Ravi, Year 3: Self-Improvement Log - Data-Driven, Incremental Growth [HAPPY NEW YEAR]

[Rags2Bitches]

exactly. very few men actually do this but the ones that do usually manage to rack up tens if not hundreds of victims. hard to prove anything when a guy picks a completely trashed girl at a party and takes her into a room while she’s throwing up. has happened at least once to my close family and friends and majority of sexually active girls i know over 25yo. it is what it is

with that being said, i don’t think past “trauma”, however fucked up, excuses shitty behavior toward a stranger. a big part of adulthood is accepting whatever happened to you and moving on with full responsibility for your life.

it would be beneficial though for guys who don’t have close female friends to be aware of this phenomenon just like it would be beneficial for girls to be aware of “incels” and not write them off as “he just needs to believe in himself”.

 

[MakingAComeback]

Great points guys, totally hear you.

There are def some dark triad type guys out there who function differently from the rest of us and don't have empathy, feelings, etc - I have known them in the past, these traits actually made them successful in life and with women, but they left a lot of carnage in their wake.

You'll never see me act like that. It's not in me, like at all. Any woman who enters my life will be left better off and a happier, more fulfilled, more whole person. That, to me, is success. Period.

FRI 06/08/21

ACTION POINTS

-Gym
-Core
-Movement & Stretching
-Digital Marketing (3hrs)
-Video Work (Shoot, Edit, Upload)
-Cold Approach
-NightApproach

Will work harder today.

MAC

 

[Toast]

Any woman who enters my life will be left better off and a happier, more fulfilled, more whole person.

Filled with this dick LOL

 

[MakingAComeback]

Any woman who enters my life will be left better off and a happier, more fulfilled, more whole person.

Filled with this dick LOL

Hahaha!! For sure man, they can have this dick and everything else too, no problem at all.

Smashed an amazing gym session and trying to see if I can get a date tomorrow, have 2 responsive chicks.

MAC

 

[drz]

On reflection, any thoughts on why you had a strong sex drive that day?

 

[TimmyTurner]

SHIT, are you doing OK now? That's rough man!! Hope you are on the mend now.

MAC

It was absolute shit at the time but I'm out the other end now. Grateful it was so quick since some people have had it for months or had their good health completely fucked up because of it.

trying to see if I can get a date tomorrow, have 2 responsive chicks.

MAC

Oooohhhh sounds promising. Fingers crossed.

 

[MakingAComeback]

On reflection, any thoughts on why you had a strong sex drive that day?

Honestly, I feel a bit better about myself now. After fucking YEARS. I am getting some matches on Tinder/Hinge, I am getting some of them to give me their number, and some are up to meet. This is totally new for me, I thought I was fucking done and wouldn't be able to move forward, but I have made genuine progress and it's helped my mind in general. I feel happier. My broscience opinion is, my body and mind are finally ready, after 12 years of bullshit, and something deep inside knows: I can do this.

SHIT, are you doing OK now? That's rough man!! Hope you are on the mend now.

MAC

It was absolute shit at the time but I'm out the other end now. Grateful it was so quick since some people have had it for months or had their good health completely fucked up because of it.

trying to see if I can get a date tomorrow, have 2 responsive chicks.

MAC

Oooohhhh sounds promising. Fingers crossed.

Damn bro that is fucking horrible! I am stoked you recovered, that is majorly good news, it's a good job you are ripped and healthy, all that work you did paid off big time!

Regarding date: I have 3-4 girls who are receptive to meeting, 2 couldn't do today, but can do next Saturday, so I will try to double book them lol. One is an hour drive away, I'll take her for a drink, and the other will be 30 mins back down the other way.

At any rate, things ARE improving for me, I am now kind of obsessed with success, so I will keep getting ripped, bodied up, looksmaxxed, and will keep building confidence and social skills through endless approaching.

