Lonely_Rottweiler
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- Dec 21, 2021
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I have A LOT of missed opportunities when approaching women because of the excuses I make in my head when I see them, and after a few minutes, when they're gone or when I'm lying on my bed, I feel bad about myself for being a coward.
so I'll list the excuses in my head and prove wrong these common excuses, and maybe I can cold-approach them better:
-She's on her phone
-She has a friend with her
-Earphones
-She's too beautiful
-She's alone, and I may look like a creep
-She looks uninterested in a conversation
-She has already seen me twice, and she might think I'm a stalker
-She looks younger/ older than what I'm interested in
-Tattoos
-Colored hair
-She looks busy
-She must have someone with her around here
-Cigarette/ Vape- I'm not repulsed, but I absolutely think that they're so cool
-Fuck, what was I supposed to say?
-There are too many people in this place
-She looks like my ex, and I'm afraid of a restraining order
-She's walking way past the speed limit
-Looks like she's waiting for a taxi/ cab, and I might disturb her
-I'm with my cousins. it would be too scandalous to approach a woman in front of my cousins
-I can't approach from behind
-Waiting for the "right time," i.e., a good conversation starter
-"What if I want to escalate with her how do you do it?"- I didn't even approach her yet
-Wearing a crop top, sports bra or anything revealing- them not me
-They have kids with them
-Zero or too much eye contact
I can cold-approach but only to a certain degree. Consider it as a tune-up on my cold-approach "skills," maybe?
I have A LOT of missed opportunities when approaching women because of the excuses I make in my head when I see them, and after a few minutes, when they're gone or when I'm lying on my bed, I feel bad about myself for being a coward.
so I'll list the excuses in my head and prove wrong these common excuses, and maybe I can cold-approach them better:
-She's on her phone
-She has a friend with her
-Earphones
-She's too beautiful
-She's alone, and I may look like a creep
-She looks uninterested in a conversation
-She has already seen me twice, and she might think I'm a stalker
-She looks younger/ older than what I'm interested in
-Tattoos
-Colored hair
-She looks busy
-She must have someone with her around here
-Cigarette/ Vape- I'm not repulsed, but I absolutely think that they're so cool
-Fuck, what was I supposed to say?
-There are too many people in this place
-She looks like my ex, and I'm afraid of a restraining order
-She's walking way past the speed limit
-Looks like she's waiting for a taxi/ cab, and I might disturb her
-I'm with my cousins. it would be too scandalous to approach a woman in front of my cousins
-I can't approach from behind
-Waiting for the "right time," i.e., a good conversation starter
-"What if I want to escalate with her how do you do it?"- I didn't even approach her yet
-Wearing a crop top, sports bra or anything revealing- them not me
-They have kids with them
-Zero or too much eye contact
I can cold-approach but only to a certain degree. Consider it as a tune-up on my cold-approach "skills," maybe?