STICKY: Manga's Tinder Guide - Lessons from 9 girls in 6 weeks

[colgate / bulldog]

bumping this thread because i am trying to follow this now (should honestly be linked in KillYourInnerLoser's guide and pinned to the forums somewhere), and this is the best supplement to the main tinder guide

 

[Manganiello]

bumping this thread because i am trying to follow this now (should honestly be linked in @KillYourInnerLoser's guide and pinned to the forums somewhere), and this is the best supplement to the main tinder guide

Gracias.

It's funny reading it now that I know a bit more.

But I still wouldn't change it.

Key point in the guide is Hustle.

 

[Radical]

I thought this was pinned tbf

Done now

 

[Asst]

Thanks for sharing your experience. As I remember you aren't from a densely populated area. How did you communicate to girls so they come to you, even if they are slightly further away, like going 40mins with their car?

 

[Manganiello]

Thanks for sharing your experience. As I remember you aren't from a densely populated area. How did you communicate to girls so they come to you, even if they are slightly further away, like going 40mins with their car?

I didn't do anything different.

Tbh most girls would drive at most 25 minutes. Seems like anything more than that was flake city.

I moved downtown for that reason actually.

 

[Asst]

Thanks for sharing your experience. As I remember you aren't from a densely populated area. How did you communicate to girls so they come to you, even if they are slightly further away, like going 40mins with their car?

I didn't do anything different.

Tbh most girls would drive at most 25 minutes. Seems like anything more than that was flake city.

I moved downtown for that reason actually.

Did you ever go to the girls or they all came to you? Thinking about maybe going there on the first date since I'm quite good at having fun conversations with people/women.

 

[Manganiello]

Did you ever go to the girls or they all came to you? Thinking about maybe going there on the first date since I'm quite good at having fun conversations with people/women

Nothing ever came out of that in terms of lays.

Keep in mind I was saying
"let's grab a drink, flirt and see what happens next."

Which pretty much meant sex.

And the girl would say. Let's meet at this place 20km away AFTER I had already suggested a place.

Girl wants to control the date, wants to avoid a lay, and just trying to waste your time at that point.


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I'd only ever consider doing that if the
1) the girl was super hot
2) I was trying to not smash on the first date.

Just go hard on tinder for a month and most of these questions will answer themselves.



It sounds so trivial. But logistics is one of the most important factors for you getting laid. You should be maximum 8 minutes walking distance from the venue of your first date to where your place.

 

[Foducossy]

Best times to boost have consistently been 8-11pm. I would stagger boosts so I'd boost at 8:00, 9:20 and 10:30... Boosting the instant the other one ended didn't seem to net extra marches. Where as catching girls who log into tinder at different times really helped (8,9,10)

Boosts are now quite expensive, 6 pounds each if you get a pack of 10. They last 30min, but if you use two boosts you get 2h (so double the value). How have you adapted your boosting strategy from 2021?

 

[Manganiello]

Best times to boost have consistently been 8-11pm. I would stagger boosts so I'd boost at 8:00, 9:20 and 10:30... Boosting the instant the other one ended didn't seem to net extra marches. Where as catching girls who log into tinder at different times really helped (8,9,10)

Boosts are now quite expensive, 6 pounds each if you get a pack of 10. They last 30min, but if you use two boosts you get 2h (so double the value). How have you adapted your boosting strategy from 2021?

Might need to get an account created in another country.


I've almost exclusively used bumble since Jan 2022. I have premium and don't need to boost at all on it.


I can fill my week up with dates from the leads I get from 10-20 minutes.

...

To be more specific tho, if I had to spend that much per boost. I literally would create an account using a different country. By installing emulators on my computer and buying a phone number from a different country.

I wouldn't deviate from the boosts.

Volume is critical for progressing fast and creating true abundance.

 

[Foducossy]

Boosts are now quite expensive, 6 pounds each if you get a pack of 10. They last 30min, but if you use two boosts you get 2h (so double the value). How have you adapted your boosting strategy from 2021?

Might need to get an account created in another country.


I've almost exclusively used bumble since Jan 2022. I have premium and don't need to boost at all on it.


I can fill my week up with dates from the leads I get from 10-20 minutes.

...

To be more specific tho, if I had to spend that much per boost. I literally would create an account using a different country. By installing emulators on my computer and buying a phone number from a different country.

I wouldn't deviate from the boosts.

Volume is critical for progressing fast and creating true abundance.

Makes sense, thanks! I'll look into this. I have a spare phone and am happy to wipe it and start it afresh in a different country. Problem is I won't be able to use Tinder on my own personal phone right? I'd have to keep going back to the spare phone.

 

[Manganiello]

U need to do your research.

But you could try bluestacks on your computer. Download tinder on bluestacks using a GPS set for Nepal. And then buy a Nepalese number to create the account and get texts.

 

[MakingAComeback]

Made sticky

 

[mikkel]

Manganiello If I'm correct, your results were based on heavy boosting. I did my first boost a few days ago and that kinda completely killed my results. What I mean by that is I've received 0 likes after that. I only received a few when boosting 30min and now my profile is "dead".

Is this normal?

 

[Manganiello]

@Manganiello If I'm correct, your results were based on heavy boosting. I did my first boost a few days ago and that kinda completely killed my results. What I mean by that is I've received 0 likes after that. I only received a few when boosting 30min and now my profile is "dead".

Is this normal?

Ya it really depends where you are.



if you ignore pictures, your results will be mostly determined by location.



- How big is the city?
- And how many guys to girls are there on the app?

If your city is small. You're going to get few leads. If your city is big, but there's lots of dudes for every 1 girl. It's going be slow.



For me...


A boost in my city of 1.3 Million got 6-10 likes on average.

But then I come to Seoul which is 25X bigger & I'll get 3-5 likes.

In my old city there were 3 guys competing for every 1 girl.

In Seoul there are 27 guys for every 1 girl.

So 25x bigger, but 9x more competition, and I'm not going to appeal to every girl as a foreign speaking white guy in Korea.

... So boosts were largely valueless here. Tho I did score with them.




generally speaking,


You should be using all the big apps concurrently and spending money on all of them. In Canada I got laid from Tinder primarily, but was using all the apps. And in Korea I got laid primarily from Bumble, and was using all the apps.

Don't think about the silver bullet. Think about using a lot of lead bullets. And eventually the best girl source will become apparent.



And if that doesn't work, it's because no one is using the apps in your location, your location is too small, or your profile sucks.

So you gotta move, look better, or get better pics.



... All that being said, people have said some boosts in their city are useless. I've used travel mode and visited many cities. I haven't found that to be true for me.