It was absolute shit at the time but I'm out the other end now. Grateful it was so quick since some people have had it for months or had their good health completely fucked up because of it.
MakingAComeback

My sense of taste changed 4 months AFTER covid - meat tastes rotten, there's no distinction between sour things, a lot of things taste like soap It's pretty shis + all of the extra complications of headaches, breathing issues etc.

DAMN SON, that is scary as fuck.

I am SO glad I do a tonne of health stuff as part of my process, every single day, need to make sure I am healthy strong and vital enough to kick covid's ass if it ever comes knocking. What a horrible virus, I hate that shit.

MAC

 

[MakingAComeback]

OK brothers so happy to give you an update on yesterday:

FRI 06/08/21

ACTION POINTS

-Gym (DONE)
-Core (DONE)
-Movement & Stretching (DONE)
-I.F (DONE)
-Digital Marketing (3hrs) (DONE)
-Video Work (DONE, shot, editing and uploading today)
-Cold Approach (DONE)
-NightApproach (DONE)

SO, successful day yesterday....

COld approach: there were 0 women around in my dead ass city, so I went home knowing I will have to work hard at night to build this approach muscle.

And I actually DID.

Night approach: sooo many gorgeous girls in this club, I went on my own, lol. 12 approaches in total!! I was sober, drove there and back.

ALL of these I went direct, apart from 1 or 2, generally I approached the girl: "Hi, you're really pretty, I wanted to say hi" and talked for a bit.

1st: Group of 3, guy interrupted (1)
2nd: Second girl, unreceptive (2)
3rd: Third girl, unreceptive (3)
4th: Fourth girl (4) actually chatted, was super nice, I went direct and it was useful. She had a boyfriend, and told me to find someone else, lol. She was nice, I held her hand and kind of stroked it and she stroked mine which felt good. Little things like that go a long way when coming from the shit I have believe me.
5th: Fifth girl (5) pulled away by friends, she was pretty as hell
6th: Sixth girl (6), she just gave a funny look, think she was with a guy
7th: Seventh girl, she was not receptive (7)
8th: Eighth girl (8, talked , thenbriefly her bud came)
9th: OK, so here, I just grabbed this super sexy chick by the waist and got her to grind on me. She did a bit, and then left me to it, but she had a great ass and I got a good feel - this was not really conscious, sort of just happened, lol.
10th: Tenth (10th) just danced with this chick
11th: Talked briefly, danced, some dude came up and stole her lol. Happens. No fucks given. She saw me later and was giving me eyes, come on lady, make your mind up. Nah.
12th: On my way out, just high five a cutie and left.

Came home, felt good about the work I did, but not gonna lie, was damn near thermonuclear with horniness. It's coming back.

I will have to go out again tonight.

Keep hammering,
MAC

 

[Crisis_Overcomer]

1st: Group of 3, guy interrupted (1)
2nd: Second girl, unreceptive (2)
3rd: Third girl, unreceptive (3)
4th: Fourth girl (4) actually chatted, was super nice, I went direct and it was useful. She had a boyfriend, and told me to find someone else, lol. She was nice, I held her hand and kind of stroked it and she stroked mine which felt good. Little things like that go a long way when coming from the shit I have believe me.
5th: Fifth girl (5) pulled away by friends, she was pretty as hell
6th: Sixth girl (6), she just gave a funny look, think she was with a guy
7th: Seventh girl, she was not receptive (7)
8th: Eighth girl (8, talked , thenbriefly her bud came)
9th: OK, so here, I just grabbed this super sexy chick by the waist and got her to grind on me. She did a bit, and then left me to it, but she had a great ass and I got a good feel - this was not really conscious, sort of just happened, lol.
10th: Tenth (10th) just danced with this chick
11th: Talked briefly, danced, some dude came up and stole her lol. Happens. No fucks given. She saw me later and was giving me eyes, come on lady, make your mind up. Nah.
12th: On my way out, just high five a cutie and left.

