Sisyphus said:
Bumping this. I'm interested in someone experienced with nightgame sharing their experience. It seems to me that club game requires a bit more finesse than day game or bar game or street night game.
I used to do nightgame a lot pre-pandemic and along with online dating, it was my only way of meeting women. What OP is doing can work but I think that clubs can only be done right if you are
there to have fun and not necessarily get laid. I live in Miami where the club scene is very cut-throat, super high cover charges and it is like $25 for a drink. The guys I know who got laid from club game were just fun guys who enjoyed the loud music and the energy so they could ease into the energy. Pickup guys I know who don't even drink struggle a ton with club game because they cannot match the energy.
IMO, having done daygame and street game, I think that it depends on the person. Club game can be easier in that intent is assumed and you do not have to build it. Guys are less likely to get approach anxiety in a club since the environment practically forces you to approach and a blowout is quickly forgotten. In street game and daygame, it is tough to break the approach anxiety, volumes are far less, and you have to build intent to show her that you are not some sketchy sales guy.
What worked for me in Manhattan with club game is going there to have fun. It is the only way you can deal with the deafening loud music and all of the other nightlife hazards.
Nightclubs are generally awful places to go these days to get laid IMO, at least from what I have seen. Women go out in big groups and you always have to game the group. Plus here in Miami, the nightlife doesn't really start till 1 AM yet can go till 6 AM, it really gets in the way of you needing to do other things.
IMO, club game is not harder per se when it comes to game itself. I'd argue that daygame is a lot harder because of how much you have to work to show intent and how awkward it can seem to the girl who usually has to be somewhere. The reason I argue that club game is harder is because of how it impacts your life outside of game itself. The nights staying up way past 2 AM add up in a big way and you are constantly sleeping in not getting shit done, feeling very unproductive in the process.
Even then, its not that you need better game for clubs but you just need more energy. I have to take a long nap and stay super energized before I can even go out to the clubs in Miami because that party goes till 5 AM. What I have realized is that there is no way that me or anyone who needs to do something with their lives can do this every weekend.