have a body recomp coach. I have a biz coach. I have a dating mentors. And I have a therapist.
These, I am a long, long term user of. We get outcomes, so we just keep working, and we do not avoid the uncomfortable work.
We do not fail to confront where I suck.
If I am not implementing in diet, and I am not effectively resisting temptation, I do not give myself an out of saying, well, this just isn't working for me right now......
Rather, I think strategically.
How can I get MORE from this? How can I commit even fucking harder? How can I be a better student? How can I learn more, and be more dedicated?
How can I bring more energy?
What problem am I trying to solve?
What, specifically, is the problem I am trying to solve?
How can I put that problem FRONT AND CENTRE so I can focus on that, think positive about it, and solve it effectively, so it is DONE. Its handled. It's
sorted and no longer in my life. I've obliterated it.
I've done this with a bunch of things in my life. I FOCUSED on them. Gave them full attention, resolved them, and moved onto taking on other challenges and achieving other goals.
It's this, that no one wants to confront.
NO ONE!
So, ask yourself honestly, man - what is the problem you want to resolve?
We want to get that consistent income?
Then, where is the actual roadblock.........?
Is it, your approach is ineffective? What is going wrong, and what can be improved?
Is it, you are not aligned with your approach? If so, how can it be more aligned with you?
Is it, you're not feeling connected to what you're doing, you feel resistance, you don't feel inspired or feel scattered and fragmentred internally?
is it, that you just feel something is off.............?
HERE IS MY TRUTH TO YOU
MOST PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE AN INFORMATION PROBLEM
RATHER, THEY HAVE AN IMPLEMENTATION PROBLEM
Can I say this is you for sure?
No.
Because people are complicated, ever changing, ever shifting, and are multi dimensional beings. We need to nourish ourselves emotionally, spiritually, work through a lot of our beliefs, and actually change the thunderous and insane spirals/narrative in our own heads.
When the head clears up, we have the right mental models, and our biology is running pretty f**king good
We tend to thrive and implement like hell
As such, when people have good support in place, when they are using proven commodities, where outcomes should be created, I am remiss to add additional complexity to the equation.
Because, dude, often, the problem is actually US.
A thought experiment I used to do a lot:
"If I was truly David Goggins level driven, and threw all caution to the wind, and worked with passion, drive, dedication and my entire soul, from a place of deeply believing in myself, and telling myself I am awesome, and that I can absolutely succeed, and gave every ounce of energy and drive that I have in my mind, body and f**king soul to becoming GREAT, do I truly think greatness would be elusive for me? Do I believe that the Universe or God would be so cruel as to not reward a truly deserving person?
No. I do NOT believe that.
So, Ravi, how can you DESERVE the outcomes you seek? What can you do to EARN IT?"
ON HOW ON MAXIMISE YOUR COACHING
IT IS ALSO YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO SHOW UP AND LEARN HOW TO BRING THE ENERGY AND SIMPLY "ACT"
FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT
"PRETEND" YOU ARE A MOTIVATED DRIVEN AND FOCUSED PERSON AND "PRETEND" TO BE RELENTLESS
AND IT WILL COME
-FOCUS is what gets outcomes. FOCUS. When people have a distraction problem, this creates a range of negative downstream effects. Maximising the ROI from what you're invested in, is a skill. Being FOCUSED on it, really extracting MAX VALUE from it. And sticking with it, and sticking with it, and MAKING IT WORK HARDER for you.
I have a body recomp coach. I have a biz coach. I have a dating mentors. And I have a therapist.
These, I am a long, long term user of. We get outcomes, so we just keep working, and we do not avoid the uncomfortable work.
We do not fail to confront where I suck.
If I am not implementing in diet, and I am not effectively resisting temptation, I do not give myself an out of saying, well, this just isn't working for me right now......
Rather, I think strategically.
How can I get MORE from this? How can I commit even fucking harder? How can I be a better student? How can I learn more, and be more dedicated?
How can I bring more energy?
What problem am I trying to solve?
What, specifically, is the problem I am trying to solve?
How can I put that problem FRONT AND CENTRE so I can focus on that, think positive about it, and solve it effectively, so it is DONE. Its handled. It's
sorted and no longer in my life. I've obliterated it.
I've done this with a bunch of things in my life. I FOCUSED on them. Gave them full attention, resolved them, and moved onto taking on other challenges and achieving other goals.
It's this, that no one wants to confront.
NO ONE!
So, ask yourself honestly, man - what is the problem you want to resolve?
We want to get that consistent income?
Then, where is the actual roadblock.........?
Is it, your approach is ineffective? What is going wrong, and what can be improved?
Is it, you are not aligned with your approach? If so, how can it be more aligned with you?
Is it, you're not feeling connected to what you're doing, you feel resistance, you don't feel inspired or feel scattered and fragmentred internally?
is it, that you just feel something is off.............?
HERE IS MY TRUTH TO YOU
MOST PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE AN INFORMATION PROBLEM
RATHER, THEY HAVE AN IMPLEMENTATION PROBLEM
Can I say this is you for sure?
No.
Because people are complicated, ever changing, ever shifting, and are multi dimensional beings. We need to nourish ourselves emotionally, spiritually, work through a lot of our beliefs, and actually change the thunderous and insane spirals/narrative in our own heads.
When the head clears up, we have the right mental models, and our biology is running pretty f**king good
We tend to thrive and implement like hell
As such, when people have good support in place, when they are using proven commodities, where outcomes should be created, I am remiss to add additional complexity to the equation.
Because, dude, often, the problem is actually US.
A thought experiment I used to do a lot:
"If I was truly David Goggins level driven, and threw all caution to the wind, and worked with passion, drive, dedication and my entire soul, from a place of deeply believing in myself, and telling myself I am awesome, and that I can absolutely succeed, and gave every ounce of energy and drive that I have in my mind, body and f**king soul to becoming GREAT, do I truly think greatness would be elusive for me? Do I believe that the Universe or God would be so cruel as to not reward a truly deserving person?
No. I do NOT believe that.
So, Ravi, how can you DESERVE the outcomes you seek? What can you do to EARN IT?"