Recent content by ziva

I would say this is a good starting point. It seems like you're willing to nurture the relationship in a way that feels comfortable to you, and maybe a bit uncomfortable in the future. You can take it slow and see how you feel along the way.

-If you'd ask me, I would say the relationship you're the happiest with. If you can speak to him relatively openly, and y'all don't really fight/argue, that's already healthy. If having the occasional chat is all you want the relationship to be, that's totally fine. That's pretty much what the...

Love the consistency! Keep it going

Good job man!

Thanks man! I indeed see the majority of the relationships around me not being the healthiest. If I didn't had Andy's YT channel or you guys on the forums, I might've thought bitter relationships/lots of arguing is normal. Technically it is, but fuck normal. That shit sucks haha ;).

I hear you man. I can't believe how they're both so comfortable with being disrespected by each other all the time.

I agree brother. Even bad examples hold lessons.

Man this is exactly what I'm thinking! My grandma used to tell my mom "At this point, you want this. Because the 2 of you are still together". My mom doesn't like this response, so she kinda stopped talking to my grandma about her relationship.

Haha yup. She understands where I'm coming from when I say "you 2 are not forced to be together", but she does nothing with it. Relationship counselling sounds like something I would do for fun. Just to see what it might bring. Don't think my mom would tho

Alright man, thanks for your reply. I knew there had to people out there who have better relationships than the ones I'm constantly exposed to. I think the part I quoted above is very powerful. You immediately checked your girl when she started becoming disrespectful, with real consequences...

I would like to hear some different opinions on relationships. I haven't been in one as of yet, but my mother has been in one for nearly 10 years now. Long story short, I don't like her relationship at all. I'm taking dating more serious right now, so who knows, I might be moving to a...

Good shit man! This is how I lost my virginity too. My experience also wasn't that enjoyable at all. I don't even remember how it felt (it was 2 years ago by now, haven't had sex since). I hope your next experiences are better for you!

Ay thanks b

I've been thinking about continuing to cold approach. As of now online dating isn't really netting me any dates, and I do still have to take and upload DSLR quality photo's. So in the meantime I want to cold approach. I've also read some nice stories about cold approaching on this forum, so it...

I agree. If you can work yourself up to a point where you don't even want to watch porn and fap, that's when you will actually see success. You can think about porn, feel the sensations, and still go "Nah I don't even want to do that because of (your personal reason)". I think the reason for not...