countingsheep7878
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- Jan 23, 2022
So I just got back from a date with the hottest girl I have ever been on a date with. The chemistry was great and she had a lot of qualities I desire in a partner. However she had 2 deal breaker qualities for me. She was extremely religious (I am agnostic and believe in LGBT rights which didn't align with her core beliefs) and she was far too prude (28 year old virgin who had never had an orgasm and was waiting for marriage which I think I could have gotten her to break but it would have taken far too much time).
Now the old me who had a scarcity mentality would have tried to make this work because we clicked on many levels and she was crazy hot but after I drove home I immediately texted her and told her that she was a cool chic and we had great chemistry but that I didn't think we were a good fit and shouldn't pursue another date.
The point is when you pursue abundance (cold approach is such a crazy unlock to new opportunities) walking away from a beautiful girl who I like many parts of is not something I will sweat if she has deal breaker qualities).
So fellas just keep that in mind. Get an abundance mindset, sack up and cold approach (you won't die, I promise) and get enough numbers / dates to not care about walking away from the hottest girl you have been on a date on to date because there is an even hotter one that fits you better just around the corner!
Now the old me who had a scarcity mentality would have tried to make this work because we clicked on many levels and she was crazy hot but after I drove home I immediately texted her and told her that she was a cool chic and we had great chemistry but that I didn't think we were a good fit and shouldn't pursue another date.
The point is when you pursue abundance (cold approach is such a crazy unlock to new opportunities) walking away from a beautiful girl who I like many parts of is not something I will sweat if she has deal breaker qualities).
So fellas just keep that in mind. Get an abundance mindset, sack up and cold approach (you won't die, I promise) and get enough numbers / dates to not care about walking away from the hottest girl you have been on a date on to date because there is an even hotter one that fits you better just around the corner!