B B B B B B B BEAST MOOOOOOOOOODE

 

[Holden]

Awesome

 

[Jacobpalmer123]

god dam 12 approaches nice work dude

 

[MakingAComeback]

Thanks fellas!!! Let's go for 20 tonight!! Back out, this time driving to a city that's a bit further out, well not that far, 40 mins away. Will park up and find a club. Just building the approach and socialising muscle.

Body progress pics on Tuesday.

Hustle never stops!!!

MAC

 

[TimmyTurner]

Night approach: sooo many gorgeous girls in this club, I went on my own, lol. 12 approaches in total!! I was sober, drove there and back.

Jheeze, amazing job. Looking to emulate tonight. I haven’t been out solo in so long my body is itching to go.

 

[SamJ_]

OK brothers so happy to give you an update on yesterday:

FRI 06/08/21

ACTION POINTS

-Gym (DONE)
-Core (DONE)
-Movement & Stretching (DONE)
-I.F (DONE)
-Digital Marketing (3hrs) (DONE)
-Video Work (DONE, shot, editing and uploading today)
-Cold Approach (DONE)
-NightApproach (DONE)

SO, successful day yesterday....

COld approach: there were 0 women around in my dead ass city, so I went home knowing I will have to work hard at night to build this approach muscle.

And I actually DID.

Night approach: sooo many gorgeous girls in this club, I went on my own, lol. 12 approaches in total!! I was sober, drove there and back.

ALL of these I went direct, apart from 1 or 2, generally I approached the girl: "Hi, you're really pretty, I wanted to say hi" and talked for a bit.

1st: Group of 3, guy interrupted (1)
2nd: Second girl, unreceptive (2)
3rd: Third girl, unreceptive (3)
4th: Fourth girl (4) actually chatted, was super nice, I went direct and it was useful. She had a boyfriend, and told me to find someone else, lol. She was nice, I held her hand and kind of stroked it and she stroked mine which felt good. Little things like that go a long way when coming from the shit I have believe me.
5th: Fifth girl (5) pulled away by friends, she was pretty as hell
6th: Sixth girl (6), she just gave a funny look, think she was with a guy
7th: Seventh girl, she was not receptive (7)
8th: Eighth girl (8, talked , thenbriefly her bud came)
9th: OK, so here, I just grabbed this super sexy chick by the waist and got her to grind on me. She did a bit, and then left me to it, but she had a great ass and I got a good feel - this was not really conscious, sort of just happened, lol.
10th: Tenth (10th) just danced with this chick
11th: Talked briefly, danced, some dude came up and stole her lol. Happens. No fucks given. She saw me later and was giving me eyes, come on lady, make your mind up. Nah.
12th: On my way out, just high five a cutie and left.

Came home, felt good about the work I did, but not gonna lie, was damn near thermonuclear with horniness. It's coming back.

I will have to go out again tonight.

Keep hammering,
MAC

Amazing work man! Going out sober alone at night to approach is no small feat, I still don't even do it because it's pretty intimidating and in my experience the girls are usually much harsher with their rejections than during the day time. You got great reactions, way better than I typically get, and hopefully that'll boost your confidence for daytime approaches. I think once you figure out how to apply direct approaches to daytime environments (essentially doing the same thing you did only maybe not asking them to grind on you if u approach them on the street lol idk) you will have even better luck during the day! But again, amazing job, congrats man

 

[MakingAComeback]

Thank you brothers!! Hustle does not stop, yesterday had a solid day, hit my actions, went to the gym, went for a 60 min run, did intermittent fasting, and went to hang out with my brother. We were trying to find some healthy stuff, but we ended up getting steak, which was great. I then dropped him off, was 10pm at this point, I rested for 35 mins whilst listening to the savage David Goggins, and then went out again solo!!! Drove up to another city, parked up, and hit the club.

20 approaches! Took me from 11-430am to do this shit boys, had to work hard, building that approach and socialise muscle, changing this brain. Drove home, got back at 5am, my brother was watching the UFC, I just lay down for a few hours and now up, ready to enjoy my Sunday and attack life. Think I will go for a several hour hike alone and do some self reflection.

