what girls and where? can you share your profile and dm me some of the girls you bang? i'm not getting shit on tinder in Italy. I saw your pictures and i'm pretty sceptic, are you in thailand or something? Are the girls young and hot?
Anyway ig is the most important thing, i'm doing social circle game and night game name, the goal is hot girls age 18/23. Did you read the part where i explained why ig is important? you replied like you didn't read anything
This post really highlights your mentality. Your mindset is absolute garbage and you have a lot of work to do,
1. People with any sense will not share photos of girls they are banging. Girls value reputation and discretion over everything else. To send you these photos would be a breach of that trust for no actual gain. Right now you’re an angry man on the internet who hates himself,
no one has anything they need to prove to you.
2. You think Sparkles must be lying based on his photos when he offers advice. Then you go on to say well if he is telling the truth, he must be in Thailand where it's "easier". Then you are asking if they are young and hot or it doesn't count, which is giving uncle touchy vibes.
3. IG is a powerful tool, but you are not really in a position to compete with the people who are already doing well on there. In fact, based on how you view and approach things, I would wager you are 1 heart break away from taking a long walk off a short pier. This is not to be mean (and please
never consider anything like this), but it's probably for the best that you haven't seen a ton of casual success right now.
I remember you have been doing work on your mental health, but I think you need to do a ton more work before you can get anywhere. If you actually had the hot lay and it broke off after 3 months (which is the average running time of a casual encounter unless you are also a viable boyfriend), you would fall apart. It's clear reading the last few posts that you're too ego invested in hot lays rather than fixing things one step at a time and getting regular lays.
From my side, My socials are all private and I've never struggled to get girls out on dates. In fact, the dating profiles I used based on your other comments would probably be deemed by you as bad against the professional Tinderchad, even when my results have always been good.
I almost hit report on your post to warn the mods that I think you're in too dark a place to be interacting with people on these forums. You are bringing down the mood and are a potential risk of doing something stupid and bringing a negative light on the community. To give grace here, the fact that you are posting, means you are semi-invested in improving. To that end, here are some actionable steps you can choose to take to improve your situation:
1. Keep seeing a therapist and deal with those feelings of inadequacy. You need to be able to put these behind you so you can actually see and hear people who're trying to help you
2. Date outside of the age range you are targeting. Go older. This is odd to suggest, but I think you would benefit from seeing success and building some self confidence. You are caught up in drama of early 20 year olds and have been tarnished as creepy for doing actually creepy things. So go fish in a different pond (late 20s, early 30s) and try to have successful dates. You don't have to sleep with anyone, but get some matches and convert those leads into dates, learn to talk to girls on dates and build the confidence that you can be hot. When you can do that, you will be better placed to go and fish in the age range you want.
3. Consider moving, it sounds like where you're fishing is really bad for you. With an EU passport, you can go anywhere, so abuse the shit out of that opportunity! I would suggest checking out some places with strong English to move you away from your drama and let you test your profile in new places.
4.
Start being attractive, stop being unattractive (which in your case is stop doing unattractive things)
This will come across as me shitting on you (and I am), but rather than leaving this and pointing to your story as a cautionary tale for future members, there is a good opportunity for you to turn it around and become a success story. You're working on photos and that's a good thing. Your logs should do more talking about progress and things you are doing to improve and not only your failures or self perceived flaws. By all means you can say I did X, I got Y result which sucked, but you could then also look into how you would improve on this in the future.
