RobbyRhomboids
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- Joined
- Apr 2, 2021
Hi guys,
I made an account here in about April and I've lurked occasionally but I've finally felt the need to shift into first gear.
I'm 22 living at home with my parents. My original plan was to move to Europe and go to med school, but I failed the entrance exam there by 3 questions and very quickly tried to think of a solution to my issue. I decided on pursuing medicine here and taking the MCAT in spring. I'm working essentially full-time hours as a part-time morgue technician right now and make about $40,000 a year from this. My work is absolutely miserable, but I was willing to hold out given the short timeline until I would get into med school. As of late though I've been incongruent regarding medicine and whether it is really what I want to do though and have lost that laser-like focus that I've had these last 3 years.
My parents are wonderful people, but they easily persuade me into these fantasies about moving to Europe and if I'm honest I'm not entirely against the ideas that they suggest as I love the lifestyle in Western Europe (my family is originally from Malta) but I feel like I'm not really making decisions for myself. I was planning on moving out in November, buying a car, and staying in the US but I'm conflicted now.
As of early this year I was still in school, had no license, and had only 1 lay in my life. I've now gotten some more experience with women (4 total lays), I've gotten my license and have ample driving experience on my own, have a decent amount of money saved up, and have started a powerlifting coaching business with 2 of my friends (not enough to provide liveable income yet).
I still want to pursue some higher education be it med school or a master's in some field related to fitness but I'm not sure what I want in this regard either, no matter how much I try to think about it.
I also want to get better with women, but I've gotten into a bit of a mental fuckup because of this one chick I was talking to and don't think it would be good to pursue getting laid more right now when there are more important issues ahead of me (moving out, getting a car, figuring out what I want to do with my career).
Just guessing, I came here and wrote this in an effort to talk this through with like-minded, unbiased people. My friends, and my parents have given me advice but both sides are entirely way too biased and the flip-flopping is a bit overwhelming. I've just haven't felt so unsure of myself like this for quite some time.
Rob
I made an account here in about April and I've lurked occasionally but I've finally felt the need to shift into first gear.
I'm 22 living at home with my parents. My original plan was to move to Europe and go to med school, but I failed the entrance exam there by 3 questions and very quickly tried to think of a solution to my issue. I decided on pursuing medicine here and taking the MCAT in spring. I'm working essentially full-time hours as a part-time morgue technician right now and make about $40,000 a year from this. My work is absolutely miserable, but I was willing to hold out given the short timeline until I would get into med school. As of late though I've been incongruent regarding medicine and whether it is really what I want to do though and have lost that laser-like focus that I've had these last 3 years.
My parents are wonderful people, but they easily persuade me into these fantasies about moving to Europe and if I'm honest I'm not entirely against the ideas that they suggest as I love the lifestyle in Western Europe (my family is originally from Malta) but I feel like I'm not really making decisions for myself. I was planning on moving out in November, buying a car, and staying in the US but I'm conflicted now.
As of early this year I was still in school, had no license, and had only 1 lay in my life. I've now gotten some more experience with women (4 total lays), I've gotten my license and have ample driving experience on my own, have a decent amount of money saved up, and have started a powerlifting coaching business with 2 of my friends (not enough to provide liveable income yet).
I still want to pursue some higher education be it med school or a master's in some field related to fitness but I'm not sure what I want in this regard either, no matter how much I try to think about it.
I also want to get better with women, but I've gotten into a bit of a mental fuckup because of this one chick I was talking to and don't think it would be good to pursue getting laid more right now when there are more important issues ahead of me (moving out, getting a car, figuring out what I want to do with my career).
Just guessing, I came here and wrote this in an effort to talk this through with like-minded, unbiased people. My friends, and my parents have given me advice but both sides are entirely way too biased and the flip-flopping is a bit overwhelming. I've just haven't felt so unsure of myself like this for quite some time.
Rob