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I, Chamele0n, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hello!
I have been lurking on this forum for a while now but now it is time for me to start posting since my life has started to progress.

I want to master game and I want to connect with others who want to do the same.
 
I, Soho, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm based in London and I'm passionate about self-improvement and lifelong learning.

Main goals for 2024
-Meet and seduce 4 beautiful girls from daygame, 4 hotties online and 4 from nightgame this year.
-Get to B2 in French by the end of the year (currently around A2).
-Read 18 books (2/18)
-150 workouts (4/150)
 
I, Haris, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

24 from Pakistan, want to move to Thailand as premarital sex is a crime here (people do hookup but you have to be very secretive)

My 6 month goals:
Lose 24 kg ( currently 97kg)
Save up some money to move out of my parents home to a different city (eventually a different country)
Learn web development, digital marketing, video editing and graphic design and start freelance work
 
I, finaplix58 , commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

My goals:

- Improve my online dating profile
- Improve the quality of girls I sleep with
- Get a new job in sales
- Move cities
- Get tatted
- Improve my fashion
 
Hello all. I am a 26 year old male residing in Las vegas. I've been reading KYIL for a while, I have tried to implement the things I've read. I am struggling out here to achieve anything. I don't know if I just suck, if Vegas is playing on hard mode, or if tinder has gotten exponentially harder in the years since andys guide, or what. But I am not getting much done despite many tears and what feels like to me a lot of effort. Still I, Zekler, am serious about achieving my goals and am willing to put in the work.

I get next to no matches and most of the time they are fugly and fat. I have tried to looksmaxx myself, with mixed results. Anyways, my goal is to essentially stop my bitchlessness. I can not think of anything else, nothing else matters when you have 0 cute females caring about you. I don't care about money, I don't care about friends, I don't care about some career. That said, I have some savings, some sorta friends, and a semblance of a career. All those things are on hold right now.

All I can really think about is my state of bitchlessness. I really am willing to do most anything to remedy it, but reading things online like Looksmaxxing forums and seeing the state of the world at bars (the only place I know to meet people) is disheartening. I am unfortunately about average height, feels like that doesn't cut it anymore. I won't give up though.

Goals:
Get a couple cute girls to have sex with me and enjoy their company inbetween the sex.
Gain Musculature to the point of people saying I "look aesthetic/good" shirtless
 
zekler said:
Hello all. I am a 26 year old male residing in Las vegas. I've been reading KYIL for a while, I have tried to implement the things I've read. I am struggling out here to achieve anything. I don't know if I just suck, if Vegas is playing on hard mode, or if tinder has gotten exponentially harder in the years since andys guide, or what. But I am not getting much done despite many tears and what feels like to me a lot of effort. Still I, Zekler, am serious about achieving my goals and am willing to put in the work.

I get next to no matches and most of the time they are fugly and fat. I have tried to looksmaxx myself, with mixed results. Anyways, my goal is to essentially stop my bitchlessness. I can not think of anything else, nothing else matters when you have 0 cute females caring about you. I don't care about money, I don't care about friends, I don't care about some career. That said, I have some savings, some sorta friends, and a semblance of a career. All those things are on hold right now.

All I can really think about is my state of bitchlessness. I really am willing to do most anything to remedy it, but reading things online like Looksmaxxing forums and seeing the state of the world at bars (the only place I know to meet people) is disheartening. I am unfortunately about average height, feels like that doesn't cut it anymore. I won't give up though.

Goals:
Get a couple cute girls to have sex with me and enjoy their company inbetween the sex.
Gain Musculature to the point of people saying I "look aesthetic/good" shirtless

If you want to send me photos of your profile in DM I can try to help. I can send my profile as well for feedback
 
I, RecoveringNiceGuy, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I live in New York City and my top goals for this year are to:
-Get laid
-Build meaningful relationships with girls I’m excited about (could be short, medium, or long term)
-Quit my job and start my own business
-Make new friends outside of my existing social circle
-Continue developing a strong, non-needy mindset
 
I, Crimp, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm planning to starting a log sometime soon.

Wishing everyone best luck on whatever your journey is.
 
I, Adventurer, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Most of the rest of my life is sorted out. I always planned to put serious dating off into my late 20s or early 30s, and now... that's the present. Going to grind hard putting in the reps.
 
I, Terminator, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I used to go by the same name on the old GLL forums. Those who were there at the same time will remember me. It was around 8-10 years ago.