SAT 07/08/2021

Approaches:
Mostly direct, some more indirect, especially towards the end. Just had to talk to 20 girls by any means necessary.

1. Receptive, talked briefly
2. Unreceptive
3. Unreceptive
4. Unreceptive/scared (edging back hahah)
5. Unreceptive / had a boyfriend, she looked pissed too
6. High five/ unreceptive
7. Really cool girl, she actually talked for a bit and was chill, she had a boyfriend
8. Direct approach, nice girl
9. Unreceptive, 2 girls
10. Said hi, chick walked off
11. High 5, very unreceptive
12. Said hi, unreceptive
13. Said hi, talked briefly, walked off
14. Two more, sat on a swing, it was super late they were quite drunk, talked to both, one gave me her number, went for make out on both no success lol. They were hot as hell. Just sat in that swing vibing for a bit holding both their asses. Small steps on the path to victory. The girl who gave me her number facetimed me randomly on the dance floor, and I saw she was with her boyfriend - standard stuff.
15. Said hi, chick was Super mad got threatening
16. Another, talked a bit, she was super drunk, kinda unreceptive, she and her friend walked off lol

Now its mad late, and I still have to approach 3 more.

17. Just spoke to two chicks, said hope you had a great night
18. Same as before
19. Asked a girl if I could get a hug, which she did
20. Said goodnight to two walking home

Got to the car, whipped back home, built this brain a bit stronger and also what I didn't note here is that I socialised with a tonne of guys they were cool as fuck in this city. However, the girls were extremely unreceptive/had terrible attitudes. I am not coming to this city again. It's cool, there are many other cities around here and I am happy to go wherever.

MAC

 

[MakingAComeback]

Well, the numbers last week were at just 16. Now, we're at 48. We will get there. It will be at 5k soon enough, then 10, 20...to the moon

Running Totals: Cold Approach (Day & Night)
No of approaches: 48
Numbers: 1
Dates: 0
Intimate encounters: 0

MAC

 

[MakingAComeback]

Night approach: sooo many gorgeous girls in this club, I went on my own, lol. 12 approaches in total!! I was sober, drove there and back.

Jheeze, amazing job. Looking to emulate tonight. I haven’t been out solo in so long my body is itching to go.

Did you go out? I hit 20 approaches last night solo/sober.

I'll be in London on the 21st, am going to try to see if one of my leads I matched with there comes through for a date, but either way, will do some approaches in the day and night. I'll message you a few days before, come through, we can approach together if ya want but would be good to meet you at any rate.

Keep hammering,
MAC

 

[MakingAComeback]

OK brothers so happy to give you an update on yesterday:

FRI 06/08/21

ACTION POINTS

-Gym (DONE)
-Core (DONE)
-Movement & Stretching (DONE)
-I.F (DONE)
-Digital Marketing (3hrs) (DONE)
-Video Work (DONE, shot, editing and uploading today)
-Cold Approach (DONE)
-NightApproach (DONE)

SO, successful day yesterday....

COld approach: there were 0 women around in my dead ass city, so I went home knowing I will have to work hard at night to build this approach muscle.

And I actually DID.

Night approach: sooo many gorgeous girls in this club, I went on my own, lol. 12 approaches in total!! I was sober, drove there and back.

ALL of these I went direct, apart from 1 or 2, generally I approached the girl: "Hi, you're really pretty, I wanted to say hi" and talked for a bit.

