Big in Europe
Member
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2022
Sup,
I've been out of the game for a few years and returning back, I don't get a lot of quality matches on OD. I used to get some model-tier material and I'd get like 5 matches a day. Now it's like, two or three matches a day (even with Tinder Platinum) and they're almost all fat. I got some really cute chicks matched but they all ghosted.
It's probably a combination of my style and my shit quality of photos. Or maybe even the age, I'm now 33 whereas before I "got out" I was 28. Not that number is a problem, but I show up to fewer chicks and I look older.
I grew longer hair, which I know can be a filter to some chicks, but at the same time, I've never had so many girls IRL checking me out and flirting with me as now, so it must be the shit quality of photos rather than the hair. I know "conventionally speaking", I looked "better" with the usual boring undercut/stubble combo, but I probably give off more confidence or look more interesting to chicks IRL like this. I'm at a point where I'm convinced I'd have more success just cold approaching lol (I've done a few but haven't really started seriously). So, I don't wanna cut my hair just yet. I wanna try and make it work as it is. Just mentioning this first because I know it will probably be the first feedback.
I made my Tinder profile a month ago with some selfies and random older photos I found, just to see if it would work, or if I'll have to scrap it and start all over, get quality photos, delete my profile and remake it etc. I tried to do it my way and it doesn't work, so now I'm open to some brutal critique.
So here is my shitty profile:
https://tinder.com/@czechmatebro
I'll post it in pictures below if you can't access it + I'll try to find my old profile (I had a screenshot saved somewhere) for comparison, where I had better matches
I've been out of the game for a few years and returning back, I don't get a lot of quality matches on OD. I used to get some model-tier material and I'd get like 5 matches a day. Now it's like, two or three matches a day (even with Tinder Platinum) and they're almost all fat. I got some really cute chicks matched but they all ghosted.
It's probably a combination of my style and my shit quality of photos. Or maybe even the age, I'm now 33 whereas before I "got out" I was 28. Not that number is a problem, but I show up to fewer chicks and I look older.
I grew longer hair, which I know can be a filter to some chicks, but at the same time, I've never had so many girls IRL checking me out and flirting with me as now, so it must be the shit quality of photos rather than the hair. I know "conventionally speaking", I looked "better" with the usual boring undercut/stubble combo, but I probably give off more confidence or look more interesting to chicks IRL like this. I'm at a point where I'm convinced I'd have more success just cold approaching lol (I've done a few but haven't really started seriously). So, I don't wanna cut my hair just yet. I wanna try and make it work as it is. Just mentioning this first because I know it will probably be the first feedback.
I made my Tinder profile a month ago with some selfies and random older photos I found, just to see if it would work, or if I'll have to scrap it and start all over, get quality photos, delete my profile and remake it etc. I tried to do it my way and it doesn't work, so now I'm open to some brutal critique.
So here is my shitty profile:
https://tinder.com/@czechmatebro
I'll post it in pictures below if you can't access it + I'll try to find my old profile (I had a screenshot saved somewhere) for comparison, where I had better matches