I did the Approach Anxiety program at the time, lost my virginity, got laid with a bunch of chicks (lost count after ~50). I still somehow managed to fuck up my life after that, went deep into drugs and alcohol, got clean (7 years clean now!) but never really pulled myself together in terms of women again.

So long story short, now I'm 35 and the last time I had sex that I actually enjoyed has been like 4 years ago. I've had some sex every now and then, but with females I wasn't super attracted to and I've been battling issues with my libido and sex drive. I'm not gonna go into all the details here, there will be time for that when I start my log.

I'll just say I'm finally ready to do something about this, glad to be back, glad to see you all. I truly need help, but at the same time am also looking forward to becoming a productive member of this society as I was on GLL.

So for now... goals...:
- Get laid
- Sort out libido / sexual dysfunction

(Btw, I originally registered on here like 1½ years ago but never posted an intro or activated the account. I just wasn't ready. The time just wasn't right. Hope that's not a problem in terms of the forum's rules...)
 
I, Julius, comit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

18 from Germany living in Asia.
Currently completing sixth form getting ready for uni.
Am a comp sci student.

Goals:
Bulk up to 80kg (currently 75kg)
Become that confident guy
Approach 100 women
Half sex with at 20
Become the best version of myself (productivity wise) by fully dedicating myself to my timetable and deep work sessions.
 
Terminator said:
I, Terminator, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I used to go by the same name on the old GLL forums. Those who were there at the same time will remember me. It was around 8-10 years ago.

I did the Approach Anxiety program at the time, lost my virginity, got laid with a bunch of chicks (lost count after ~50). I still somehow managed to fuck up my life after that, went deep into drugs and alcohol, got clean (7 years clean now!) but never really pulled myself together in terms of women again.

So long story short, now I'm 35 and the last time I had sex that I actually enjoyed has been like 4 years ago. I've had some sex every now and then, but with females I wasn't super attracted to and I've been battling issues with my libido and sex drive. I'm not gonna go into all the details here, there will be time for that when I start my log.

I'll just say I'm finally ready to do something about this, glad to be back, glad to see you all. I truly need help, but at the same time am also looking forward to becoming a productive member of this society as I was on GLL.

So for now... goals...:
- Get laid
- Sort out libido / sexual dysfunction

(Btw, I originally registered on here like 1½ years ago but never posted an intro or activated the account. I just wasn't ready. The time just wasn't right. Hope that's not a problem in terms of the forum's rules...)

Yeah I remember you! I was a lurker at the time.

We are keeping it alive, Scotty is literally my business partner, Andy who was a mod, handed the forum over to me, we've got the lineage and legacy of GLL here.

And now we have absolute OGs like you here, also.

I welcome you wholeheartedly, and I will help you with all of these issues.

In this forum, we know a lot about libido, ED, and sexual issues.

And we want guys like you, who are serious, to post on these boards and really enjoy their time here.

Welcome. We are a very respectful, compassionate brotherhood. We open our arms and hearts to all, regardless of challenges. We have members who battled/are battling substance use (Scotty himself was battling that for 7 years, by the grace of God he is now doing well), and I myself had substance misuse issues in my early 20s, which I overcame using deep healing and spiritual practices.

I always love to see solid GLL guys here. Please start a log and lets get behind you.

-MAC DADDY
 
I AshTripp118 commit to focus and work on my goals this year.

Hello Everyone,
I am AshTripp118. Quick intro about me.

19 years old
currently a college student
virgin
weigh 72 kgs
20 percent bodyfat
Goals: Sleep with 1 girl before the end of next month
Inspiration: Ravi and Andy. Seriously loved these both guys and what they have done for me even without being present here. Also Cam and Scotty (Brian Harris) have been absolutely fundamental for me to post here.

absolutely stoked about getting started. Lets Fucking go
 
Hi,

I, anotherguy1773, commit to focus and work on my goals this year

About 7 years ago I've moved from Russia to the UK for study and work
My first few years had very little social interaction. I'd just waste time playing hoi4 and arguing online. Then covid didn't help either. Eventually I decided to put some effort into getting better socially and with girls. I started exercising, improving my appearance, talking to people more.

I did make some progress, however, during the last year I've cold-approached about a 1000 women, and yet only got a few dates with zero lays. I'm clearly doing something wrong, is it my depression, autism, accent, something else. I'm looking for various information online on how to improve, thats how I found this forum.
My goal is to have sex with one girl
 
anotherguy1773
welcome brother!

as a fellow "hundreds approacher" who didn't get any results for a long time, you have landed in the right place.

start a log and let's get you laid
 
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