Toast's Tinder 👻Ghost Chronicles👻

[Crisis_Overcomer]

she wants to grab a drink and play pool. Not my cup of tea or ideal date in the slightest. I know a bar that has a pool table so ima bring her there and just hope its full and then go for movie pull without wasting time playing pool. Might even screen her and see if shes dtf and then bounce and not play pool. Idk ill have to think about it
100% do not want to waste an hour drinking and playing pool

Ya know, you could just tell her you're not down for this idea and suggest a simple drink. The point of having a plate is that you can say no to requests you don't like, not become a beta cuck

 

[Toast]

she wants to grab a drink and play pool. Not my cup of tea or ideal date in the slightest. I know a bar that has a pool table so ima bring her there and just hope its full and then go for movie pull without wasting time playing pool. Might even screen her and see if shes dtf and then bounce and not play pool. Idk ill have to think about it
100% do not want to waste an hour drinking and playing pool

Ya know, you could just tell her you're not down for this idea and suggest a simple drink. The point of having a plate is that you can say no to requests you don't like, not become a beta cuck

Lol shit ya, good point
I will do that

 

[Toast]

Interesting turn of events with a chick from tinder. Looking for input from anybody with experience in this unique situation.

Matched with a chick. Converted to a number quite quickly. Didnt even get through the whole script and she suggested talking over whats app.

Hit her up on there. Tried to set up a date twice but she defelected.

She asked what i was looking for on the site.
I said "im looking for a girl to put a baby into. jkjk. im not looking for anything serious, but you never know"
She thought it was funny and said "shes looking for someone whos open minded and to work through her kinks."
her kink being that she is a cam show girl. She asked if i was down to give it a shot.

Ive never done anything like this before so im interested.

EDIT

Further coneversing with this chick. It seems as though she is just trying to get me to pay for a show lol

Just wondering if anybody else has encountered this situation before.
Her texts seem somewhat scripted and Manganiello thought so as well.

She probably just farming dicks on tinder for her show but whatever.
Shes hot and this is unique so im not opposed.

Input appreciated

 

[Dewm]

Yeah I get cam girl matches all the time they only farm tinder to get dudes to pay for their cam site they never ever not once in a million years meet the dudes. They're just looking for orbitters.

 

[Toast]

Yeah I get cam girl matches all the time they only farm tinder to get dudes to pay for their cam site they never ever not once in a million years meet the dudes. They're just looking for orbitters.

Makes sense. I figured was much as well as the chick got farther along

 

[Reservoir]

I find that whenever you try to invite a girl out or get her digits and she comes up with a counter-proposal ("lets chat some more first", "send me dirty pics first", "check out my camshow" etc)... things don't go your way if you follow her lead.

Her response is either "alright, I'm down for meeting you!" or it's something that'll end up wasting your time.

 

[Holden]

Yep. "Let's talk some more on here [Tinder]" is an instant unmatch. Nothing good ever came of it.

Nowadays I also tend to swipe left on girls who only put their IG handle in their bio and nothing else and if they have those classic wannabe Instagram model poses on there. Just looking for followers. I like to think that me swiping left on these hot girls also helps my own ELO score, but that's pure speculation on my part.

 

[Toast]

Her response is either "alright, I'm down for meeting you!" or it's something that'll end up wasting your time.

Good thought to have on this issue.

Nowadays I also tend to swipe left on girls who only put their IG handle in their bio and nothing else and if they have those classic wannabe Instagram model poses on there.

Yup, tons of those her in San Francisco. Just girls trying to sell their onlyfans or increase follow count

Thanks for the input

 

[Toast]

Little update

None of my dates followed through over the weekend

1 New number - Date set up for Wednesday at 6
Flake rescheduled for Wednesday but I haven't given the time or location. Don't really care cuz she was annoying. Ill shoot her a text in the morning and fully expect her to ghost 100%

Got a number of a girl who unfortunately flew back home to japan. Fuckin bombshell of a girl. She said she wants friends/ tour guides lol. Will be back in January. Ill text her occasionally to keep the vibe alive but wont really put much effort into it. Having a hot Japanese girl as a friend would be cool but it ultimately has a less then 1% chance of going anywhere.

Stats so far:
5 Boosts
117 Matches
112Numbers
1 Date
5 Flake?
1
No P in V

 

[Radical]

When you gonna make the move towards Japan yourself? Next year?

 

[Toast]

When you gonna make the move towards Japan yourself? Next year?

Submitting my application for a 1 year student visa as I'm typing this. If all goes according to plan, the school accepts my application, and the country opens next year then ill be over there in April. If the country stays closed and the school accepts my visa. I'm just sitting on my hands until the travel ban is lifted and ill have a fast track as soon as it opens.

 

[Toast]

Date ghosted today. Hit her up a few hours before and no confirmation text. On to the next one ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[Toast]

Im not dead everyone lol. Still just doing my thing.

Boosted today cuz I was bored.

13 likes, 4 matches.
Whittled down to 10 girls messaged
1 converted to a number.
1 said "for sure yea" and never gave number - big titty asian chick who I wanted to convert the most lol. Thats how it goes. What u want doesnt happen.

I work 9-5 and weekends off now so my schedule is way more open for evening dates. No time constraint to go to work after a date at 7pm lol.

 

[pancakemouse]

13 likes, 4 matches is crazy good for a Boost.

In San Francisco I'm lucky to get two matches I actually like even from a Sunday evening boost - 90+% of the Boost likes I get are fat chicks. I generally only swipe on 6.5s or above though...

 

[Radical]

Damn pancakemouse San Fran sounds horrible if that counts as a great boost there

Glad to hear you're alive Toast

 

[pancakemouse]

The problem with SF is that if you have high standards it's really hard to get laid consistently. I did pretty well on Tinder 2016 and 2017, 15-20 lays a year. Then I basically had my fill and said "I'm gonna go after 7s or better". San Francisco probably has the least amount of women above a 7 than any other major US city. 7s in SF are basically treated like 8s and 9s in other major cities - unbelievable amounts of male attention.

 

[Dewm]

Damn @pancakemouse San Fran sounds horrible if that counts as a great boost there

Glad to hear you're alive @Toast

Can confirm San Francisco is horrible. lol I kid but it's a fun city in it's own right.

 

[Sprezza]

San Francisco probably has the least amount of women above a 7 than any other major US city

Can confirm San Francisco is horrible

Any reason to why it is like that? SF seems like a very cool city to visit

 

[pancakemouse]

San Francisco probably has the least amount of women above a 7 than any other major US city

Can confirm San Francisco is horrible

Any reason to why it is like that? SF seems like a very cool city to visit

Which types of women a city attracts is all about what the city values.

San Francisco values: counterculture, tech, career, new age hippies.

Girls go to San Francisco because it values them for their brains, not their beauty. It's a good place to find intelligent, socially conscious women.

But if you want beauty: Vegas, Nashville, and Miami are all markets that value pure looks.

 

[Radical]

It was tbh, one of my least favourite cities to visit in the US as a foreigner

However i had some really good food there at Kitchen Story