1st: Group of 3, guy interrupted (1)
2nd: Second girl, unreceptive (2)
3rd: Third girl, unreceptive (3)
4th: Fourth girl (4) actually chatted, was super nice, I went direct and it was useful. She had a boyfriend, and told me to find someone else, lol. She was nice, I held her hand and kind of stroked it and she stroked mine which felt good. Little things like that go a long way when coming from the shit I have believe me.
5th: Fifth girl (5) pulled away by friends, she was pretty as hell
6th: Sixth girl (6), she just gave a funny look, think she was with a guy
7th: Seventh girl, she was not receptive (7)
8th: Eighth girl (8, talked , thenbriefly her bud came)
9th: OK, so here, I just grabbed this super sexy chick by the waist and got her to grind on me. She did a bit, and then left me to it, but she had a great ass and I got a good feel - this was not really conscious, sort of just happened, lol.
10th: Tenth (10th) just danced with this chick
11th: Talked briefly, danced, some dude came up and stole her lol. Happens. No fucks given. She saw me later and was giving me eyes, come on lady, make your mind up. Nah.
12th: On my way out, just high five a cutie and left.

Came home, felt good about the work I did, but not gonna lie, was damn near thermonuclear with horniness. It's coming back.

I will have to go out again tonight.

Keep hammering,
MAC

Amazing work man! Going out sober alone at night to approach is no small feat, I still don't even do it because it's pretty intimidating and in my experience the girls are usually much harsher with their rejections than during the day time. You got great reactions, way better than I typically get, and hopefully that'll boost your confidence for daytime approaches. I think once you figure out how to apply direct approaches to daytime environments (essentially doing the same thing you did only maybe not asking them to grind on you if u approach them on the street lol idk) you will have even better luck during the day! But again, amazing job, congrats man

It was pretty good, I actually have mostly done my approaches in the past at night, it is a real confidence and social skill builder for sure.

I will keep hammering. Def gotta lose this weight as a priority, I know if I maxed my looks out it could give me a decent dating life.

Keep hammering,
MAC

 

[MakingAComeback]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fb6sfkQwEZo

“Apollo knocks him down in the 14th round for the 30th time, and even Rocky’s coach, Micky, is telling Rocky to stay down. Apollo turns around, he turns around, he thinks he got this guy, he thinks he beat him. He thinks he finally took this guy out, this guy who kept coming at him, and coming at him, and coming at him. Apollo Creed turns around and puts his arms in the air. He turns his back to Rocky, just assuming he’s down. Everybody in the crowd is saying stay down. Everybody. This guy is climbing the ropes to get back up, totally destroyed. Nothing left. But he found something. And this is the thing about it. He found something. And I watched this guy get up, and once he gets up, Apollo Creed turns around and sees this.

And the look I saw, most people don’t even see this, the look I saw on Apollo Creed’s face was a look of total awe, of “Who the hell are you? Who am I fighting?”. It looked like Apollo Creed’s soul left his body. And Rocky got his gloves and motioned him to come on. Apollo Creed put his head down, and shook his head. Why that scene resonates with me so much, was because I was so far in a dungeon in my life, and I felt like I was so deep in a hole, with nowhere to go, with so many issues, and so many things to climb over, and overcome, on my own, I wanted every obstacle and every person who ever doubted me to look like Apollo Creed.

I wanted the people, whoever it was, people, obstacles, whatever, to look at me like, this guy is going to continue coming after me. I wanted what Rocky had, the ability to keep getting up. I don’t care if I win, I don’t care if I’m the best, it’s not about being the hardest man in the world, I just want to keep coming after you. Through years and years and years of visualising that scene, of that guy just getting up, it’s just a movie to some people, but to me, it became what my reality had to become.

I had to become that guy who could run on broken legs going through Hell Week, who could endure the most pain, the most suffering. To get to where I have to go, I am going to have to be that guy, and a lot of people will never understand that, because a lot of people don’t have that mind set. But we all have that.

I came from nothing, but the thing about it is, we all have the abilty to come from nothing and become something, but it takes that kind of spirit, it takes that kind of spirit...”

-David Goggins,
The King of No Excuses

 

[drifter]

Hey man,

Thanks for the comment in the introduction thread. I first saw you on Andy's podcast and was very impressed with your attitude and will to change (it rubbed off on me). I am convinced you'll get laid with a real woman any time soon at the speed you're progressing.

Keep it up.